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my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do?
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You may think he is an angel, but if he makes you feel insecure, get rid of him. Everything you just said are signs of an unhealthy realationship. GET OUT NOW!
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try talking to him about it (alone) if he doesnt listen hes not the right guy for you.. no guy should treat a girl like that. period.
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Sorry to hear that your boyfriend is a jerk around other guys. He is not a good boyfriend if he calls you stupid and prude because you don't do shit with him. You do not have to do anything with any one if you don't want too! I can see that you wouldn't want to do stuff with him in front of his friends too! Tell him that you don't like how he acts in front of his friends and that you are uncomfortable doing stuff in front of him. In my eyes, he is not a good boyfriend. Good luck!
-Brianna
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get a new boyfriend, thats so mean! and wrong!!!
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im really sorry, and i wish that he wouldnt do that anymore!
pray
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa
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tell him you dont want to always do things infront of his guy friends just so he looks good.. do what you want when your with him.. if he doesnt leave you alone when you want to be left alone.. you should break up with him.. he might be using you just to look good infront of his friends.. if he really loves you he will understand you.. hope it helps
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tell him in a sweet way that you dont like the way he is treating you and that your not something to show off to your friends and to treat you the same way as he does when you guys are alone when you and him are wth his friends if he doesnt understand it wasnt meant to be if he does he really cares about you he is a keeper
hope i helped
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My opinion is that if he acts this way in public, its only a matter of time before he acts that way in private. You really need to get rid of this guy. He is trying to get you to do things in front of his friends to show them how much power he has over you. He is a jerk, you can do better than him.
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If he treats you badly in front of his friends... it's only a matter of time or his temper and he'll be treating you badly in private too. Run like hell to get away from this jerk.
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you might not want to break up with him, but if he can't treat you the same way in front of his friends as he does when you're alone with him then he's not worth it, if anything he's lucky to have you, he sounds like a real jerk off
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My boyfriend is the type that when he is around friends he thinks he has to do everything that they are doing!My solution was telling him that I was not comfortable doing stuff in front of people because I do have a little something called self respect!! But, sweet doesn't count in a relationship if you don' have respect and sounds to me like he doesn't have any for you!!
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i think you should sit him down and talk to him i mean guys are jerks maybe he is a show off and what you need to do is tell him what he is doing and tell him you dont like it how it makes you feel and tell him if things dont change then your going to break up and if he says fine and ya'll break up then he wasnt worth it and plus you can find somebody else
i hoped i helped
best of luck for ya'll and keep me posted k
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Your b/f is in the category of boys who gets influenced alot by his peers. He really doesn't want to or mean to hurt you, in front of he's friends. He wants to show them that he can ask you to do anything and you'll do it. But when you don't it seems he has no power over you, and then he's embrarassed.
First tell him u don't like it and he should stop treating you that way. If He tells you that "you are lucky to have him," then girl, he thinks you are dependent on him. And it's not good for a guy to feel superior in a relationship. He's not worth your unhappiness-> There are other guys who can be sweet 'when nobody's around' and more swwet when everyone is around. Find that guy, or he'll come to you. Let me know how it goes.
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