ok so here it is.
3 guys.
3 different grades.
3 problems.
Yes, it's true, i kinda like 3 guys.
one in 7th, one in 8th, and one in 9th.
I am in 8th.
The 7th grader, i've been out with this past year,
the 8th grader i have also been out with this year, and the 9th grader i havnt been out with, i just like a lot, but he has a gf.
both the 7th and 8th grader like me.
i have no idea what to do.
Oh, The Joys of teenage Years!
Looks like you've been gettin' emotionally busy. Don't worry, You were bound to go through this.
My advice: Before you think of what to do with all three, think "do i want to date now?" "do I need / want a b/f at my age?" Or "Do I want to play around?" After answerin' those questions, Then decide which one of the guy(s) suits you as a friend, or as a b/f (You know the difference). I know you think u're attracted to all of them, but trust me, I know there is one that stands out. Find out Who, what it is that stands out, why it stands out, and make up your mind. Hopefully I helped. Reply back and rate by all means.
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Hi Evikins
I know how you feels when everything you typed has disappeared. It happened to me when i wrote my lab report and i hate it. you said you have a lot to say? Please tell me what's in your mind. I love to take advices from other people and learn from other's idea. And you know what, I give up on that girl. It doesn't worth anything to wait for someone is never there for you. I have realize how stupid i was to put so much care and love for someone doesn't even give me a shit.
You are a romantic person? Tell me about your romance.
your internet pal
Someone
Hi IP,
Hey, its not stupid that you had so much care and love for that gurl. It's just unfortunate and disappointing that she never returned it. But like i said, there are others. Lol ... how am i supposed to tell You about my been romantic? I'm not sure if there's an explaination for it. Its just part of whom I am. Funny enough, i had this discussion with a good friend of mine - i told him how i've noticed that guys are impatient once they see a gurl they like, they want the real thing right away, and don't take time to dig, (except the gurls clothes of course). Do u think its true? Personally i'm positive. Its happened once. Okies, from your point of view, what is your definition of a 'gentle romance' or romancer? So tell me, what do you like to do in your spare time? What sports do you play (if you like sports), wat music do You listen to, and who's your favourite band? And what is your biggest, eye-catchin' personality? Till i hear from ya,
Nicole
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Well I'm 14 and I have been hit in my chest a few times when I was 12, ever since I have had HUGE lumpy breast tissue in both of my breasts and they are small so I'm wondering....
1) will they ever grow again?
2) do they have to grow
3) are there some girls that never grow
4) do ya think I should get it removed.
Thank you for your time.. And your help! : )
Hi.! Hit in your chest? how do you mean? And are you askin' me if you'll be growin' breasts? If thats what u're askin', then, yes, you will grow breasts, as you get matured. And they are some people who don't grow them, because they don't grow. And yes, there are some peeps who don't grow, when they get to a certain age in time. Now, to get the lump removed? I'm sorry ... if those are not the questions you asked. I don't think i understand, but if you want to clarify, that will be great. Thanks.
nICOLE.
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Ok so ive really liked a female friend of mine for a while now (im 18/m), but shes had a boyfriend for about the past 6 months, and ive all but given up on pursuing her. she has a friend thats pretty cute and seems really nice that im thinking of asking out at some point down the line but heres the thing, im worried it might destroy what litle chance i have with my friend if her and her bf ever break up. so onto my question in readers digest form, do girls have a problem with dating a guy thats dated one of their best friends?
lol ... i think it depends on the gurl's personality. Personally, i wouldn't care as long as the guy and the gurl don't make out or kiss in my presence. Now then i'll hate the guy, but not the gurl. Lolz .. . Generally, i think Gurls do have a problem with that. But then like I said, it depends on their personlaity and how close the bestfriend's been with the guy. When you really think about it, its like a competition. Some Gurls ARE competitious. So thats that.
Hope It helps,
Nicole.
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Well I knew this guy for three years. His name is Joe and I went to school with him for 2 years and we were just friends and now he goes to a different school and we chat online everyday and our bond has gotten stronger. We meet up sometimes.We joke around a lot. He's always saying I owe him a hug. Recently I saw him and when we were talking he asked me if he looked good and I told him he was hott. And he told me I looked cute.. THe next day he told me that someone was telling him that I had a crush on him and so I said yes a little. So now Im confused what do I do do I wait or what should I ask him?
Don't be confused. He's noticed ya, and clearly he's interested. You don't need to ask him anythin'. Its good he notices you. It'll grow. Soon, you guys will be more than friends.
Nicole
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Hey, Evikins or Nicole
by the way, Evikins is a beautiful name.
I am not giving up on any girls.
You know wut, I am afraid of night time.
I am busy and not think about her in the day time. I went out with my friend and tried to get myself busy. And it worked out, her name and nothing about her is in my mind during the day time. But at night, I sit in front of my computer and keep waiting for her to come online. It has been two days that she isn't online. I don't know what should I do. Forget about her forever or give a phone call, which I have done many times.
ANd by the way, someone has a name but he doesn't feel comfortable to reveal it through internet.
Tell me something about you, Evikins (wish you don't mind I call you that)
Your internet pal
Someone
its a third time i'm typin' this response. Hate that the backwords command doesn't sve the message. Lolz. hUMM ... i THINK You'll FORGET her soon enough. BUt don't think that you have to. You can call her you know. Ne how's, i had alot to say, but its too much to type. So 'll quit.
About me,... Well, i love to hangout, don't go to parties(not a party person), love to sing, read, Dance, love sports, I'm sensitive, humorous, love to meet new peeps, and i'm kinda like a romantic. Don't know how i became that though. How about you? Why isn't this 'someone' comfortable to reveal his name?
Nicole
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Okay, my best friend was dating a guy for about six months before he went across the country for college. They continued to date long distance. He cheated on her while he was there, but she instantly forgave him and now she is also attending college there. Her self esteem since they have been dating has seemed to plummet. She is a very tiny person anyway, but she is constantly concerned with losing weight and exercising. She usually only tells me good things about their relationship, and makes excuses for plenty of rude, inconsiderate, and not very loving things he has done. She can't really afford to go to college where he is, her parents are going broke, and she is blinded by this jerk of a boyfriend. My question is whether or not I should tell her how I feel, I know she values my opinion very highly, and I do try to straighten her out about her weight issues, but I'm just not sure how far I should go.
Yes, you SHOULD tell her how you feel. Since you say she's blinded by the boyfriend, let her know. Plus, he might be cheatin' on her right now as it is. About the weight issue, she doesn't need to worry about that, there're other guys out there that wouldn't mind. Since she values your opinion, it shouldn't be any different this time. BUT, if it is, make her understand that you just want her to see reason. Ask her who relly matters - a boyfriend that is cheatin' or the parents that's payin' for her college.
I hope it helps.
Nicole
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to put it simply.. about 5 guys like me a lot right now and are fighting over me... i cant just pick one though because i feel a connection
with every single one of them. i dont know what to do.. do i pick one of them or just try to find someone other than them so i wouldnt be "picking"?? please help me
LOL ... YOU sounded like me 2 months ago. Only it was 4 guys This is wat i did. I didn't look/choose b/w the 5 guys, neither did i look outside the five guys.
I stayed on my own. 2 gave up, one found someone else, and the other stayed with me. I went with the one who stayed with me. And i'm the happiest gurl ever. Its like a Sherek story, lolz.
Hope I helped.
Nicole
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i like a guy a lot and we are going to brduate really soon. he knows i like him he says he likes me kind of but then he doesnt but he flirts with me a lot. but since were graduating really soon i want to try and like make a move on hime or something like he had said he was going to give me a kiss and im not sure if he is going to. i want to like make the first move but i dont know how. do you have any sugestions on how to do this like either how sould i make the first move or how should i get him to go though with it.
thanks so much
PLS, DON'T make the move on him. Let him do it. It'll be less embrassin' if when you guys graduate and he wants nuthin' to do with you. You'll be guilt-free ... if you know what i mean.
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Hey ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for not too long since the 19th of April but i have known him all my life and i like him and all but theres a problem he is movin to Georgia and we live in Texas in the begining of summer and i got told by his best friend that he is dumpin me the day before he moves which is alright since i dont do long distant relationships anyhow and i got told to dump him this or next week so he dont get to it first so which should i do i need some help!
Love Kayla
i'll answer ur question with mine.
What is the big deal about HIM dumping You or YOU dumpin' HIM? If You can answer that question, then dump him whenevr you like.
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Im having real trouble with this girl. We both love eachother but there is a problem of being 450 miles away from eachother! I'm almost out of high school and shes still got one more year. we dont know how we're gonna work with that. i want to be with her more than anything but i dont know what to do. please give me some help....I'm really lost on the matter.
This is a really big tough issue. Distance relatonships. What happened? Did you guys meet over the net or did one of you move? If it is a movin' situation, communicate through emails and all. I'm sure that you guys can work somethin' out. I mean Make visits once a month, and so on. But i know its gonna be hard since you guys are still in high school. I know 'wanna be with her more than anything', so you guys should talk about the possiblities. I hope it works out for ya. I've been there b4- we sloved the issue by datin' others but still communicatin' till I finally moved closer to him. It's different for every one.
Hope it helps.
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ok well me and this guy are friends and are going to a dance, well lately since we decided to go together he doesn't call me and we don't talk as much. I'm really shy and affraid we won't be as close what could I do about this?
I think he's prolly just been busy or, maybe he's ran out of things to say for now since he'll be with ya the whole night of the dance. It was like that foir me durin' prom. But we had a blast. don't worry about it.
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I like this guy that I have only known for about a month. He is my best friend's best guy friend. I know thats confusing. But anyways, he happens to be one of the SWEETEST guys and hottest I have ever met. We talk online everyday and talk on the phone sometimes. We even hang out with friends on weekends at times. I feel that I know him pretty well. He even considers me a friend of his now. He thinks I'm hot, but when asked if he likes me, he said he thinks I'm pretty but he doesn't know me well enough. I feel that we know each other pretty darn well! I really want to tell my feelings for him, but I know it will ruin everything because we are in the early stages of friendship. I really don't know what to do. HELP!!!
~ Hopelessly In Love With Him ~
If He says he doesn't know you well enough, there is a reason. And until he knows you to the extent that stisfies him, don't tell him how you feel. Like u said, it wuold only make things worst. I think it will work out for both of You. He's takin' his precious time and so should you Gurl!
Hope I helped.
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how do i get over a person i really really love ?
Get a tight schedule that will involve ur brain 24/7. Hang out your friends as much as you can, and take time outs when you feel like it. Try to avoid the places you and the guy frequented for at least 2 weeks, and soon u'll be better. Last but not the least, Try not to think about how it would have been if you 2 were still together. Its goin' to be tough, but you'll be fine, i've been there.
Hope I helped.
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There's this guy, and he said he was going to ask me to the dinner dance(like prom for 8th graders), but he thought I was too good for him, and I told him that I really wasn't, and that I would love to go with him, and then said that if he didn't want to it was fine, and now I'm confused. Did I say something wrong? and was he just saying that because he knew I wanted to be asked?
-Confused in Cali
Lol ... You didn't say ne thing wrong, Maybe you looked desperate to be asked (just jokin'). Ne how's maybe YOU should ask him. I think he's just not so sure of himself thats why he's confused ya. Maybe he really thinks you are too good for him, (which you should be happy about).
Good luck.
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I've liked this guy for over a year now, and he's had mutiple girlfriends. I'm really shy and haven't asked him out yet, nor plan on ever asking him out. He knows I like him, but prefers to reacll to us as "just friends" I don't know what to do.
Well, I say his reference to you as a friend is a give away that he's tied-up. Maybe he likes u back, but for now, as u already know, he has mutiple girl friends. He may decide you're next, but seriously you don't want to be especially since you're goin' to be title " another-of-his-girlfriend". Just keep your relationship as friends. Myabe it will excaliate and bloom in the future. Hope i helped,
Nicole
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Why "love" always such a big issue between two people? Can't we all just be friends but not boyfriend or gf. what's the point to tell the girl that I love her? If she loves me, fine, she goes out with me. If she doesn't have any feeling for me, we walk toward our own future. I used to see this girl but we kind of don't talk to each other as much as we did. I asked her that if i can be her bf again but she pretty much said no. Honestly, Nicole, I felt like shit since last November, that's when our relationship ends. I had such a strong feeling for her. I used to wait for her to call me or msn me since I have called her for many time for the last couple weeks but she didn't call me once. I usually gave her a call if i really really super really want to hear her voice. But things have changed now. I sit in front of the computer, open the msn chat window but I don't know what to say. and on the other day, I held the phone and dailed her number but I don't know whatt to say to her anymore. I still want hear her voice and see her but I just run out of conversation with her. Now, I just wish i didn't talk to her, I wish we don't know each other. I wish the sweet crush of me on her still last. She was like a sweet perfect angel on the first day i saw her, (even tho she was super shy and ice cold.) But she is still a perfect angel to me and forever but just the most "stranger" angel to me. It feels like I know her but i don't. It feels like there is a connection between us but there isn't. Wish she is close to me and be with me but she isn't. I just wish the "naive" still between us but it's gone.
I know this website is for asking people's advice but i just want to talk the issue to someone. you don't really have to give me any advice. and it's interesting because you from toronto and I am in toronto as well.
Anyway, wish you don't have the same problem as me and have a nice summer.
Someone...
Hey 'Someone...',
Lol ... your sign off made me smile- i'm a someone as well. It is okies, if You weren't needin' advice but just wanted to talk to me about it,. I'm not gonna give ne advice, but just wanna share my view as well if you don't mind.
I'm glad you did - It's got me thinkin' as well. I have no answer why love's got to be such a big between two peeps. But i do have a clue... can't share it yet. But you know, it is not always all about love. Its not about the title, 'b/f&g/f,' either. Love involves alot of other things, like common interests, future goals etc. Personally, i don't like to fall in love, Yet i want to but its so complicated. I've learnt my lessons just like you have.
But i'll say, don't just let one girl make you give up. Girls and Guys are meant to be complicated since when Adam and Eve first sinned. I wish it wasn't so. Ne how's I think i've said enough as well. And yep, it's interestin' we both live in toronto- which i love, but will leave someday. If you ever need to talk, pls do not hesistate to write me. Have a Great summer as well.
Nicole.
p.s does 'someone' have a name?
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I really like this guy and 2 people told me that he said he likes me and im scared to tell him that i like him and his brother said that he wants me too ask him out but im really shy and i just cant can u help plz
love always ZOEY
Hi ... First of all you shouldn't be scared to tell him that u like him. You've got absolutely nuthin' to lose. If he told his brother to tell you to ask him out, then he's as scared as you are too (which shouldn't be). So take up the courage. From wat I've read, i think you should take that chance and ask him out, ( Lolz ... but isn't it a pity that nowadays, some guys don't have the nerves to ask girls out?) and when you do, he'll respect the fact that you're more brave than he is). Go for it. I did it once. And I'm glad I did.
Hope i helped.
nICOLE
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So there's this guy, right? And I used to have quite a crush on him. He liked me somewhat too. So I wrote him a note. I told him I liked him.
That was a while ago, and my feelings have faded, but now he likes me! And I'm sure he assumes it's mutual, since I wrote that note, and I haven't said anything since. The problem is, we're really good friends and we talk a lot. I'm worried that he's interpreting it as flirting, which it isn't, at least not intentionally. I really don't want to lead him on, he's sweet.
So, my question(s> is(are): Is there any way to read his feelings, and how can I flir--talk to him less without comprimising the friendship?
I don't think there's a specific way to read his meanin'. I mean you've read 'em all, from the way he behaves around you. If he's a good friend, your been honest with him that you don't fancy him more than just being a friend, will not (SHOULD NOT) compromise your friendship. Sit him down and talk to him. I hope it helps.
Nicole
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Alright me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and just recently for the second time we are on a break. Well every time this happen she it seems like she goes and tries to find someone to go out with i dont know what to do about it she keeps telling me she wants to get back together but know i just don't know what to do. By the way im 17 and a junior and she is 16 and a sophmore. what i am asking is what should i do. should i forget about her or should i do something. please could someone give me some advise!!!
Hey... I know how you feelin'. To me it sounds like she wants to date other guys, yet wants to be with you. Its also a tough position on her part. Why don't you sit down and have a talk with her. Ask her what she really wants -(if she wants to date others and if she still REALLY wants you) keepin' in mind that this is the second break. As for you, what do u want? Wanna go out with her still (do you still like her)? Or do you want to date another? Ask yourself these questions and I know u'll make your decision from there. Remember if its destiny, u can still be with her in the future. Don't wait on/for her. Good luck and Hope this helps.
Nicole
You got back to me ... so i'm replyin' again. Break it off once and for all. Snd don't give her the chance to hold your hands or let her kiss ya. Watever, don't fall for her sweet talks and traps. She's not worthy of you. From my point of view, i think she's usin' you bc when she's been abandoned, u're like her free house, aso she'll run back to ya. Plz break it off. And trust me, you'll be happy you did. If u need more help, I'm always here.
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