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Hey ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for not too long since the 19th of April but i have known him all my life and i like him and all but theres a problem he is movin to Georgia and we live in Texas in the begining of summer and i got told by his best friend that he is dumpin me the day before he moves which is alright since i dont do long distant relationships anyhow and i got told to dump him this or next week so he dont get to it first so which should i do i need some help!
Love Kayla
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i'll answer ur question with mine.
What is the big deal about HIM dumping You or YOU dumpin' HIM? If You can answer that question, then dump him whenevr you like.
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Don't oveRReact, fiRst of all. You *REALLY* need to sit down and calmly, and open-mindedly, talk to him about this. PeRhaps togetheR, the two of you can come up with the most appRopRiate solution to the pRoblem. I wish you the best of luck!
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I don't see any reason why you would have to be the first one to do the dumping. I think you two need to talk to each other and not let all your friends do the talking for you. You probably will have to stop dating when he leaves, I see no reason not to remain friends after that. Since he is a friend and the break up is more of a have to thing and not an I hate you thing, I think you can hang out until the moving van comes. :)
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i dont think that this guy really cares because if he did he wouldnt dump you i think you should dump him first and say that you still like him but you dont want a long distance relationship and end it now
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well it shouldn't be about getting to it first. you have to talk to him about what you 2 are going to do when he moves. tell him you heard he's going to dump you. there shouldn't be any secrets.
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well i dont think it matters who breaks up with who. ad i really dont understand why you guys are even trying b/c its obviously not going to work if your already planning the break up.
hope i could help
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