im 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend or even a kiss. the thing is i want one but, when people like me i say no because i want the one that i like and thats all. the thing is how do i get the person i like to like me back? but they may like some one else.thanks
kleokriesel answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 11:25 pm: You're just fourteen, don't worry about not having had a boyfriend or a kiss. I didn't until I was 17.
XoxO7bella7XoxO answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 7:14 pm: start hanging out wit them and stuff and they will get to like u and if they dont then go for someone else!!
xbebopchrisx answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 7:14 pm: Hi 14/f,
I don't want to patronize you or anything so I will try to deliver this the best way possible. I know you want a boyfriend and to have your first kiss and stuff like that. Heck, everyone does! But the important thing to realize is that you can't rush these things. I didn't get my first kiss (and gf) until I was 17. Guys want this just as much as girls do but you have to find the right person first and then everything falls into place. If you really want someone who you can be romantic with I would suggest that you start out finding a guy from step one. You have to find a guy who you have alot in common with, it's best to start off as just friends. As time goes on and you develop a deeper connection you two will be romantic when the times feels right. Huggin', kissin' and the whole nine yards will come in due time. I hope this has helped you!
"Some of these days.
Your gonna miss... my lovin'...
Your gonna miss... my huggin'...
MorganoSpices answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 7:08 pm: Ok.. im in the same situation as you. I like this guy Matt, but he dosent like me back. You cant make someone like you, and as hard as it may seem, you may just want to be their friend. And if someone likes you, really think, and you may want to give their love a chance. Like this guy Andrew liked me last year. We were really good friends, but our love never worked out. Now hes my best frined in the whole world! If theirs a guy that dosent like you, you may just be better off being their friend.
sOsexable answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:59 pm: hey!..well you should find someone who shares something in common with you..that way you would be able to have conversations about stuff like that and if that person got to know you..they might start liking you..you need to try and get really close to them!
Loverx33 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:38 pm: hun. theres no need to rush into relationships. they take time to build. just be you and be flirty! it works like a charm!! <33 [ Loverx33's advice column | Ask Loverx33 A Question ]
beachbarbie721 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:35 pm: well unfortunately...we cant make love happen...it has to come on its own! no one can make you love someone and you cant make someone love you! but if you show this person that you are interested...they might also be and give you a chance. however, if you show them you're interested and they show that they are not, then you should move on...you can find love in so many places and people but true love is found in just one special person. it wont hurt to move on so go ahead and expierience with other people...who knows..you might wind up liking them way better!
hope that helped you!!!
-♥ Me [ beachbarbie721's advice column | Ask beachbarbie721 A Question ]
soccurboi48 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:34 pm: Well...Just try to be patient. Wait for the right one and you did good on saying no to the people you dont like cuz it is not right to go out with somebody that you dont like! You will find somebody though!
cody [ soccurboi48's advice column | Ask soccurboi48 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.