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heyhey!! My names Samantha!! i live in Rochester new york!! im 14... i have blue eyes n brown hair!! i play soccer!! im 5'0 im really short lol!! i go to GCMS!! ill right more later cuz i just started this thing!!
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester New York
Age: 14
AIM: XoxO7Bella7XoxO
Member Since: April 30, 2005
Answers: 8
Last Update: July 2, 2005
Visitors: 795


well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me.... (link)
you should just tell her the truth!! she might not care as much as u think!! when i started wearin them, i didnt want my mom to no either b/c i thought she would be mad n its alil uncomfortible!! but when she found out, she ask me n i said yea!! n she didnt really care!! hope i helped!



SAMANTHA


my soon to be boyfriend goes too far sometimes. he comes over to hang out a lot and we cuddle and everything but sometimes his hands wander and i want him to stop. it's really uncomfortable for me and i want him to stop but i don't wanna seem like a prude. i've tried moving around to get him to move his hands but i don't know, there's just something weird about it. my past two boyfriends have been really verbally abusive and my last boyfriend hit me a lot right before we broke up and after we broke up and i still don't trust guys and i don't know if i should continue hanging out with this new guy. i know he really cares about me and has for a while. he took a lot of crap from me before we started hanging out. i lead him on and broke his heart when i hooked up with a different guy. HELP. i'm a girl btw. (link)
just tell him you dont want him all over you and that your not comfortible wit it!! you wont seem prude at all!! and of corse any gurl would feel weird around a boy after gettin hit by another!! but u should tell him that u dont want him touchin u!! hope i help!!


SAMANTHA


My dance is friday and of course I got my period yesterday. I have to wear a dress but I am not so good with tampons. I've used one once but the last time I used one it hurt and I had to take it out and it hurt more. I don't really know how to get over my fear and do it, I mean, I HAVE to for the dance unless I wear a pad, but, you know...yeah. Does anyone have any tips for getting over the fear of tampons? (link)
if u keep wearing them it dont hurt after like the 2 time!! lol trust me!!

SAMANTHA


im 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend or even a kiss. the thing is i want one but, when people like me i say no because i want the one that i like and thats all. the thing is how do i get the person i like to like me back? but they may like some one else.thanks

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start hanging out wit them and stuff and they will get to like u and if they dont then go for someone else!!

SAMANTHA


ok my mom like dosent trust me 1 bit at all and i really need to ask a questio on here but.. my mom puts like these tracker things on my computer she can read everything i do on here anything i type and stuff like that anywhere i go on the computer.. so .. i want to ask everyone a question on here but if i asked my mom would read it and i would get in sooo much trouble i really need an answer thought but i still dont want to get in trouble (link)
you should talk to your mom and tell her that your gettin older now and she needs to learn how to trust you!!


SAMANTHA


i really like this girl and i dont kno if she likes me...and i dont kno if i should like anyone right now cus i want to be single for the summer time..but i really liek this gilr and if we went out into the summer time then we would hang out alot and we'd she eachother everyday..but idk..help me out (link)
well.... you should talk to her and see if she likes you!! and about you being single i no how it feels!! just tell her how you feel!!


SAMANTHA


I was friends with this girl named Tina for a whole grade before we grew apart. REcently, her mother died from cancer, and whenever I saw her after that she acted like she was fine, so I always made sure to act cheery and bright around her, and to pretend as though it never happened. My other friends all tell me I'm heartless and pretending like it never happened to her is just going to make it worse. What do I do? (link)
you should talk to your friend and ask her if shes ok!! and talk to your other friends and tell them wuts goin on

SAMANTHA


Ok here it is. I am a 16 year old male. My best friend for the past 2 years has this really pretty sister. She is smart, funny, nice to talk to and everything i am looking for in a female. There is just one problem I am 16 and she is 21. Do you think that age is an issue? How should I go about asking if there could be anything between us wether it is now or later? What should i do? (link)
Well.....if its your best friends sister, you prolly shouldnt go out with her just for that b/c that will prolly mess up things wit ur best friend!! n the age difference might be a problem!!

SAMANTHA




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