My name is Kate! I'm energetic, spunky, nice, caring, considerate, kind, friendly, and most of all a dork! I love to go on vacation and go tanning, but tanning salons are BAD for you so i don't go to those! besides, there like fake tans! I hate fake things, people, objects and obsessions! I can't spell and you'll find that out sooner or later.. I'm a cheerleader..I'm a sophmore.. I love the colors PINK and ORANGE and GREEN! they rock! haha I wish I was Barbie... she's perfect.. haha she's my idol.. I wouldn't be able to live without make-up, shopping, dancing, friends, or beaches.. it's sad..but its true.. I'm trying this site out because some of my friends told me I give good advice at times.. and also I give sucky advice! And I love to help people so this should be fun for when I'm super bored..right? Anyway I hope I help with all your questions and believe me-- everyone, makes mistakes every once and a while!
Gender: Female
Location: Washington
Occupation: I work at American Eagle
Age: 16
Member Since: April 30, 2005
Answers: 18
Last Update: June 13, 2005
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How do you make babies? (link)
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well, take a hotdog&a donut, the hotdog is the boy, and the donut is the girl.. put the hotdog in the middle of the donut--oh no u forgot to keep the bun on the hotdug--oh no
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IM 16/m and I thought I was in love with this girl. It was a long distance thing, because we met, but live so far away from each other. So we still told each other we were in love and that we wanted to be together. The other day she said she really doesnt know how she feels or felt, and she was just saying she was "in love" and let me tell her because it "felt good to hear" at the time. Im hurt, but I still love her, I dont know how she feels, what should I do? (link)
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That was a little confuesing..but i dont know.. i think you should just tell her..and if you were willing to then just go out with her, see her in summer, talk on the phone :] who cares what other people think? its your feelings not theres!
Kate♥
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i have a problem, see... this boy that my friend used to like says he likes me, but he's kind of unpredictable. he'll be super sweet one day and then really mean the next. he was telling me the other day about how he thought he was falling in love with me a while ago, and now he says the feeling is bigger and that he thinks he loves me now. i'm not sure if i really like him or not. like, i'll really not like him at points, but then when he starts to open up to me, i'll start to think i'm falling for him. he calls me beautiful, and no-one has ever done that for me before. and sometimes i dont even believe him because im not confident enough. am i just really flattered or do i really like him? (link)
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I think you sort of like him, but just tell him that you can't like or don't like him as much as he likes you because he's a big penis head at times lol.. just be honest, im sure if he stops that you'll start to like him a lot more
Kate♥
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Why are you so gorgeous? lol you are so pretty!!!! i saw your Bp page and i saw where you answer questions on here so i figured i'd ask. Well if you want im me sometime tooshort41186@aol.com i have pics (link)
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Haha thanks well ask away! btw idk how to add those things.. i have aim..thats it..sorry
Kate♥
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I bleed a lot when I'm on the rag and I have a lot of gas. My boyfriend and I were fooling around, and I farted when he grabbed my boob. I was so embarrassed! I'm too ashamed to tell anyone about this. Do you have any advice or home remedies for this? Plz help me!! (link)
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Uhm, go to the bathroom if you think you have to fart?
Kate♥
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Im 16/M and my friend is annoying but he thinks everytime he does something that we are playing and i tell him that if he does anything i will beat him up but he laughs, i know i can, but its not something i want to do. For example he keeps getting my hat and i dont do anything about it cuz i dont want to hurt him... i also dont wanna say nothin cuz that makes me look bad. I dont think talking will work because were all brasilians and thas really not how it works with us. what do i do with him? (link)
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Well maybe you should talk.. just tell him to cut it out and its not funny anymore..
Kate♥
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I like this guy..but im not sure if he likes me back? but people tell me that he does..what do i do? (link)
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Ask him for yourself! :] Or get a really good friend to ask him for you..
Kate♥
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female,16....Hi im elena and i was woundering, My friend and i were in the park one day and we ended up making out.. The next day at school he didn't talk to me or even look at me.. He told his cousin that he liked me and he liked what happend but he wont talk to me. IS there something wrong or am i just freeking out? (link)
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He's just shy
Kate♥
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how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care? (link)
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Ignore it, don't even ask about it, don't listen when there talking about it just go like stare into black space or like start talking to someone else near you
Kate♥
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ive had my aim screen name for over 2 years and im ready for a new one. can you help me thing of a good screen name? a summertime one would be good but i dont really care! (link)
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um okay.. i'll try.. any numbers can go at the end i guess haha
malibuu baby05
summertimehunny0
beachxbabe 05
sandxinxmyxtoes
Ocean Breeze o0x
sorry thats all i can think of right now hope you get some of ideas from that...
Kate♥
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Ok Hey I have this new boyfriend and I am starting to be able to talk to him but not without my friends around and I gave him my number and I am so scared what if I don't know what to say and last is this normal for my age which is 12 to be shy and can't start convos with your new BF (link)
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yeah! lol i used to be like that, except i was wild on the phone shy in person, just act wild on the phone and you'll get used to it.. ask random questions.. my favorite one is "whats your favorite food group?"
Kate♥
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Ok so i have sort of a tiny pot belly. I've done so many sit-ups to try to get rid of it. The only thing that happens is a get really muscular, but on top of all my muscle i still have my pot belly. It's weird. So its like a muscular pot belly.
Second, i have a crease right where my underwear line is. My underwear is not small on me so i dont know where the crease came from
Do you know what both of these are and how i can get rid of them??? (link)
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For your first question, doing sit-ups does not make you lose weight, it just gives you muscle, to see the muscle you have to get rid of the fat, the best way to do that is watching what you eat (soda makes a huge difference) and running! And the band is just to tight..
Kate♥
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so me and my sister were messing aroudn with out hair one day and we decided to trim mine because we were bored but she ended up cutting a few inches off.. and i want it to grow back but idk how to make it grow faster or like if theres a shampoo i can use or something (link)
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Trimming DOES make your hair grow faster but in your case i wouldn't want to do that.. and I know this because I worked at a hair salon for a couple years.. there is a shampoo/conditioner at Wal*Mart that makes your hair grow faster I just can't think of the name right now..so just check some stores out! cuz i know there is..because if there's a shampoo to straighten/curl it theres one to make it longer! Goodluck!!
Kate♥
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What things make your face break out or makes you get pimples? (link)
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Chocolate, when I don't wash my face, when I touch my face, dirt, soda, and sweat..
Kate♥
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So I really like this kid. I went out with him last year in 7th Grade for a month and in 5th Grade when we were young which didnt mean much. Last year I didnt like him at all really and now I just cant stop thinking about him! We flirt all the time and two of my friends have said to me I think blank likes you and my other friend asks if I like him .. and I really do! When my friend said to him [ hint hes not friends with this girl ] she said to him well dont say anything but blank likes you and he said well were really only friends. We have beeen sitting on the bus together and always are smiling talking and making eye contact. There are so many signs but im not sure if i should get over him or do something about it? please help!!! (link)
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Tell him! I think he might have feelings for you aswell, but he might be to shy because of the past experiences just tell him, its the best thing you can do!
Kate♥
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sorry is this is long but I really need help so please don't skip over it
Ok my parents have been divorced my whole life I don't even know who my dad is. Well my mom has serious problems with finding guys. They usually beat her or cheat on her. I've had about a dozen stepfathers and all of them treat her like shit and she doesn't deserve that. Well my newest stepfather Richie has been with my mother for 2 years now and she is really happy with him. I've never seen my mom this happy before. He is soo nice to her. But the thing is he has a son (my stepbrother) who is constantly hitting me and raping me. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that she would talk to my stepdad and my stepbrother. She did and then it stopped for a little while but then he did it again and it was even worse than it was before. He had a couple of his friends over and they thought that it would be fun to beat and rape his 14 year old step sister. I talked to my stepdad and he told me to stop making things up. He told my mother that I was making things up and they sent me to a shrink. Needless to say my stepbrother continued to do these things to me. I confronted my mother again and she told me to talk to my stepdad. I did and he told me that I was lying and that even if I wasn't I needed to get over it because we are a happy family and we all have to make sacrifices I told him that that was wrong and he hit me! Now he's been hitting me too when my mom isn't around. I don't know what to do. She is soo happy and she deserves to be. I don't want to ruin this for her. My question is should I just deal with this so that she can be happy or is there anyway that I can get help without ruining this for her? (link)
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Tell them if this continues to happen that you will call the police and have the phone in your hand! Stand-up for yourself, if this continues to happen move out.. i know your only 14 but if you have a close friend you can stay with, talk to, or have over when your alone then have him or her there.. or go to there house or go live with your aunt/uncle or someone close! don't let this happen to you
Kate♥
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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months now. Anyway, at the beginning ont the relationship we'd be so eager to talk to eachother, and talk on the phone every night, and ditch friends for eachother, etc.
Now, we don't talk on the phone for periods of time. (Right now it's been 11 days since I've talked to him on the phone) And we hang out amazingly less, and I don't feel the urge anymore to check the computer every 5 minutes to see if he's online. When I do get to talk to him, I feel so uninterested. I could honestly go days without talking to him, and it wouldn't bug my anymore. Sometimes I cry because I don't understand what's happening, and it really upsets me. Could it be that I'm just losing interest/we both are in eachother? :(
Tuesday night on AIM I told him that I felt I was losing interest in him, and he repsonded, "Geez, I like you a lot, I can't just stop." Then he put up an away message that said, "I fucking screwed up somehow." And signed off. We eventually resolved the problem, but I feel I lied. I told him I still did like him, and I was stupid to say that. But really, I feel EXACTLY like that. I'm not as interested. What's happening? Do I WANT to get over him or something..?
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Well i dont really think you like him anymore, you just want to like him because he's the perfect guy for you and he's great.. but the best thing to do is either break up with him.. or go on a break for a certain amount of time to see if the feelings come back..just be straight out honest to him and maybe he will understand.. or start to hang out with him.. or take a step foward in the relationship, spice things up :]
Kate♥
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what is the difference between tights and panty hose? I need ot get black tights but i don't knwo what the difference is. (link)
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Oh..haha i always thought they were the same..um so im gunna take a guess and say that tights are like thicker? like..spandex? and panty hose are like stockings..
Kate♥
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