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Mom Dosnent TruSt mE
ok my mom like dosent trust me 1 bit at all and i really need to ask a questio on here but.. my mom puts like these tracker things on my computer she can read everything i do on here anything i type and stuff like that anywhere i go on the computer.. so .. i want to ask everyone a question on here but if i asked my mom would read it and i would get in sooo much trouble i really need an answer thought but i still dont want to get in trouble
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you should talk to your mom and tell her that your gettin older now and she needs to learn how to trust you!!
SAMANTHA
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there is no question how am i supposed to answer? maybe u shouldn't be asking this question if you would get in trouble when she saw it. ask one of your friends.
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You're a frigg'n retard. Why are you even posting this you idiot? Are you that retarded? The reason your mom has tracing on here is because you're a youngin who cant be trusted and goes onto advice sites asking pointless questions hoping for an answer to a question that hasnt even been asked. No one likes you, leave.
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do ctrl h at te time time when ur on a website, deletes history
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wut u do is 4 like 3 weeks b reallllllllly responsilble then when u get her trust back ask her 4 no more her-reading-the-stuff-u-rite-on- ur-computer.
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Over protective parents is an age old problum!and one that infuriates me I must say. So I assume your mum will read this question? If she does and she can see how her over the top behaviour is effecting you she may just remember what it was like to be your age. I suspect that's why you posted it, that was quite clever! Talk to your mum and explain how you feel, have you any understanding relatives who could talk to her for you?, she may be more inclined to listed to them. The main part of my answer I am addressing to your mam and I hope she reads it! ...... As a parent you want to protect and look after your child in every way you can. Their is a big difference between protection and mistrust, in fact the two are not at all the same and unfortunately you are confusing them! People always say the teenage years are one long battle between parent and teen. I happen to think this is an untrue and pessimistic attitude but there are always going to be issues to be battled over. The fact is all issues boil down to one: The teen wants to grow up, the parent doesn't because it scares the hell out of them - you know exactly what I'm talking about. Just remember this - it is a fight you are designed to lose because invariably despite your actions they will grow up! So accept it, remember what it was like to be that age, clean up your definitions of protect and mistrust - then maybe you an your 'young adult' NOT 'child' will have a relationship to be desired. AND they will dare to ask questions that seem pretty important to them!
Derfel
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then can't she read this?...and know you have a question she won't want you to be asking?...and if so, she's either mad at you by now...or doesn't really check up on you, and you should go ahead and ask your question. right?
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What did you do to make your not trust you? Was it something you did on the computer? Ask her what you can do to help her trust you.
AKA, be really really good. She might trun around.
Good luck
~kooka
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hey, i can totally relate. my dad is so nosey and is always looking through my emails and my text messages and always trying to find out what im doing and what sites im going to. You should just sit your mom down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel, tell her that you feel that you need her to trust you. If you did anything to make her feel she cannot trust you then she might be a little bit uneasy about it, but reassure her that the past is the past and you hope she can always trust you. But also you should try looking at it from her point of view. She might just a be an overprotective mother trying to make sure her daughter is safe and checking out her information to make sure she's not getting into anything bad. All you need to do is tell her how you feel, and if that doesn't work then you can post again and ill do whatever i can to help. i hope this helped :)
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try talking to your mom why she has to put a tracker thing on you computer. I agree that that isn't right because I understand that you realy want your own privicy. what did you do that made her not trust you anymore? or does she just NOT trust you?
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You should go talk to a school counciler or a pastor at your church. I know that sounds lame, but what else are you going to do? And about your mom not trusting you..I know how you feel. I have never done anything to EVER make my mom not trust me, and yet she doesn't. I bet your mom is just worried about you and is holding on to her "baby girl." She doesn't want you to get hurt. If it seems like she doesn't trust you even though you havn't done anything bad, then she is probably not concerned that YOU will do anything bad, but that others will and you will get in trouble or hurt for others mistakes. If you want to talk more contact me at Natileexox@aol.com . I don't konw if your mom can read your emails but if not then feel free to talk! (and my mom has parent controls on my screen name too..so your not the only one!! lol) bye.
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Ok well did you do something to make your mom not trust you..if you did then it might take a while to build that trust.. if your mom is like my dad and is just nosey and mean.. then talk to her.. tell her that you've never done nething wrong and you don't appreciate the invasion of privacy.. if she wants you to respect her she will have to respect you a little bit
</3 kenzi
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