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he loves me...he loves me not?
Theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.
But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM. Which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.
The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.
So what I would like to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)
I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f)
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If he is around your age, I'd bet he wasn't READY to like girls yet. Girls seem to become attracted to the opposite sex sooner than boys, its a peer pressure thing. I do think he is starting to like you. I wouldn't ask him out though, however if he asks you for a date I'd say go. Here is something to remember, we strike out at things we don't understand and everyone trys to protect themselves that way. Forgive his hurtfulness of the past and start building new memories from now on. You are young to settle on someone yet, but I think the two of you may become at the least very good friends. Luck and love!
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Well, first, let me advise you to avoid using the word "love". It seems like a wonderful feeling, but pigeon-holing all of your feelings with a 4-letter word will only frustrate you in the end. You won't believe how many times you'll endup saying "but I love him." Leave it open. You "enjoy his company" or "care a lot about him," maybe.
Now, if you aren't sure about whether or not you still like this guy, I wouldn't see the harm in either asking him out or accepting his offer for a date. You can spend some together in the romantic sense and see if you really fit together. It can help you really figure your feelings for him.
As to whether or not he likes you, I honestly don't know enough about him, you or the situation to say that. I can say though that it's definitely worth a try asking him out. You need some closure with your feelings and this will be the best way to achieve that.
♥ Lorelei
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WELL SiNCE YOU HAVE LiKED HiM FOR SO LONG AND HE HASNT LiKED YOU, i THiNK THAT HE MiGHT BE USiNG YOU TO LiKE HOOK-UP OR STUFF LiKE THAT, SO i SAY JUST MOVE ON AND FiND SOMEONE WHO WiLL REALLY LiKE YOU..
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the answer to your question is simple
try not to think of this guy this way
that's the hard part
show no emotion to him either way
if he wants to be with you he'll ask
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i dont think he likes you that way. just because he is being nice to you doesnt mean he wants to go out with you!!! dont take action until you two have been doing some serious flirting.
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i think he likes you but if he takes to long to share his feelings then screw it. you don't need him to play with your mind like that.
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I have the exact same kind of relationship with this boy that I like. In order to know if he likes you or not, you have to ask. I know that sounds hard, but boys don't normally just come out and say "I like you." You have to get it out of him if you really want to know. If he asks you out, give it a shot. I mean, can he hurt you more than he has already? And I don't think that YOU should ask HIM out because guys normally like to be in control. And believe me, if he likes you, he'll ask you out if you give him hints. (well, more hints, lol) Just be super nice to him and respect him and give it a LITTLE bit of time. Things should work out, and hey, even if they don't, theres probably a kazillion other guys out there that are perfect for you and would never even think about hurting you. <3 Kari
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whatever you do, DONT ask him out.. it's just a no-no! lol tell him everything that you just said and he should understand.. give him a chance! :)
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u should just let him come 2 no that ur a good person and wwhen he nos that,hel like u more give it time he"l come 2 his sences
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Short answer? - YES, YES, YES! - I think he likes you. And I think he's liked you all along. That doesn't change the fact that he's been acting like a compleat dick though.... But if you feel as strongly as you say you have to go for it! Take it slow though, esspecialy at first! Good Luck! Drefel xx
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Just because you to are talking more often doesn't meen that he likes you just yet. I think that you should wait a while, if he starts to flirt then go for it. But most likely he wants to be friends, which is fine too. In the past he has made it quite clear that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Tell him that hes sending you mixed messages and ask him were he stands. Also tell him that your pretty much over him so he knows were you stand too.
Best of luck
~kooka
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I think he don't and do like you just like you said you felt about him. and if he ask you out, then say straight up NO. but if you want, you could say yes. But I am sstill saying the smart thing to say would be NO.
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Well, first of all...if he has hurt you so much, why are you even still bothering with this guy? I'm sure that there are PLENTY of other guys out there dying to date you. Don't waste your time on this guy if he is just now noticing you after being a jerk to you!
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oook chill for a sec.. i don't think he likes you i think he's just trying to be a nice guy. He might like you but definatly don't be the one to make the first move.. let him come to you and if he likes you he will.. otherwise just enjoy being friends with him.. it's better then him hating you right? the world won't end with him at 13 trust me.. what's meant to happen will
</3 kenzi
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yes i actually think he does like you ... now he finally gav the courage to tell you he does... but the question is do you like him still???...((i really think you do from what i hear since your so conserned, but think about it and talk to him about it ...things will be perfect))...good luck!
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