hEY everybOdy..my names kristin. im from northern va/dc andd i go to woodson highschool. i love my friends and my boyfriend jason of course! i love helping people and giving advice (obviously) and id be happy to help yall with any problems you might have. Im about 5'6" or so..maybe.idk. i have blondish type hair and greyish/blue eyes. i love dogs and music. i hate snobby people who think that theyre better then everyone else and if you have a question or anything that you need help with then post it! or if ur uncomfortable with that then email me or AIM me at JuStxLiKexCanDii i would love 2 help anyone :)
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Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's. (link)
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Boys are weird. They all want different things. Some guys (mostly ones that are shy) will want the girl to appraoch them but usually i think guys prefer to make the first move. It all depends on the guy though.
good luck!
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Ok,So I really like this guy hes Funny,cute,nice but he says he likes me but really he likes me and another girl. I have gone out with him befor and everytime he has broken my heart I promised myself I would never fall for him again but I did...!I dont know what to do. The other girl he likes likes him bak and everytime they go out they go out 4 soooo long!!! I dont know what to do cause I love him so much and he likes another girl more then me and if he asks her out I will be heart broken I dont know what to do to get him attention and to get him to like me more...What should I DO!!??!!
Yours truley,
**confused** (link)
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hey i've been in the same situation so don't worry. It's just a boy, i promise you there will be other funny, cute, nice boys! but i think you should talk to him about it. Tell him that you really like him and that you don't want him to lead you on because you don't want to get hurt again. If he doesn't like you then you know that you can move on and find someone better (cause you'll deserve a boy better than one that will lead you on and build you up and then suddenly tear you down). As for the getting him to like you more thing, just be yourself. If that's not good enough for him then screw it, someone will fall in love with you for all the things that you are. IF he can't see that, then that's his loss. As for the relationship thing, think about why he ends up going out with this girl for a longer time then he goes out with you. Maybe she's more of his type, and i know it can hurt really badly to believe something like that but sometimes it's true. Don't worry he's not the only boy out there. you'll find someone perfect for you :)
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yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?
PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think. (link)
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Ok first off you need communication in your relationship. Tell him that you aren't sure what he wants and that you're uncomfortable doing anything farther than 2nd base with him. Just talk to him about it and if he wants to move fast and still do that then just tell him that you don't think it will work out anymore because you both want two different things. But you should talk to him first. Then see how things go.Because breaking up with him without like talking to him or giving him a reason isn't a good thing to do. so i would just talk to him about it and if hes still pushed into going farther then just tell him you want different things and it wont work out anymore.
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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me
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Wow. it might seem a little awkward hearing someone sing to you over the phone and you dont know what to say afterwards. But depending on the words i think that's really sweet!!!
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i've only known my friend since this year and we became really good friends but i think shes been a terrible friend lately.If I tell her something she said she goes off saying 'omg! you're putting words in my mouth!' when other people were there to hear her say what i told her she said.i do so much stuff for her and still shes mean.i put my hair in a parted ponytail and she's like, 'i see you tried my hairstyle' i got so annoyed when she said that because why would i want to be like her! she thinks im competing with her too because i've been doing my hair nicer.I told her my parents were looking to move and she gets all pissed saying'you promised you were going to the same high school as me!' instead of getting mad wouldnt a real friend be sad?If I have a pimple she points it out like I don't already know.It seems like she goes out of her way to make me feel bad.This has just been building up and I'm tired of her and her drama. I just need some advice this girl thinks she's god and has all the answers, but I think it's all in her head.Help?!
should we still be friends?If so, how can I change her for the better? (link)
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omg my best friend, ive known her since fifth grade, has starting acting like that too! just talk to her about it and be like i dont like your attitude towards me and if she can't deal with it, as much as it hurts, you need to let her go and find friends that will treat you the way a real friend should.
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i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me (link)
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aww you seem like a nice guy..ill get all the information i can and try to help you out as much as possible!
ok you cannot get herpes unles you have had sex! the whole toliet seat thing can happen but it is like EXTREMELY rare. The bumps on your penis might be an allergic reaction. have you switched soaps or laundry detergents? if so then that's probably the case. If you havent had sex (including oral sex) then you don't have it. and yes girls will date you! i would if you were a really nice guy, but alot of girls wont. The sex will be kinda dead, but they have dating sites you can go to where you find other single women or men that also have it. but im pretty sure you dont have it!
Early symptoms of a genital herpes outbreak include:
Itching or burning feeling in the genital or anal area
Pain in the legs, buttocks, or genital area
Feeling of pressure in the abdomen
Although there is no cure for genital herpes, your health care worker might prescribe one of three medicines to treat it as well as to help prevent future episodes.
MORE INFORMATION:
National Herpes Resource Center and Hotline
American Social Health Association
P.O. Box 13827
Research Triangle Park, NC 27709-9940
919-361-8488 (9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through Friday)
http://www.ashastd.org/hrc/index.html
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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know... (link)
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It feels awkward the first time you put it in and when using one for the first time you should insert it on your heaviest day. It isn't as pleasurable a a guy fingering you so not really, and no one i know or am aware of has been loosened by it and NO it will definatly not pop your cherry! tampons are awesome...haha
and don't be embarassed to ask anything! that's what we're here for!
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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
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The number of days between the starting day of one period and the starting day of the next one is about 28 days (four weeks, or one month), but different women have different cycle times, which can change with their age. When girls first start having periods, they can be quite irregular, and it might take two years before they settle down into a regular cycle that is normal for them. Some girls or women always have irregular periods.
Welcome to womanhood!
if you anymore information about periods or anything then visit this site (it has like the answers to all your questions)
http://www.addenbrookes.org.uk/shac/normal/female/period.html
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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dont do anything that you're uncomfortable with! Communication and honesty are important in a relationship. WAiting to have sex after marriage is a very responsible and mature thing to do. Not many people can do that so people would probably respect you more, but the real thing is that if you're uncomfortable having sex then dont. tell him that you're not ready and you don't want 2 and if he doesn't understand then maybe he's just not the one for you. DOn't let him pressure you into anything. Stand your ground and tell him that you don't want to have sex right now.
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Ok there is this quiz thing that you can have your friends fill out, and they think they are going to find out about their future love life, but really it emails the results to you. I know it is called like 007crush or something like that, but I don't remember the exact website. Can anyone please tell me the website? Thanks I rate (link)
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http://www.crush007.com/
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When me and my guy do it i never orgasm in fact i have had 3 partners and never orgamsed but once..i love the guy im with now..how can i get calm and do this and do u know of any good positions..or anything that helped u ? (link)
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Because I don't have orgasms (or have them rarely)
If this is you, you may be surprised to learn that most women don't have orgasms during intercourse. "The majority of women have trouble reaching orgasm from penis-vagina intercourse," says Hyde. "It's not the most efficient way to stimulate the clitoris, which is what women need." Here's what to do.
If you never have orgasms...
The best way to get them started is by giving them to yourself through masturbation, suggests Hyde. It will help you experience the sensation and learn what--and where--works for you. Experts, including Hyde, recommend sex therapist Lonnie Barbach's book For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality as the best self-help manual for getting in touch--literally--with your own feelings.
If you only have orgasms sometimes...
Do you only have orgasms during oral or manual stimulation? "You may be setting unrealistic goals for yourself by expecting to have them during intercourse," says Hyde. "If you can orgasm from oral-genital sex, why worry?"
for more information on this topic just go to
http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-6-83-195-4332-5,00.html
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Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please? (link)
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The number of days between the starting day of one period and the starting day of the next one is about 28 days (four weeks, or one month), but different women have different cycle times, which can change with their age. When girls first start having periods, they can be quite irregular, and it might take two years before they settle down into a regular cycle that is normal for them. Some girls or women always have irregular periods.
if you need mor einformation about periods this site has like everything you need to know..
http://www.addenbrookes.org.uk/shac/normal/female/period.html
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what are ANY other signs of pregnancy other then sore boobs, and morning sickness??? (link)
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1. Food cravings: Sure it's a cliché, but food cravings sometimes can be a sign of pregnancy. Don't rely on them as a sure symptom (it may be all in your head, or even a sign that your body is low on a particular nutrient), but if cravings are accompanied by some of the other symptoms on this list, start counting the days from your last period.
2. Darkening of your areolas: If the skin around your nipples gets darker, you may have successfully conceived, though this may also signal a hormonal imbalance unrelated to pregnancy or be a leftover effect from a previous pregnancy.
3. Implantation bleeding or cramping: About eight days after ovulation, you may experience implantation spotting, a slight staining of a pink or brown colour, as well as some cramping. You might also see some spotting around the time you expect your period; this is caused by the egg burrowing into the endometrial lining.
4. Frequent urination: Once the embryo implants and begins producing the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG), you may find yourself going to the bathroom more often.
5. Fatigue: Feeling tired? No, make that exhausted. High levels of the hormone progesterone can make you feel as if you've run a marathon when all you've done is put in a day at the office. Fatigue is a hallmark of early pregnancy, though probably not a surefire symptom on its own.
6. Tender, swollen breasts: If you're pregnant, your breasts will probably become increasingly tender to the touch, similar to the way they feel before your period, only more so. Once your body grows accustomed to the hormone surge, the pain will subside.
7. Morning sickness: If you're lucky, morning sickness won't hit you until a few weeks after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But as early as a couple of days following conception, you may begin feeling nauseated and queasy. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea can be a problem morning, noon, or night. You may also notice that your sense of taste changes. Some women say they have a metallic taste in their mouth, others that they cannot stand the taste of coffee, tea, or a food they usually like.
8. Your basal body temperature stays high: If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed above the coverline for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant.
9. A missed period: If you're usually pretty regular and your period is late, it's worth trying a pregnancy test. A missed period is the surest sign of pregnancy in a woman of childbearing age who usually has regular periods.
And finally ...
10. A positive home pregnancy test: If you've waited to test until at least the first day of a missed period and a blue line appears in the test window, you're most likely in the family way. Make an appointment with your doctor to confirm the news, and head on over to our pregnancy area.
information from babycentre
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I seriously love my boyfriend alot ive been with him for a long time and he doesnt feel like im atracted to him but i am i think hes the hottest thing in my eyes but he says i dont show him that he is very well but when i try to he always is like "yea right" and i know hes not the best looking in the world but i still think hes really hott and we fight alot (which i dont care bout ) when im mad i dont feel like touching him and stuff can anyone tell me what to do to make him feel better and something that he wont be like "yea right" to and just for reference i have done "stuff" with him.... (link)
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you shouldn't step up the relationship a nitch to sex or anything just to show him that you think he's attractive or to make him happy. When you guys are BOTH ready for that stuff (if you havent already done it) then talk about that. But that's completely different from attractiveness.
Find ways to tell him that he's attractive. Guys are sensitive and self-concious too. Just try when you're hanging out with him, randomly tell him that you think he's amazing and hot or something sweet like that. and yes, communication is one of the key things in a relationship so tell him that you think he's hot and that even if he thinks he isnt you would love him regardless.
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I'm 15, female and I have been dating my bf for almost a month now. I am a cutter but none of my friends know about it. My bf and I were talking about one of our friends being a cutter and he asked me if I was. I lied to him and told him I wasn't. Now I feel terrible about lying to him. I afraid of how he will react if I tell him. Do you think I should tell him the truth?
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Yes you should tell him. I can understand how it might be a little difficult to admit something such as that, but you should definatly tell him and if he loves you or cares about you then he'll understand and do whatever he can to help and if he lashes out and doesn't understand then maybe he's just not the one for you. but yes being honest in a relationship is very important.
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ok my mom like dosent trust me 1 bit at all and i really need to ask a questio on here but.. my mom puts like these tracker things on my computer she can read everything i do on here anything i type and stuff like that anywhere i go on the computer.. so .. i want to ask everyone a question on here but if i asked my mom would read it and i would get in sooo much trouble i really need an answer thought but i still dont want to get in trouble (link)
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hey, i can totally relate. my dad is so nosey and is always looking through my emails and my text messages and always trying to find out what im doing and what sites im going to. You should just sit your mom down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel, tell her that you feel that you need her to trust you. If you did anything to make her feel she cannot trust you then she might be a little bit uneasy about it, but reassure her that the past is the past and you hope she can always trust you. But also you should try looking at it from her point of view. She might just a be an overprotective mother trying to make sure her daughter is safe and checking out her information to make sure she's not getting into anything bad. All you need to do is tell her how you feel, and if that doesn't work then you can post again and ill do whatever i can to help. i hope this helped :)
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hey guys just wanted to tell you that you can ask me about anything and ill try to help you out as best i can! just hit the "ask a question" button and then pick the category and ask away! xO* (link)
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