Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's.
Martini_Kiss answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:08 pm: Girls tend to think guys always need to make the move. What they don't realize is that guys are also shy about making the moves on a good looking chick.
I'd say go for it, make your move, if you like him, what could be the worse thing that could happen? Right?
As far as pointers, hang-outs in your town are always a good starter.. and simple comments on something you realize you both have in common.. (noticing his clothes.. a game he's playing.. a topic he's talking about something.. ) are good conversation starters.. go from there.. Good Luck! [ Martini_Kiss's advice column | Ask Martini_Kiss A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:15 am: Guys do like it when girls make the first move. For us girls, the guys are supposed to make the first move. If he doesnt then you do it. It doesnt matter and the guys like it so its cool! X0` [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Xo_Ashie_oX answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 9:14 pm: well... thast not really a first move... thats more of introducing yourself!! and yea thats cool with guys if u introduce urself... as long as ur not all like completly over them and all that good stuff!! but once yall get to know each other... he can make the moves... works best!! hope i helped!! [ Xo_Ashie_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Ashie_oX A Question ]
xHeRex2xHeLpx answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 8:59 pm: Boys are weird. They all want different things. Some guys (mostly ones that are shy) will want the girl to appraoch them but usually i think guys prefer to make the first move. It all depends on the guy though.
good luck!
Sw33t_Dr33ms_xOx answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 8:46 pm: heY! it aLL kinda depends...but ii would say a guy should make a 1st move! but if i grL dOes its not like a big deaL but i think guys shOuld!
ABERCROMBIE_X_BARBIE answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 8:18 pm: actualy ... most guys like the chase.. and like to make the first move. statistics show that 4 out of every 5 guys thats relationships lasted for awhile made the first move.. im not saying you cant go and talk to guys first.. but as asking them out on dates or kissing them first... if they want that bad enough they will ask or make the first move. if nto they just arent that into you. hope i helped [ ABERCROMBIE_X_BARBIE's advice column | Ask ABERCROMBIE_X_BARBIE A Question ]
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