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Moving too slow? how should i handle this??
yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?
PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think.
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well thats normal. if he really likes u then he'll respect you and wait for you to b ready. but make sure he knows your not ready, and when you are also make sure he knows
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He defenetly wants more. So have you guys made out? Well in school you could just give him a little kiss or something. Maybe once you get to know him beter you could maybe give him ahandjob or something. Thats 2nd base and its good enough. If he wants more then fu*ck it l0l! X0`
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Well hun i no just how you feel. If you aint ready for moving on dont you even dare step off 2nd bace for him!! If he really likes you then he'll wait for you. All true boys/man will if not hun push him off the bace and stay lol. Your right you should talk to him about it just like go out to eat or maybe go over one another house. Sit him down and just say it flat out im not ready to go that fast. Tell him and make sure you make it clean that you really do like him. Dont just dump him before talking this one out dont. Some times us girl justt take things alittle to far and get scared and then turn to a gfs and they say leave him before he does something dumb. But all girls do that. He also didnt tell you what he ment yet so you really dont no so dont get that scared. And your not that old im gussing so dont worry about it im sure you pretty and if this boy screws up or something that means theres even someone better out there for you.
Love Your Girl,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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hey hun! first of all he deffinatly has to respect you! another thing is communicating to eachother.. If he knows what he wants he should just tell you, and if you don`t want to do what he wants then just tell him im really sorry and i do like you alot but if u cant respect me enough to wait a little while or something then maybe its best we aren`t together- because this is something really important to me! i dont nessicarly think you 2 should break up.. just be more open with eachother & hopefully it works out & if not im really sorry.. but remember to speak ur mind =)
hope i helped ! <3
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Ok first off you need communication in your relationship. Tell him that you aren't sure what he wants and that you're uncomfortable doing anything farther than 2nd base with him. Just talk to him about it and if he wants to move fast and still do that then just tell him that you don't think it will work out anymore because you both want two different things. But you should talk to him first. Then see how things go.Because breaking up with him without like talking to him or giving him a reason isn't a good thing to do. so i would just talk to him about it and if hes still pushed into going farther then just tell him you want different things and it wont work out anymore.
hope this helped :)
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