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Q: hi how far should i put in my tampon cause some days it'll hardly go in then other days it'll go in really far
Well on like all tampon boxs it'll say to put it in to the line on the plastic part cause theres like a line that tells you how far to put it in. When its up to that line push it in.


Love
Ashley

Q: what are the symtoms to a yeist infection?
It will be really ichy!! Like youll have white stuff come out of you. All youll wanna do all day is ich it. Theres pills you can get for it or cream. You can get them at drug stores or just normal stores.

Love
Ashley

Q: My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him?
Well just tell him your not ready. If he loves you like you love him he'll under stand and wait till your ready!! I'm sure he'll wait and if he cant wait then theres someone eles out there way better for you. Just sit him down and explain to him how you feel about it and everything thats all.


Love
Ashley

Q: **This is Motly to guys, but if gurls can help then thats good too**

When im making out with my boyfriend, he slips his hand under my underwear and starts touching me down there, my question is do guys like girl's pussies to be shaved or what when they are touching them?
**I'll Rate you good**
**Thanks in advance**

Well if he loves you and cares about you he wont care if its shaved or if its not. Now i Nair(cream) and i feel that they like it better if you are. My friend didnt shave once and he fucked her and then told all the boys that she didnt shave and it was nasty!! And if you are planing on shaving...it wont hurt but after youll probley get a rash and it will ich like all the time. Thats what happens thats why i Nair. Its a cream your put it on leave it on for 5-10min then rince off. Yep thats it the only thing about it is it stink really bad!!! But hey doesnt hurt or nothing. You can get it at like any store it its like $6. Hope i helped

Love
Ashley

Q: is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?
Yep

Q: is it bad to masterbate?
~Nopes~

Love,
Ashley

Q: 13/f
ok so im 5'4 and weigh a 112-115 punds ... is this normal or should be around 108 and maybe 110...but just to let you no .. i got some junk in the trunk (like alot) and i have a good size chest (34B)i no im not fat because you can see a six pack on me .. but am i wrong?? help please!

Claire
No your not fat!!You sound fine to me. If you got abs then your really really really luck



Love,
Ashley

Q: for shaving below whats a good suggestion of shaving cream to avoid burns and red bumps?
Use nair. You put it on for 5-10min then wipe it off . It stinks but it works good and no hair after. You can buy it at any store around you probley.


love,
Ashley

Q: is there a cure for pubic lice?
OH my god i feel so bad for you!!Call the doctor and see. I never had it before so i really woudlnt no though

Love,
Ashley

Q: me and my boyfriend been together for pretty long now...and about four months into our relationship we started having sex...we have sex pretty much..and i was wondering is it wrong for me to like to have sex a lot...like im not a slut or anything i can go outwith it..i just like to do it..the only person i slept with was my boyfriend that i have now..i just dont want you people to think im a slut or anything..
No you aint a slut! Hun you love him and when you lvoe someone you give them all you can give! Theres never enough sex. If you like it keep having it. Just make sure its safe thats all.


Love,
Ashley

Q: Hey i just wanted to say hey to myself ask myself for some advice you no. Some times the person who gives it all just really needs to talk*says loudly*but not to many people care to listen. Well i just wanna let all my friends no i made this space for you cause i love you all so much. You no im here for you every min of every day!!! Never let a guy get in your paints girls if your not gonna call me first LOL....Nikki you better let me no when it happens when you ...*laughs* yeah you no...? Well i just want everyone to no i love you!! Even if you hurt me more then anything in this life!! And no ones gonna beat the one thing that hurt me like hell...=/
OMG ASHLEY i love you girl your like my world...Hey you are me and look you live in my body girl friend damn you look good. HOLY SHIT LOOK AT THE RACK ON YOUR!!! Nothing like standing in wall mart with 3 boys checking out some hot pics of some SEXI GIRLS in there bathing suits babi!!! lol good times good times!!!


im getting better every buddy i get showers more!! I dont lay around and complain about my life to every buddy that much!!And sorry if i do talk to you about it


LOVE ME

Q: my b/f says he loves me okay well everytime im on the phone with him he talks for only 10 mins but i call him b/c well he lives in Butler and i call on my cell!! and he says he is sry and stuff and iono wat to do b/c well i never see him and he is just like call me bac at this time and i do and he cant talk then either wat do i do ashley!! i need help babess!! u kno who i am hehe i love you !!
shh i wont say a word of who you are...its just between me and you... Well hun your only 14 so i think not trying to be mean well i think you should get a bf closer. Youll never no what hes doing like if hes with another girl you no. And you only new him for a night before you got with him. You dont no if hes like a player. And your so freakin pretty girl so many boys around here want you!! And they all just better back off SHES MINE!! LOL j/p. But maybe you should keep trying.. Fallow your heart. Whatever happens is ment to happen If your ment to be together youll come back together =o)So dont worry!! If you two do break up ill hook yoOou up with someone dont you worry girly pooh



Love the sexi hands
Of the hotest bitch
ever HAHA you loOve
it when i touch you
with them*Laughs*!!
~~~~~~Ashley~~~~~~~

Q: Okay my bestfriend ever is ditching me for another friend and this girl is takeing my place as being her best friend i dont know what to do anymore=/ everytime i ask to hang out she says i have plans this whole week then i ask for the day she does not have plans and she says okay then she forgets what should i do? i miss my best friend!!!! please help me !!
Talk to her about!!Do it on the phone if you gotta. I no ive done it and some times i feel like im doing it still...I feel bad but i always make sure i make time for everyone. Most of the time i just wait till they ask me to do things. Well tell her that you really miss being her bestest friend and you really think you should hang alot more!! And dont worry girls are like always allowed to have more then one BFF!! Some times girls dont realize when they ditch there friends. They need talk to like a bitch slap ya no but just with out the slap.



Love,
Ashley

Q: hey ashley its lisa.. haha i dont think that was nicole who wrote that .. haha i dont know but i love you much and im sorry for saying i was going to leave.. we bisexual babys for life.. yeah thats us baby . .. i dont know wat i would do with out you .. we been threw it all haha .. oh god.. member last night what happened .. ;) wink wink that was the best! never forget me baby ill never think about leaving you again!! your bestestestestestest friend in the whole fucking world LISA MARIE REYNOLDS!!!!!
I LOVE YOU TOO LISA!!!yeah babi us BIS rock like yeah sexi as butt poops. Like oh my god we need BFs like crazy..... I no i need alittle something if you get what i mean ;o)...im so me*laughs*. I no i no ive been through everything in life...even if i wish i didnt go through it but hey it just made me a better person and made me look at life better you no...god we been through so much together...From Flipping 4 wheelers--to skinny dipping*laughs*.. Well you no im here for you and im great at advise so ask away if you ever need it girly pooh...God damn it i love you bab!!!


Love Always And Forever
The sexest Lonely bitch
Ashley ZzZ

Q: I've been masturbating and I've been using a water bottle and my finger.. does anyone have any other items I could use to masturbate? Will rate 5's =]
WOW your kinki using a water bottle lol...sexi... well if your willing to use things like that let me name a few

-viberating tooth brush
-a foot thingy
-a guys finger
-a guys dick!!(ohs god thats good lol)
-carrot
-your girls
-they got thease ice pack things for water bottles there hard
-dildo

gotta think about some more and when i do ill update this!!

Love,
Ashley

Q: girl/14
see i think you should know who i am, i kinda used to be your best friend but you moved on to Lisa but i think i like someone thats a girl named chelsea Quinn but if i did anything with her everyone would make fun of me! i just dont know wat to do please help!
I'm just taking a guess HEY NIKKI BABI CAKES I LOVE YOU!! What girl??? You no i love you like a sister!! Thats no lie at all!! Dont think your not my bff i love you so much!! Were so close and you no everything...I dont think theres one thing you dont no about me yet....AND WE GOTTA HANG ALOT MORE BABI WE GOTTA ME+YOU=OMG WERE SUCH DUMB BUTTS i love fighting over what music were gonna watch haha funny!!RAP SUCKS lol..


I LOVE YOU SO MUCH NIKKI DONT EVER FORGET THAT
AND GOOD LUCK WITH JOSH****YOU MY TIGHT SPICK'
FRIEND OH YEAH BABI...YOU LOVE MY HANDS EVEN..
IF YOU NO WERE THEY BEEN =O)...OHS SO SEXIIIII

Q: my boyfriends Xgirlfriend is friends with my best friend and my boyfriends Xgirlfriend told my best friend that he never dumped her and idk what to do cuz he says that he loves me and he would never cheat on me and he said he dumped her a long time ago. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!
To me it sounds like his ex is mad cause you got a great boy that she lost...Shes probley just wanting you to like dump him or get in a fight so she can make her way in..Or he didnt dump her they just stopped talking(which is like a break up but some people dont think of it like it) So trust your bf nothings going on i bet you!!!If you need help with anything eles go ahead and ask!!


Love,
Ashley

Q: if a guy says he is gonna wait for u is he really going to or is he juss sayin that to make you feel better??
It depends on what you mean by wait

Waiting till you come back from were ever:
well from what happened to me its a lie. I gave my virginty to a guy that i new. I truely liked him i really did and he moved to FL and he said he would keep in touch and everythng but...guess all he had in mind was sex and you no what im sure hes down there with all them other girls right about now...cause he never mailed me back. But this boy your talking about might not lie but what i herd from all my boys that are my friends(there like my brothers and would never lie) Boy all got one thing i there heads and they'll say or do anything to get it....sex.... Im sorry i hope i didnt upset you but who noes your boy might not lie to you and i hope he didnt!!

If he says Ill wait till your ready to have sex:
Most of the time that means he will. And if hes not he wouldnt say that im sure!! Plus if he wasnt gonna wait he would leave..

Any more qustion you got just ask


P.S not all boys are the same so talk to him about it!!

Love,
Ashley

Q: hey its me again im the same one who wrote bout there fathers....but this time its bout my love life...ok...u see...i was datin this boy...nd he was my first love...nd wen we broke up we like had probs wit our friendship...but then we started talkin bout gettin back together...nd we were in love wit each other well atleast i thought we were...i loved him more then nethin in this world...nd he said he loved me too until one day he started datin his other ex gf again...nd it juss broke my heart but i got thru it...nd i started datin this other kid...nd i am happi...but then my first love nd his gf broke up...nd i knew from that point on that it was gonna effect me...bc wen he told me they broke up...nd we was talkin bout sumtin...he told me that he made the wrong decision he picked the wrong person nd that he was sorry nd he said he wishes he juss would of picked me....nd once that happened...i fell in love wit him again nd realized how much i cared for him....but i dont want to break my bf's heart...i dont knoe wut to do...please help me ash...!!

confused!
Well hun you gotta fallow your heart and it seems like no matter what path your taking it leads back to this boy. I under stand....i really do.. Theres this one kid and ill always like him. And my heart always seems to go to him when im single(i dont get it some times) Well i think you need to talk to this kid about it. Just be like alright if i end what i got with someone thats very nice and great to me were gonna hook up right. I'm not giving up something that i need for nothing right? Make sure you get a answer before you dump your bf you got now. And i no it might be hard but talk to your bf about the feelings your having for your EX im sure he'll help. If he under stands and still want to work things out and try to help you get over him... he wil if He truely loves you girl!! Your ex sound like he loves you but is having a problem with commeting himself fully out to you... But maybe hes changed...... Always remember hun ..... What ment to be will always be..... And soul mates will end up together some time or another... in this life time or in the next life time?? We just never no..... If you need more help or got any questions just ask im fully hopen with answering anything



Love,
Ashley

Q: im 15/f nd i dont knoe my real dad...nd its like i wanna meet him so bad but then i dont bc he left my mom juss bc she was pregnant...nd then my mom met my step dad...nd it was all good up intill my dad started drinkin every nite...he would cum home drunk nd i would be sleepin upstairs in my room nd i would get woken up from my mom screamin bc my dad would abuse her...ok well i would walk downstairs nd juss stand there bawlin my eyes out...nd my dad juss wouldnt stop...nd this would happen everynite...for like a long time...nd one nite...my dad came home drunker then he ever was...nd it was so scary i went downstairs nd i seen him punch her in the face...nd i screamed at him nd told him to stop but he never did nd i pushed him away...nd he came nd punched me...nd i ran into the wall...nd he went to jail...nd i havent gotten over it...is it gonna scar me for life? please help...i dont knoe wut to do...bc i drink too...but i dont want to take after him...i dont want to hurt ppl...nd every1 says how bad there life is...nd everytime they talk bout tehre families nd say bad shit bout there dad...its like omfg they have a dad nd they think there life is horible bc there dad wont let them do nuttin well try havin no dad...try gettin abused for like 5 years!! please help!!
Thanks for asking me a question. Wish you didnt have to ask something like this though. Sorry about both of your fathers. Well i hate to say it but it might scar you for life. You might wanna start talking to someone about it so it wont hurt as bad. I no someone that had something kinda like this going on in there life. Now there kinda mean(but it dont seem like you are) and they have a problem with loving and trusting guys... Which is really sad. You might get over it and i hope thats what happens. And i hope you and your mom are doing good now. And its not your fault your dads in jail or that your other dad left. NEVER blaime yourself for something like that theres no need and you were just standing up for you mom when your dad hit you. Hope i helped you out and if you need to talk just write again or if you got AIM IM me on AshleyZ416




Love,
Ashley

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AshleyZ416
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Lisa
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Ashley(me)

Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair



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