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Question Posted Monday July 11 2005, 1:13 pm

im 15/f nd i dont knoe my real dad...nd its like i wanna meet him so bad but then i dont bc he left my mom juss bc she was pregnant...nd then my mom met my step dad...nd it was all good up intill my dad started drinkin every nite...he would cum home drunk nd i would be sleepin upstairs in my room nd i would get woken up from my mom screamin bc my dad would abuse her...ok well i would walk downstairs nd juss stand there bawlin my eyes out...nd my dad juss wouldnt stop...nd this would happen everynite...for like a long time...nd one nite...my dad came home drunker then he ever was...nd it was so scary i went downstairs nd i seen him punch her in the face...nd i screamed at him nd told him to stop but he never did nd i pushed him away...nd he came nd punched me...nd i ran into the wall...nd he went to jail...nd i havent gotten over it...is it gonna scar me for life? please help...i dont knoe wut to do...bc i drink too...but i dont want to take after him...i dont want to hurt ppl...nd every1 says how bad there life is...nd everytime they talk bout tehre families nd say bad shit bout there dad...its like omfg they have a dad nd they think there life is horible bc there dad wont let them do nuttin well try havin no dad...try gettin abused for like 5 years!! please help!!

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AshleyZ416 answered Monday July 11 2005, 3:09 pm:
Thanks for asking me a question. Wish you didnt have to ask something like this though. Sorry about both of your fathers. Well i hate to say it but it might scar you for life. You might wanna start talking to someone about it so it wont hurt as bad. I no someone that had something kinda like this going on in there life. Now there kinda mean(but it dont seem like you are) and they have a problem with loving and trusting guys... Which is really sad. You might get over it and i hope thats what happens. And i hope you and your mom are doing good now. And its not your fault your dads in jail or that your other dad left. NEVER blaime yourself for something like that theres no need and you were just standing up for you mom when your dad hit you. Hope i helped you out and if you need to talk just write again or if you got AIM IM me on AshleyZ416




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