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guy problems
Hi i am 13 years old and (i am a gurl) i cant find a decent guy, every one i dated just wants me to have sex of do stuff like that to/with him, and when i say i am not ready for that they just leave me or get really mad and act like a two year old, so tell me, why is it that all guys want is to getin your pants? cuz it is really pissing me off
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I'm a 16-year old guy, and to be quite honest, I don't think about sex like you're claiming all guys do. For most guys, it is the least of their worries, but the trick is finding them.
Like Laura said, you're only 13 and you have plenty of time to find a guy who isn't interested in just sex, and there are a lot of them out there, like I said. Just be patient =].
I have a lot of guy friends who don't think about sex like that, so maybe it's just the guys you go to school with.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Not all guys are only interested in sex. Trust me, I have guy friends that are some of the best people I've ever met in my life, and sex isn't even on their list of concerns.
Now, you're only 13 and you shouldn't get mad just yet. You've got your whole life ahead of you and PLENTY of time left to worry about guys. Just wait until you find one who likes YOU for YOU, and who will respect your boundaries. Trust me, once you find a guy who likes you for who you are and doesn't pressure you into anything, the wait will have been TOTALLY worth it =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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omg girlie! i just turned 14! and im a girl to all the guys are the same wit me! and they get really mad but i mean your pride and standing up 4 your self is beta! and they will get mad but if they really like you they will wait. i learned in experience dat they will test you but say no!
if u need anymore help let me no because i have a feeling your goin thru exactly wat i went thru last month!
oh and bassically the reason they do it is because... they're horny jerks! lol
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Wow,your 13 and guys are already thinking about sex?! times changed since when i was 13 lol
Not ALL guys want to get into your pants.Their truly is alot of caring,respectful,and loving guys out there who will do anything for a girl.Boys at this age are going through puberty,where they think they have to be "better" then the other guys which also includes sex.Like to see how many girls they can have sex with(which is one of the stupidest things ive ever heard).Just don't let guys influence you,because you CAN say no.Since your very young,you have plenty of time to find a guy.I was pretty much discovering boys at your age lol But you will find the one for you..someday.For now,just enjoy being a kid,your time will come soon enough.
♥ danielle
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I know what you mean, I am not popular with guys, because I won't "put out" Guys want whats easy for them, or most guys do. If you don't put out sooner or later youll get a good guy, who is worth it, b/c hes already had the sluts and your not them. Let me put it this way, I have been told that I'm the final girl, the girl they want to take home to meet their parents. There is absouletly nothing wrong with that. Be proud of yourself that you aren't a slut. It pisses me off too, but its the way they think. There hormones are raging, and so are their egos. Not all guys just want to get in your pants, there is a small percentage of the good guys, keep looking cause when he comes along you don't want to lose him.
And your only 13, you have got plenty of time. Don't rush it, it'll come along at just the right moment.
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