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Hey gorgeous ! im jenn! 15 yr. old grl from arizona ! ya its like the worst place to live.. but hey i get by! =) im really nice & understand and i love helping people with they're problems.. i always make people feel better if their down, cuz thats just the type of grl i am !
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okay so theres this holiday dance for the school on sunday. and i dont know what to wear. like me and my friends wanna do something good for it. another group of my friends are being christmas trees and another elves. what do you think me and a few of my friends should be? i was like thinking red n green with a santa hat? i dunno. lol please help! thanks so much

that would be cute
you could say your santa's little helpers
and wear like green tights & a cute red skirt or something and a cute santa hat =)
hope i helped

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Hi everyone so the problem is i have this friend and shes really nice but i cant STAND her, shes soooo clingy, but i cant tell her that because she will be all mad and bitchy. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! thanks bye -krodehtyllek

hey hun! ive deffinatly experienced this before pretty much! so i think i can help.. you deffinatly need to tell her straight up, you shouldnt be punished for speaking the truth and being honest.. honesty is the best quality in a friend & trust! tell her in person that you need to talk to her and tell her that she is really nice and everything but shes way too clingy, and that your sorry if that hurts her feelings but your just being a true friend by being honest..

* hope i helped =)

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This might be a little long since I'm giveing you background info.

Ok, This girl named Dee (fake name) needed a friend at the time. I decided to take that role in her life. Every day there would be something new, example: "I hate my life", "Nobody likes me", "My stepmom did ______________ and made me __________". And it never ends!

So one day I decide to break the fake friendship tie that I had set up. And I went through with it. The thing is that she keeps coming back. She tries to be nice to me, says a perky "Hi!" everyday. The reason she does that is because she thinks she can fix it, but its way to late for that.

My question is: What can I do so that I have no kind of contact with her?

hey hun! im sry that she did that to you... but next time she says something like ' hi ' to you and tries to be all friendly just say look.. ive been friends with you , but all you did was stay depressed no matter what.. and im not that type of person to always be down..
let her know wuts up.. but in a nice way !

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yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?

PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think.

hey hun! first of all he deffinatly has to respect you! another thing is communicating to eachother.. If he knows what he wants he should just tell you, and if you don`t want to do what he wants then just tell him im really sorry and i do like you alot but if u cant respect me enough to wait a little while or something then maybe its best we aren`t together- because this is something really important to me! i dont nessicarly think you 2 should break up.. just be more open with eachother & hopefully it works out & if not im really sorry.. but remember to speak ur mind =)

hope i helped !

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ok well... i have this pic on my xanga but my friend put it there a long time ago. i want to change it but dont know how. shes not friends with me anymore so i cant ask her again. someone please tell me how to do it!

hey i can help u ! just IM me on AIM- hc0isl0ve

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Hey ..my cousin is about to have a baby in a month she hasnt picked out the name yet and she cant think of any names so i thought maybe some ppl could give me some good ideas for a name..
plz..i would rly appreciate it

hey.. * congrats on ur cousins baby *

Girl-
kayden
Kaylee
Bridgett
Tyeler
Rhiley
Brittnie
tiffanie
Vallerie


Boys-
Preston
Jackson
blake
Braiden ( or spelt- Brayden )
Gage
Dylan
Jacob
Brandon
Aaron
Brenden
Collin


* hope i helped!!

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There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do?

hey hun!.. omgosh i know exactly what you mean and wut your going thru, just try not talking to him for a few weeks.. i.e. lyk 2-3 weeks.. it helped me alot and hopefully it'll help you out- and just hang out with ur girly friends alot n' do stupid stuff together and try to put him in the back of ur mind even tho its hard.. Guys can be major asshole's and when we need them the most there not usually there.. it sux.. and guys are very confusing!! * good luck tho!

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ok well theres this kid that i like, but i ahve gone out with him and it hasnt worked be4... but he seems to be like INLOVE with me.. and i only like him a lil bit. i dont really wanna go back out with him cuz i dont wanna ruin our very close friendship but i also dont want him to think he needs to impress me.. bcuz i was kinda hoping to move on... what do i do?! and how do i move on :/ HELP PLEASEEE!!!

hey girl.. Just let him kno that in your opinion that age does kinda matter.. and you'd just maybe like to be friends.. and not be together or ne thing like that.. Hopefully he isnt physco but if hes caring or nice n' sweet he'll understand..
good luck with it-

xOx*jenn

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Theres a lot of things wrong with me when I have sex. To most guys my problems sound like a dream come true, but in the long run they are a huge problem. When I have sex, sometimes I can't get all the way up for a while. I'm not even 20, so I doubt I need viagra. A lot of my friends pop a boner the second a girl starts cuddling with them and they hate it, but I save myself the embarrassment and just can't have sex when the time comes. Also, a lot of my friends ejaculate too early (after 3 or 4 minutes) but I personally last for an hour maybe two one end. I know this also sounds like a dream come true, but in the end I usually end up getting tired, bored, and I rarely even finish. I know it's good for the girl, but what about if I ever want to have kids?
I thought about whether I was gay, but I have absolutely no attraction to guys and I really do like girls, just more emotionally than physically. I enjoy the cuddling and long evening walks in the park to getting drunk and fucking in a back room kind of thing. Is there any thing I can do without seeking medical help?

hey hun.. i dont think nothings really wrong with you- its just that your the more kinda emotinonally type guy- rather than physical.. and alot of girls out there like that.. If you ever wana have kids i suggest in the future you could contact a doctor about that type of thing, even though as of reading this i dont think nothing is wrong with you! If you need more advice on this just drop a message in my inbox.. i hope this sorta helped you-

xOx * jenn

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ok i just got a cell phone, and my friend is going to the beach with my family so i figured her of all people would be happy for me since we can go do whatever while everyone else is somewhere else...and she wasnt happy or excited or anything she was just like oh ok cool. and shes normally never like that and then like the next day shes got invited to some special dance and she was all happy and kinda rubbing it in my face and all yeah so im going to the mall and stuff to shop for a dress. and she told me a while back that she would invite me to one of those dances but she never said n e thing about that. and like when i told her that i got a cell phone all i said was oh yeah guess what i got a cell phone! and she was like ok w/e...idk if i should tell her or what and now since this happend im not all THAT excited n e more about going to the beach together bc im afraid she'll be all talkin bout that dance...what do i do?

She IS doing that to make you jealous.. although you kno it bothers you that she didnt say ne thing about the dance...so i think you should just confront her and tell her " im sorry if i made you mad or something .. but can we have a great trip when we go 2 the beach without ne fighting or hard feelings " and tell her also to be open with you- and let her kno ur open minded too.. hopefully that'll help eachothers friendship! good luck huN!*

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Alrite I have blonde hair and it is so boring. I want to dye it....I have tan skin and light brown eyes...do you think that i should get it dyed browner or wut? I need help

You can always put alot of honey colored highlightes.. and it'll look darker cuz thats how mine is! but if u dont lyk that then try a honey colore'd burnette!

xOx*

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all these guys like me and i dont know what to do because i dont like any of them.. PleAse HElP!

.. well the best thing to do is tell them the truth- let them kno ur not into them like that but ur flatterd that they like you.. HoPe I HeLpeD hun!

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um whats 2 plus 2?

aw.. you must be like 6 yrs. old.. 2+2=4 hunnie

( Keith ur dumb and i kno u posted this lol punk )

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how do i get a girl 2 like me (and iv already told her i like her please help) and were both 14

* just be urself hun.. and try to be really sweeet to the girl- n' drop hints that you would more than likely like to be more than friends with her.. take it slow and see how her reaction comes.. * hope i helped good luck gettin the grl!*

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Ok..I Like My BestFriends ex boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But this guy is truly AMAZING..but i dont want to risk losing my friendship..but hes awesome!! I dont know what to do.. Please help me!!

Signed,
Split in Two

hey hun.. well if you truly think he's amazing.. try seeing if ur friend will be upset if you and him ever got together.. ask her ?'s like so r you over .... and see wut her responce is.. but just remember grls r always guna be there 4 u unlike guys! * hope i helped *

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Ok me and my ex boyfriend were going out for 4 months and we broke up and went back out the next month.. and he has changed alot.. in a good way and a bad way.. because he used to talk about other girls and everything with me but now he acts like he doesnt have time for me and he is always yelling at me .. but i really love him and i dont want to break up with him but i know i should because he treats me like crap.. i dont kno what to do.

* first of all hun.. If a boy treats you bad- then hes bad! Even if you love him i think ya'll shouldnt be together- if the guy isnt treating u right then he shouldnt be lucky enough to be with you- i say you should drop him until he changes for the better- and by the better i mean 4 you! : ) hope i helped

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Okay, so I've been questioning my boyfriend and I's relationship because lately we have been fighting and argueing a whole bunch. Well, last night we got in a small fight and he told me I was a horrible girlfriend. I wasnt sure if I should break up with him because our 8 month anniversary is THIS Saturday :-/ I'm kinda depressed about it.. and I dont know if I have the guts to call it off. Any ideas on what to say to that jerk and how to feel bettter?

gurl you need to tell him dont say things he doesnt mean.. and yea if he's always bein a jerk to you then you should call it off- dont let him control you or ne thing. Feel better by letting all ur stress out by maybe writing all ur problems down on a paper- then ripping it up or something. or maybe talk 2 him about it that he was bein a jerk when he said that to you. * hope i helped*

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I am really white, but i have freckles on my face so every time i go in the sun my frackles seem to get darker but not my skin! i want to go to a tanning salon but iono how much it is, and i heard you could get cancer. should i just put sunscreen on my face then the freckles wont get darker but then i wont get a tan on my face too, what do i do???

hey gurl.. well you don't nessicarly have to go to a tannnig bed.. You could go to a spray on tan place- and that may make your freckles fade- but im not 100% positive. Spray on tanning places dont have any bad chemicals so you can't get cancer, so try looking up a local place like that and find out the cost.. or if its too much just put suncreen all over. I kno getting tan isnt the easiest thing, but your you for a reason.. * hope i helped

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We all know that love is a sweet but sad thing... Well me na this guy have dated 2 times before an it didnt work out because of the people around us always starting shit. Finally i realized to just not believe drama anymore and stick to me an him .. well hes in the army and right now hes just in training but hes been gone alot but we've been together for about 2 months but i love him ... Hes the sweetest sin you kno- He goes to iraq for a year in november and he told my best friend that more then likely were gonna breka up for that year and its hard cause i dont want us to break up ever i just cant see me without him for a whole year. I understand thats a long time to be with a guy but not actually with him so i gues shes right .. but do you think hes just saying that because he wants us to break up ? I dont kno what to do bout this guy anymore .. please i need someones advice

* i think you should talk to him about your feelings, tell him how you feel and if he still try's other things to break apart from you then maybe he does want you two to break up.. Your friend is probably right.. he should be consintrating on his work- and if thats really the truth then try to give him the year.. i kno it'll be hard but just go out alot with friends.. * i hope i helped * - rate me if u have time!

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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him??

yes gurl, you need to confront him and ask him what's up?!.. If you find him cheating you need to move on.. no guy should be doing that- and i totally think its wrong. If he gives sum lame excuse or something that it was his cousin- dont believe it... and if you kinda believe it then ask his mom if he was with sum1 else that day..don't seem like your finding out information tho.. But dont ever let a boi cheat on you! lol * hope i helped *~ rate me if u have time

* but to tell you the truth i think hes hiding sumthin from u.. so check it out!

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