Hi everyone so the problem is i have this friend and shes really nice but i cant STAND her, shes soooo clingy, but i cant tell her that because she will be all mad and bitchy. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! thanks bye -krodehtyllek<3
Shelly_x answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:06 pm: Try and tell her gently or in a jokey way. or just try and distance yourself from her. If ou are going out at the weekend and she wants to come say something liek i kinda jsut want to do this on my own but we do things another time. hoep i've helped a little
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mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:16 pm: I think you should be honest and tell her that you like to have your own space, and that sometime hanging out with different friends is what you want to do. Just be honest and truthful, she should understand.
AshaLee answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 10:38 am: i think you should just sit her down and talk to her about it.. and tell her u think u need to have some space and maybe hang out with other people and stuff. but also tell her she is a really good freind and stuff
Teza answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:03 am: You could tell her but in a really nice way. If she was a really good friend she wouldnt get mad at you. Tell her you need some space between you guys. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
OrionsFire answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 10:45 pm: Tell her that you need some space because you just feel like too many people are leaning on you at once. If she's a good friend, she will understand. If not, then you have the right to tell her that she's being clingy and it shouldn't matter if she gets mad or not. [ OrionsFire's advice column | Ask OrionsFire A Question ]
xoblondekiss answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 10:04 pm: hey hun! ive deffinatly experienced this before pretty much! so i think i can help.. you deffinatly need to tell her straight up, you shouldnt be punished for speaking the truth and being honest.. honesty is the best quality in a friend & trust! tell her in person that you need to talk to her and tell her that she is really nice and everything but shes way too clingy, and that your sorry if that hurts her feelings but your just being a true friend by being honest..
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