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he wont kiss me at school..
so ive liked this guy at school forever. weve both always had bf/gf this year though. well were both single now and weve been getting close. we hangout all the time at school and every1 thinks we go out. he said he doesnt want a relationship right now though. at school he puts his arm around me and hugs me forever and on the wekeends hell hold my hand and kiss me and stuff. but he wont kiss me at school. not even a little peck. he kissed his ex all the time though! and he tells me he loves me and calls me babe and calls me every single nite. hes reallly sweet. well i didnt see him last weekend so he said hell "save a kiss for me on monday" monday came, he didnt kiss me. today i was kind of bummed so i wasnt talking alot and he could tell i was mad and kept asking me. my friend eventaully told him what i was upset at. so before we left he hugged me for like 5 minutes and said srry but were at school..i was like yea w/e and walked away. well he called me today after school and he was like your mad because i wont kiss you at school and i was just like no im not whatever. he was like just wait for the weekend babe. im getting soo frustrated. its not even a big deal but ive been through soo much shit with guys and hes the one guy who is so sweet. why wont he just ask me out!? ughhh what can i say/do about this?..
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You can either sit and speculate about why he's doing this, or you can talk to him about it. It's easier to just sit and worry about it and get annoyed by his behaviour, but that is unlikely to get you anywhere, so you need to talk to him. Be honest with him - admit that you don't like it that he's so hot and cold with you, being lovely and sweet and the weekends, but then refusing to acknolwedge you with a kiss when other people are around.
It seems like it might be his reluctance to be in a full relationship surfacing, but if that is what's holding him back, it's better that you know now so that you don't keep on being irritated and upset by his behaviour, and you can decide whether its worth waiting for him to be ready. If he is going to be like this, you might be better finding somebody else who's all the things he is and who is also willing to show you some affection in public. But do give him a chance and hear his side of it first, and see if he's willing to change once he knows how much you dislike his behaviour, because he won't change unless he knows how you feel. All the best.
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Tell him that you won't kiss him IN or OUT of school unless you are dating and you feel that he is playing with your emotions. It sounds like he doesn't want the school to officially be able to prove you guys are dating, the other things could be passed off as really good friends whereas kissing is usually reserved for a significant other. Maybe he is hesitant because his Ex still talks to him and says weird things about what he is doing with you or his friends are making him feel uncomfortable about the situation.
No matter what though, don't continue acting like you are going out because it will lead to you doing too much sexually and him thinking it's alright because he told you he didn't want to date right now.
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The reason he wont kiss you in school is becuz:
a> he's not dating you
b> he's embarassed by you
or
c> he's just using you (which definately is not right)
personally i think that you should forget about him if he is gonna save you for the side dish. you deserve better. justice damn it!!!
lol
ThatSAM ^_^
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i think you should be happy this guy likes you.. your getting mad over nothing.. so he wont kiss you in school so what? do you need to have people watch you kiss? this guy is being so sweet to you.. let him figure out what he wants and maybe hell eventually ask you out.. if not, thats his decision
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To tell you the truth from reading that it seems like he is trying to get something out of you... don't like kiss him and really talk to him about stuff... i think if you guys start to go out and such he will kiss you... h might have had problems with past relationships and thinks kissing in front of allot of ppl means your with the person and you wnt everyone to make sure they know...
Hope i helped
~Gomesy
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sounds like hes embarassed to kiss you at school. that might be fine for now... but its just a sign of hes just not that into you...
i dont mean sound mean but im just telling you what it sounds like..
i hoped i helped
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