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Immmmmmmmmm back!advice
I have a friend who is really nice but lately she has been driving me crazy.
Well for example she phones me about 6 times a day. And when she calls she has nothing to say, she'll just start out saying "how's it going", and then she'll be on the phone for about 20 minutes, finally after her not talking and me doing all the talking I'll say I have to go. The she'll phone me back again and ask if I am mad at her!!. This happens EVERY day.
I am too nice to tell her to stop phoning, but it is really getting annoying. Sometimes I get so mad with all the phone calls that I'll just unplug the phone for a couple of hours, but then I miss out on other important calls from either my boss or my parents. And if I don't answer my phone until the evening she ALWAYS asks if I'm mad.
When I first met her 5 years ago she had a lot on the ball, she was skinny, pretty, and had a boyfriend. But now she is quite overweight, has no boyfriend and no job.
This one time I was waiting for a very important call from my crush. He told me he would phone between 11:00 and 12:00 so I stayed off the phone to wait for his call. Well my phone rang TWICE in the hour and it was HER!! I snapped at her after the second call and then the next day she made me feel guilty and said "is there something wrong with our friendship"!!
What am I going to do about her?
from all that you have said...i've come to the realization that she needs you as her friend. just you being on the phone with her and talking about stuff or just sitting without saying a word makes her feel happy in knowing that your there. of coarse it gets annoying, but we just have to sit back a think about why they call all of the time. you may be the only true person that she has besides her parents and god.
understand? i hope i didnt confuse you.
Sam
theres this guy that i like alot and my friend likes him too.well he tells everyone that he likes us both.he flirts with us and everything but then we see him around campus and he is doing the same thing to everyone eles.he told my friend he never answers the phone but everytime i call he answers or hell call me all the time.does he like me or do you think he is doing this to like every girl??
he's most likely a player.
its the game that some immature boys play.
dont fall for it, its not worth your time.
and if he "liked" you then he would stop messing with all of those other girls and stick with flirting with you.
good luck girlie
Sam :)
ok . i like a guy named evans ( he's in 9th grade and i'm in 10th grade .)anyways how can i tell if he likes me ? he smiles at me alot .
- i_love_seamus_finnigan_ (Anna)
you can tell if:
he flirts
talks to you a certain way
well, there's all kinds of signs. you'll be able to tell.
Sam
okay... so my brother always swears at me and calls me fat and ugly and stuff... and he hits, punches, kicks, etc. me all the time. not enough to leave a bruise or anything (occasionally) but i'm not sure if this is considered abuse? also, my mom (my mom doesn't do it a LOT) and my sister both always tell me i'm stupid, ugly, fat, (same as my brother) but they don't hit me unless they're really mad... do you consider this abuse?
the brother and sister thing is stuff that you do when your young.
me and my brother used to get into fist fights when we were younget and i would have bruises all over cuz he obviously could hit harder.
when you get older you will all get along, trust me, i've experienced it and so have the friends that i have told this. just give your siblings time to grow up. hit back darn it, i would.
if your mom hits you for no reason then yes its verbal abuse. and she shouldnt be doing stuff like that. if she loves you then she wouldnt hit you, especially when its for no reason.
your very brave to be going trough all of this...but your not alone otay?
If you need more advice then leave me a question in my inbox otays? im here.
Sam
I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me
i've been through this before. basically it depends on if you and him spend too much time together, this means, that the spark could be gone. maybe you are getting a little tired of him or there's just tention between you and him, is it hard for you to talk to him? if it is hard for you to talk to him then maybe there is tention.
1) you can break-up with him and redeem yourself all of the frustrations...also you could explore your options.
(OR)
2) you could just try to talk to him about it and you two can give eachother a break for a while.....
i really hope i helped..... and im sorry that you feel like this.
Sammie
My friend is having a pool party in a couple of days and my crush is gonna be there! What are some tihngs i could do to make him like me more, question for the guys- whta would u want a girl to do for u too liek thme, anytihng i could wear or do?
THnaks!!
5 for everyone!
just be yourself. if you try to impress someone just to get them to notice you then that would probably be a turn off for a guy. i found that out from a good guy friend of mine. :)
always here for help
Sammie
i know its not out yet, but is the war of the worlds a good movie for a group of teens to see?
should be sweetums...lol!
Sammie
ok i babysit almost 24/7. my sister has cancer and she just found out sh eis pregnant, she has to give the baby up.well she's going home to her family in texas and she's leaving her kids that i watch all the time anyways with me. my frinds tell em i should tell her to watch her own kids because i never have time to be a kid, wat do ya'll think?
its nice that your being so generous to your sister, about babysitting for her, but that is not YOUR responsibility. she has to learn to take care of her own kids. if she doesnt start soon then her kids are going to start calling you "mommy" and i kno this for a fact. just be straight up forward with your sister on how you want to live your childhood the right way, not the way your sister is making it for you.
talk to her about it....
Sammie
Ok I have a problem I'm currently going out with this guy *lets call him bob* and I really like him, but the thing is that he has dumped me many times before but this time he says that he really likes me. Now there is this other guy *jeff* and hes pretty hott but I haven't ever gone out with him before and It's the summer so I could go to the beach with Bob and i don't know what I would do with Jeff but I don't know who to choose!
PLease help me I'll rate you a 5 for a good answer please
if you have a boyfrend then whatever you do, dont get into a tie with two guys. if you only like the other guy becuz he's cute then thats not worth it. but if your just looking for a fling then brake up with your boyfriend if you feel like your gonna do something that your gonna regret. my point is, is that you should be mentally and phyically attracted to someone, so if you want to give the other guy a chance, then make your decision based on what you want in a guy. :)
hope i helped
ThatSAM
ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?
and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it?
just keep ignoring the bitch. dude! me and you are going through the same thing almost. what a coinsidence! lol! im ignoring the monkey right now. i kno you can do the same thing.
and as for your guy frined, i think that, if you like him, you should go for it. ;)
ThatSAM
So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks!
just be yourself... or you could do the old fashion game of "hard to get."
lol! ThatSAM
p.s. i hope that you have a great time at prom!!
ok so im going out with A hes great. I dont no what i would do with out him. We've been together probley going on 2months now. See we used to go out last year. We went out for 9 months then we bothe picked to braek up cause we were both cheating well i really wasnt but yeah it was. Well see the thing is hes lives in NY now thats why we broke up held it together for the 9 months he was gone but we couldnt do it any more. So now were back together and hes great i love him with all my heart but we wont be able to see each other for like 2 years. OMG I HATE IT. But this is the catch im falling for someone eles while ive been waiting :( i feel so mean to do this to A but i like B so much. I went out with B like 2 or 3 months after me and A broke up. He was great to.The sweetest boy youll ever talk to too!! And i mean that so much. But dumb ass me dumped him cause she didnt get to see him enough and it was hard it really was i cryed. Now we been hangin out again and he told my friend he liked me again and he was going to ask me out. HE told lots of people that. Well like three days later i was gettin ready to tell him how i felt and then he told me he like some other girl so i didnt even tell him how i felt and like he didnt even no i liked him and we never even talked about getting back together. But now he told me like a week ago it wasnt gonna happen. Should i tell him how i feel and see if he likes me and dump A? Should i stay with A even though i no hes gonna get hurt from all this stress of being so far? I just really dont want to hurt A cause me and him went through so much last year trying to keep it together being so far apart and we were so stressed out. I really like B but im so scared to tell him how i feel. And this week ill see him and it will be great to tell him but i feel so dumb cause what if he dont feel the same..... PLZ tell me what to do plz...
Love,
Sweetie Pie
long distance relationships natrually dont really work. but it was nice that you and "A" were keeping it together. if you really like "B" then you should tell him how you feel. why stay with someone so far away when you have another person (where you live) right in front of you, that you like so much? just tell "B" how you feel, and if he likes you back then you should kno how to take from there. take a chance and go with your heart.
good luck ThatSAM
I forgot to get something for my mom because i didnt know it was mothers day - what should i do!? I cant make her anything special or buy anything.
even tho you think you can't create anything for your mom your wrong. you can, it just takes time to think about what you want to do. i kno you can do this. its nice that your asking for help.
just think about it
ThatSAM
I Have This Loser Friend Her Name Is Samantha Lotito
She always makes fun of me and everyone else in the class. Should i stand up to her, or just let her continue acting the way she is
thanks, johnny
your a loser. yes, i said it. your a loser!!!! ok ok, i was just kidding. i kno who this is JAMES MIMS!!!
well have a nice day
and thank you for shopping at wal-mart
ThatSAM
Could someone please help me? I know it's been long since the last time I'v seen this guy i like so much and I ought to forget this guy. There's no day that I can't think even once about him and the reason why it's because memories will just suddenly crash through after thinking of something that is related but i didn't intentionally think about him. I don't like anymore to think about him even once. I'm tired of hoping and hoping that one day I'll see him but there's nothing left for me to hope. Please tell me ways on how to forget someone. Those that won't cost much. And also another problem of mine is I don't want to date others. It's just him or no one. It's just different if it's him.
There's really no way to force feelings for someone out of your head. the only reason your remembering is becuz your trying so hard to forget. its ok tho. it happens to the best of us. just dont beat yourself up for just this ONE guy. explore your options, you may find someone new.
ThatSAM
My best friend has a really bad headlice problem. At school you can see them all in her hair! and the problem is i dont like hugging her because i feel shes going to pass them onto me. What can i do please help?? Shes had them for ages since ive known her mabe even before that.
rate high thanks
This may sound wrong, but you should just tell her and spare her further embarrassment. ya kno? i kno that other ppl can see that, not just you. lol! ok, talk to her about it and then go to the store and get tat RID shampoo (it treats head lice)
here are the instructions:
1) shampoo her hair
2) rinse
3) apply the rid shampoo
4) if there is a comb that comes with it, then take the comb and brush it through her hair and that will get the lice out of her hair mostly.
5) rinse her hair really good
6) put more shampoo
7) and then rinse
you dont have to do all of that stuff if you dont wanna but you can have her mom do it. that would be extreamly better. that way, you wouldnt get lice. ^_^
*WARNING* tell her mom to put her hair in a ponytail and also tell her not to touch her head while checking for lice.
well now you kno..
and thank you for shopping at wal-mart
come again! ^_^
ThatSAM
p.s. the reason i kno all of this is becuz i used to get lice a lot when i was younger. thats a long time ago too. lol!
Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that?
i think that everyone should be forgiven no matter what. and your right, people should mean it when they say "im sorry." im proud that someone actually brought up such an important subject like that. your awsome.
ThatSAM
so ive liked this guy at school forever. weve both always had bf/gf this year though. well were both single now and weve been getting close. we hangout all the time at school and every1 thinks we go out. he said he doesnt want a relationship right now though. at school he puts his arm around me and hugs me forever and on the wekeends hell hold my hand and kiss me and stuff. but he wont kiss me at school. not even a little peck. he kissed his ex all the time though! and he tells me he loves me and calls me babe and calls me every single nite. hes reallly sweet. well i didnt see him last weekend so he said hell "save a kiss for me on monday" monday came, he didnt kiss me. today i was kind of bummed so i wasnt talking alot and he could tell i was mad and kept asking me. my friend eventaully told him what i was upset at. so before we left he hugged me for like 5 minutes and said srry but were at school..i was like yea w/e and walked away. well he called me today after school and he was like your mad because i wont kiss you at school and i was just like no im not whatever. he was like just wait for the weekend babe. im getting soo frustrated. its not even a big deal but ive been through soo much shit with guys and hes the one guy who is so sweet. why wont he just ask me out!? ughhh what can i say/do about this?..
The reason he wont kiss you in school is becuz:
a> he's not dating you
b> he's embarassed by you
or
c> he's just using you (which definately is not right)
personally i think that you should forget about him if he is gonna save you for the side dish. you deserve better. justice damn it!!!
lol
ThatSAM ^_^
Ok,i have this friend,we'll call her ...Jenna. Well Jenna and i are "friends" but the problem is when ever i become friends with another person,she jumps all over them and they like her better. She dosent let me have one friend to myself and i get sort of mad by that. What should i do?
when you get new friends dont tell her about them. that may seem really rude, but your friend "jenna" dosnt have to kno about your every step and move. ya kno? lol! some of my friends are like that. when they like to take over my new friendships, i learn to dwell with it becuz when the new friends get tired of my original friends then they come back to me. isnt it great to think of it that way even tho its the truth, most of the time. its really nice that you care for the new friends that you make. so, if they come back kissing your feet, then we can all have a giggle.
*giggles* see im laughing already
Sammie ^_^
K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f
he does like you, unless he's trying to use you, which i fully doubt. im pretty sure that he likes you. now what im wanting to kno is if he is a random guy that just came up to you out of nowhere. who knows? except for you. lol!! anywho, signs, like the ones that you described, basically mean that the guy likes you.
ThatSAM