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Confused about it
I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me
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Maybe you arent really into him anymore, maybe he was just a fling and you are getting too old for that kind of relationship. you're getting into your party years so maybe being single would be best for you! =D
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yes, it has happened to me.
and the longer i stayed with my boyfriend that made me frustrated...the more fights we got in.
for us, it was better to brake up.
for you...that might be different. but if he is driving you crazy and making you frustrated, maybe you should think about a break up.
just think about it some more, and take in all the possibilities.
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If you are wondering all of a sudden then something has changed. If you are truly frustrated then maybe you should take a break. If you want to salvage the relationship, then you need to try and figure out what changed and how to fix it. :)
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heyy .. umm maybe you need a quick and short weekend break away from him you should plan a trip with a few friends and go away from the weekend your boyfriend should do the same and then once you guys get back you will realize how much you truly miss each other and will plan a romantic night togehter
hope i helped
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i've been through this before. basically it depends on if you and him spend too much time together, this means, that the spark could be gone. maybe you are getting a little tired of him or there's just tention between you and him, is it hard for you to talk to him? if it is hard for you to talk to him then maybe there is tention.
1) you can break-up with him and redeem yourself all of the frustrations...also you could explore your options.
(OR)
2) you could just try to talk to him about it and you two can give eachother a break for a while.....
i really hope i helped..... and im sorry that you feel like this.
Sammie
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It happens to almost every couple that stays together for that long. Just take it easy, don't spend TOO much time with him and realize that things change, reltionships change. Do try to work with yourself and try to stay calm and don't forget he's human. If it's just too much for you, if you don't feel you can work through this, then talk to him about it and if necessary, take a "break."
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I think you're at the point where you spend so much time together, you start to get tired of your partner.
I suggest you two have a "break". It usually does some good because although you're spending time away from each other, you're not officially over yet. The time away from each other should either let you know how much you miss him when you're not with him, or it will let you know you are better off breaking up. I suggest you give it lots of time though before breaking up. I'd hate for you to break up and regret it. Just think about WHY you love him. If you can't think of why you love him or you don't feel the same about those reasons anymore, it's probably time to break up with him. It always helps to think of the long run. Would this guy be HUSBAND material? If not, don't bother wasting your time and break up with him gently.
If you decide to stay with him, don't be frustrated if you don't feel the same about him when you first fell in love. It's like a cycle...eventually you get tired or have conflict with your partner, but if you resolve it your relationship ends up even stronger. The cycle may never end, but it's worth it if you're with someone you really, really love.
Dating is all about experiencing new things, bonding with someone, and finding out what you need and want. If things don't work out, you move on and live life.
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i think that you should talk to him about this and maybe you can take like a little bit away from each other , because when your around someone for a long time even if it is your bf or best friend then they can seem aike for anoying so tell him you dont want to break up but need some time alone for like a day or 2 adn not talk or anything
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Its happened to me before and i was in the relationship for about a year...basically me and my boyfriend spent so much time together that we got xtremely sick of each other...so we stayed away for a little bit and we talked to each other every night to keep in touch, but when you stay away for a little go out with your girlfriends, have a good time...but dont do somethin you wouldnt want him to do
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