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I am a lover of life, a dreamer and most importantly a writer. I know a lot about computers and I am quite opiniated and I believe that's the best way to be. I know that often times the adivce thatwould work best for me, might not for everybody and I try to keep that in mind as I answer questions.

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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?

MizzNiceGirl

I think, just give it time. You're still vey young and have a lot of time in life for boys and love. :)

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does anyone kno of really good techno songs? i rate 5's. thanks.

try Satisfaction by Beny benassi and Baby just come to me by Gigi d'Agostino

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I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!

Depends on how old is she. It's a personal choice,r eally. You could try talking to him about it but if someone wants to smoke, they will. Goodluck.

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I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?

thanks

I think that being confident in yourself DOES make a big difference. You need to stop, and just ponder and think about how you are you, and how you are changing and becoming a better person with each day. Life is just life. Tell yourself you will not let this fear get in the way of your happiness. Make things happen. :) Goodluck

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i have an eating disorder caused by extreme emetophobia, ive hardly eaten for 3 years. in this time i have only eat my "safe foods" which are tuna paste sandwhichs, toast, breakaways (chocolate buiscuits) and only drink fresh orange juice.
This has caused me to feel ill all the time, i'm always in pain and discomfort and regualry feel light headed and sick.
I know my eating disorder has caused damage to my body and has weakened my teeth and causing me to feel ill but my boyfriend and i are really worried about the long term effects this is doing to my body and if it will have any serious effects?
please reply, thank you

You should really talk to a doctor aobut that, because it Is really bad for your body. It's malnutrition and you can die from it or your body can have dangerous effects from it. You might have to get some therapy for your phobia or even the kind of food you inject or something similiar.

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I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me

It happens to almost every couple that stays together for that long. Just take it easy, don't spend TOO much time with him and realize that things change, reltionships change. Do try to work with yourself and try to stay calm and don't forget he's human. If it's just too much for you, if you don't feel you can work through this, then talk to him about it and if necessary, take a "break."

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okay i no this guy and we have been friends for a few months and he asked me out one time and then we broke up after 3 days and like a month later we went out agian and i broke up wiht him because i didnt like hi anymore and now i like him agian and he went to france and is coming back on july 8 , but when he gets bac i think he is giong to ask out this other girl (not my friend or anything) ......what should i do ...do you think he will ever like me agian?!?

signed ..reply fast !! i need hep!

I think you should just tell him as soon as he comes abck how you feel about him, but make sure that you really mean it this time.

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Theres a song that i've never heard before and I need the name to. I have parts of the lyrics ..


Don't be dramatic. Let's make a scene
Like all the overdramatic lovers do
lights, camera, heartbreak


its either camera and heartbreak by Bobby McHomo or Andy You're a Star by The Killers

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What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference?

As soon as they are ready for it, both emotionally and financially!

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okay .. one of my really good guy friends is moving away. im 13/f and we just finished 8th grade.. well i want to have a moving party for hym and make it a suprise..
what kind of theme do we need ??
What Gift Should We Give Him??

i rate high bc thys kid is pretty much y best friend

The theme of the party should depend on what he likes, and as for the gift, make sure you give him soemthing personal. Don't try to get him the "best, most expensive" gift you can give him, but ine that will mean a lot to him and he will remember forever.

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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10

Let them know how you felt about it and ask them nicely not to do it again, because if you don't they might just play a similiar trick and you will be paranoid about it.

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Hey i have AIM... AND IT HASNT BEEN WORKING...GRRRRRRRRR...well ne ways when ever i start it i get this message that says AOL INSTANT MESSANGER HAS INCOUNTERED A PORBLEM AND MUST CLOSE! What do i do i havent had AIM FOREVER!!! I WILL rate 5's FOR GOOD ANSERS THAT I CAN UNDERSTAND...PLz!~

Uninstall your AIM, go to the aim website ( www.aim.com ), download it again but make absolutely sure that your computer meets all of the requirements for that version. If it doesn't, there is a link around there that will take you to a page where you can download older versions of AIM.

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Ok I have 4 friends...2 of them I really like to hang out with cause they r down to earth, fun to hang out with, don't act to crazy and I have a lot of fun with them...The other 2 i love hangin out with also but... they r really crazy don't get me wrong I love them to death but.....The first 2 don't like hanging out woth the second 2 as much cause they are really crazy...i don't know what to do...To be honest I really like doing stuff with the first 2 somewhat better cause they are more like me but I really like hanging with the others also....What do I do?

It's very possible for you to hold friendships with different kinds of people. All of your friends don't have to be friends with each other, just make time for both groups of them and eventually you will either start to hang around more and more with one of them or you will keep both of them seperate - and either way is okay.

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