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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?
MizzNiceGirl
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Hi MizzNiceGirl. Do you really want guy to notice you THAT much? It's almost as if you're desperate and the only thing left to do is hunt for guys. Trust me, it's good that you're a nice girl. Just be yourself, and don't go looking for the right guy. Let him come to you. Smile a lot, and make sure that you never change yourself just for that 'one' person, because he liked you for who you are.
I hope this helps. =)
Kay
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hi nice girl! well i have a few tips for you i had answered to another user, 1. try and get a makeover it wil make a owrld of difference. also try to tone up a little bit. and not ot be the nice girl find someone else to go out wiht and then peole wont see you as that
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FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! Lol, okay most people answer this kinda question by stating, "Just be yourself," which doesn't really help much but tell you to be yourself (which you already do). To get guys to notice you, I suggest when a guy just randomly looks into your direction, stand in his way and smile so you know he's looking into your eyes. When you smile, show your teeth.
If you're a nice girl, then that is a good thing! Don't say that you've never had a relationship because you're a nice girl, because a lot of cute guys would love to spend time with a "nice girl". You don't need to be a different person to get a guys attention, because in this world, there is someone for EVERYONE, you just haven't found yours yet.
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze
P.S. I suggest getting into camps over the summer and activites so you can meet more guys who share your interests.
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dear mizznicegirl,
SORRY ITS LONG!!!!
dont let yourself think that you are not the prettiest girl in the word cuz the truth is no girl is and every girl in the world has something they dont like about themselves. next you are beautiful in your own way and dont let any1 tell you other wise!!! you just have to be confident in yourself and just be yourself! have fun cuz when boyz see that you like yourself then they will start to like you! plus boys r not serious @ 14 any way so just have a fun relationship not a really serious one.
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Hey babe! Well, if you don't wear makeup, wear some eyeliner/eyeshadow but not too much! and smile a LOT and just go up to a guy and start talkin to him...it says something when a girl has confidence like that! And I'm sure you're
g o r g e o u s !!! haha! Well hope I helped! Love yah! (and its not soooo bad being a nice girl lol!)
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heyy....i think what you should do is be more confident and outgoing then guys would notice you more and then if you ever wanted to change your look then just spruce everything up like strighten your hair wear light makeup, paint your nails, stuff like that ...
xox Maris and Ally
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Honey,
true love doesn't REALLY start until you find someone that you think you can spend the rest of your life with. You SHOULD not pretend you're someone else, just to get attention from a guy. It' not right. You need to be who you are and just because you don't look the way a guy wants you to look, doesn't mean you aren't pretty. I don't want you to go around wearing thongs showing out of your EXTREMELY tight jeans and half shirts. That's NOT the way to get a guy. At least you haven't done that because other girls will call you names like slut and whore. You don't want that kind of reputation. Just because YOU don't think your pretty, doesn't mean a really hot guy thinks your not pretty. Everyone is beautiful to me. I think judging people on their looks is rude because how a person dresses reflects on how they're feeling and who they are. Some people dress in black because they like that color and people just assume they're gothic without even knowing them. I'm sorry to tell you that after all this reading, I have to tell that there is no specific way to get a guy to notice you. You CAN'T be something you're not, and you CAN'T change just because a guy wants you to. All I can tell you is be WHO YOU ARE and don't ever change because it's YOU that guys are attracted to, not your hair or your clothes. It's O.K to just be MizzNiceGirl. You don't have to be someone else... if you want to talk about something off topic or need more advice, you can ask me a question in my advicenators inbox OR you can email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
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*~Kayla~*
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Alright, I can relate to where your coming from. In high school I didn't have my first date until I was 15(a sophmore). I was always considered the nice girl. When it comes to getting guys to notice you...whatever you do don't feel like you need to sleeze yourself up just for attention. You may want attention, but you want it from the right people, I promise. Don't feel intimidated to talk to the guys and let your personality come out. A lot of times what will first get you noticed in a different light is personaltiy and CONFIDENCE!! Confidence is the key, not cocky but confident. For you to stand out, you have to show that you want to stand out. Hope that helps!
~Devan~
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I think, just give it time. You're still vey young and have a lot of time in life for boys and love. :)
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