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heyy this site is put together by 2 teens who go through alot together and are best friends..Our names are Marissa and Aleks...and we want to help you because we were always looking for answers when we had problems so we made a page to help people so if yu ever need support or advice either instant message aleks or i and we would be gld to help.......xox

Marissa- xOmLcx2oo5Ox
Aleks- Sputnik447

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I started my period this morning (not for the first time, I've had it for 2 years) and I had REALLY bad cramps and I never usually get cramps.
They were so bad, I couldn't get out of bed.
I know cramps are normal but is it normal for your cramps to start after 2 years of not having them?

and also I vomited today. I've never vomited from my period before but my mom said she used to every month when her period came.
Is that normal!? Especially after two years of not having any trouble with my period.

As soon as you get your cramps start taking pain pills to help you get through the day. Also they have these little heating pads that you can put on your stomach and that really helps. you can buy these at CVS or any pharmacy. Maybe you didn't vomit from your period could of just happened. Periods can make you nausaous. See a doctor i saw mine and she gave me these pills that I had to take a couple of days before i knew my period was coming. My cramps weren't as stong.

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I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx

Everyone has one really good best friend and one bad friend who doesn't deserve to be called your friend. I suggest you observe and compare a good friend and your not so good friend. If you figure out it's not worth it putting up with them then break it off. Why have them drag you down and make you feel awful when you can have loving caring friends that actually care about you.

Love, Aleks and Marissa
contact me if you need anything, I'll be happy to help.

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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?

MizzNiceGirl

heyy....i think what you should do is be more confident and outgoing then guys would notice you more and then if you ever wanted to change your look then just spruce everything up like strighten your hair wear light makeup, paint your nails, stuff like that ...

xox Maris and Ally

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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right

hey...i would help out yur friend and tell her mom because your friend could get hurt or maybe she is getting hurt and is not saying anything and then because of the way he is treating her now could effect her in the long run and damage her self esteem and stuff like that but i would let someone know if i were you so your friend is safe an yu get her back to being normal and hanging out with you on friday nights an having funn like a normal teen i eman shes gonna have her time to be 19 and have funn i mean shes only 15 help her out tell someone..she will thank you in the end......

xox Maris and Ally

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i have been singing since i was able to talk. unfortunately, i live in a place where things like theater and singing arent that important. how would i find a way to get my voice out there to producers? any ideas?

MizzNiceGirl

heyy yano what i did i make like cd's and tapes and i went online and found producers and their addresses and sent them to them every like week because i wanted to be put out there and just cross your fingers something will happen..

xox Maris and Ally

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I just got these new jeans and it looks like it's all one color..how can I make it distressed and vintage colored? Also how can I make rips in my jeans like this http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10901&storeId=10051&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12280&categoryId=12280&productId=207065&langId=-1

Thanks so much!

yano what i do i take a cheese grater and i keep scratching it up against the part where i want it to look torn and worn...it really works..good luck

xox Maris and Ally

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ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?

16/f

if i were you i would start flirting with him an then see what he does if he says something tell him how you feel..i had to do the same thing i mean it wont hurt to say you like him it will feel like a relief and 90% he feels the same way...

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I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys.

ok i was just like you but one day i looked at the people around me and was like wow there all happy and have many friends and i want to be like that and have a bunch of friends and people to talk to so one night i went home it was lyk right after school i came home did my hw an then i painted my nails pink* straightened my hair for the next day and then i painted my toenails, and did all that kinda stuff then the next day i restrightened my hair put makeuhp on and lyk long vintage necklaces on with my layered polo's and a skirt and sandals and i felt confident about the way i looked too.. i felt lyk i wanted to show everyone one so in the halls when someone looked at me i looked at them bak in the eye and smiled and then i went to my locker i was would say hey whats up like i started off small so i felt comfortable then i started talking with the people in my classes and asked where they were sitting for lunch and all that kind of stuff then it became where i am now loud in the halls and i dont care what people thing and i think thats why my friends love me for who i am caz im me and if people dont like you then thats too bad caz you know the real you not them so get out there and make conversation....trust me its easy and overwelming at first but look at the reward..

xox Maris and Ally

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My guy friend is mad at me. I called him a couple days ago to apologize and he didn't listen to me...I didn't even do anything!! I just said something after he pissed me off! But I've known him sooo long and I don't wanna ruin our friendship over something as stupid as this! Should I apologize again??? Help!

I think you shouldnt talk to him for a little bit and let him see what it feels lyk to loose you as a friend and see what happens i mean if you have been friends for so long then he will think about all the good times and dwell on what it would be like without you and maybe he will suprise you out of the blue!

xox Maris and Ally

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OMG!! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now...Well She and him were together for 19months and she lived with him for 7 months.But ya anyways that shouldnt matter. She called him for the beginning 4 months. Then out of the blue she stopped well today she called him and said she had servical cancer...She wants him to feel bad..He just regular talked to her it pissed me off. She wants him to feel bad for her i guess. It makes me soo mad that she calls..I HATE HER!!! She shouldnt call. What should I do??

Your right she shouldnt call but dont worry because if he tells you he loves you and if hes not showing any signs of leaving you for her and hes just friends with her and helping her out then i understand that but dont worry about it i know your jealous and stuff but i know you love him and he probly loves you...but if you feel like uncomfortable then keep a look out on him an listen to his calls...trust me if you feel this way then you need to know what is going on so you can preven him from hurting you!!

xox Maris and Ally

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Does anyone know all the techniques for straightening hair? (both temporarily and permanently) Please either give me a list with prices, or websites with descriptions. I rate 5's! Thanks so much

ok well it all depends on what kind of hair you have like if yu have really curly hair i would put a serum in it then blow dry it straight then i would get a ceramic hair strightner (( the best )) then strighten it. like they other person said they range from $40 to lyk $400..but sometimes the cheap ones work just as good...they have a store called sally`s beauty supplies if you go there look at the straightners they have reasonable prices or try to find it online i would look for a ceramic hair strightner because they work the best, also she said that metal dont work well you see it does make it look stright but in like 10 minutes it will get wavy and frizzy so dont go with metal at all an follow your hair down slow with a comb and start with the hair underneath first an make your way to the top it will make the process go by faster!

xox maris and ally

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i am seriuosly way overWEIGHT i am like 350 and i am in the 8th grade...pple make fun of me....alot...what should i do????

From a BIGG SUE

heyy..dont worry about what people say they do not have any minds of their own people who talk about other people are insecure about the way they look also..but if you want to try something to loose so weight then i would suggest starting off little by little like runnig around yur neighborhood or go on the treadmil, or do sit ups, crunches all those kinds of things and really watch what you eat i mean you could have whatever you want but limit your self and take small portions and less junkfood.....newaysz good luck and were always here to heLp..

xox Maris an Ally

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