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Caring for my friends
I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx
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It's good that you care a lot about your friends. This shows that you are a caring person. You should talk to your friends about what is bothering you and shouldn't try to let this problem just go away. Sit down with your entire group of friends and discuss about what has been going on. Then figure out ways on how to solve it. Please come to me if you need any more help okay? Good luck.
I hope I helped!
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Hey there. The more you hold your feelings back, the tougher it's gonna become to deal with the problem. You don't wanna hurt them or anything by saying the truth, I know that, but if they're doing it to you, I mean, that's not really friendship... Sure, you have fights and arguments every now and then, but at some point it has to stop. Try talking to them, and try not to overreact or lose your temper. At times like this, be the first to walk out of the battle. I'm not saying surrender. If you think stuff's gonna become worse, slowly leave the room, avoid a shopping spree, anything. But make sure that in the end they know how you feel.
I hope this helps. =)
Kay
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well you could try to talk to them and try to explain how you feel about ya'll fighting.
hope i helped
rkgurl13
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Hey there, I have fight with my friends too. It is so comon! you cant be twins! Everyone has there own opinion about everything! Try talking to them to figure out what you all can do to stop fighting! hope i was a help !
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Aww. With me it's the same cept, i dont fight fight with my friends. You just have to let your friends know how much they mean to you. What stuff do you fight about? Boys, clothing random silly stuff? Or any other type of situation, that can all be changed. Just dont fight with them, end it before it gets to far. Good Luck!!!!!
~Brina~
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Everyone has one really good best friend and one bad friend who doesn't deserve to be called your friend. I suggest you observe and compare a good friend and your not so good friend. If you figure out it's not worth it putting up with them then break it off. Why have them drag you down and make you feel awful when you can have loving caring friends that actually care about you.
Love, Aleks and Marissa
contact me if you need anything, I'll be happy to help.
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Talk to them and tell them how you are feeling. I felt like that and me and my friends talked about it. If they dont listen then find some other friends to hang around with they'll soon realise that they do need you.
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what helps is to sit down the entire group of friends. tell them that its time to tell everyone else in the group their feelings towards one another. tell the ones that you feel are neglecting you that you feel that way. find out why. just have a long, uninterrupted talk. that helps, i promise.
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have you tried talking to them? try doing some things they like hang more with them, see what they love to do, but im not tryign to say pay all the attention to them and not to your other friends but jus try to get involved with them and talk stuff out..h ope i helped! <3*Nicole
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Well I don't really understand your question, but if your friends fight a lot with you, then why be friends if all you do is fight? If you already talked to them about this and they STILL fight together, then just stop being friends with them. Friends weren't meant to fight, but the meaning of having a friendship is to show care and likeness between eachother. You need to be able to laugh and spend time together without fighting all the time. Bestfriends have small fights one in a while, however, all the time would just be plain annoying to have to deal with. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.
Hope I helped,
~Alexa~
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*i might of read the question wroung but heres my answer and hope it works out for you*
this happend with my friends i cared alot about all of them. and there was 5 of us. 2 of them did not hang out with the other 3 so i was stuck in the middle. but if you do things with all your friends and you are having a good time then you know they care about you to. i gotton into silly fights and stuff but i guess thats life. its really hard to keep friends and deal with them. but you could always talk to them asking why do you feel left out or that it seems like you guys are useing me. and that could always work for just a simmple chat with them. but think of it that you will always get new friends. and always keep the old. but friend ships are hard. good luck! hope i helped, <3 sunny411
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