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Q: I used a semi permanent hair color, pink, on my already lightened blonde hair. The pink turned out looking really bad, and I dont want to wait a month to get rid of the color (plus i need to look for a job, and that color wouldnt look very professional) I have no money, so going to a professional, even just going out and buying a 10 dollar stripping solution, is unfortuatly, out of the question. Are there any at home remidies to get rid of it? Ive already tried washing my hair with clarifying shampoo 6 times, and it really hasent done much. Any help will be much appreciated!

well you could go to the store and just get a diffrent color my mom and sister do that all the time!
hope i helped and god bless!
rkgurl13

Q: Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend.

well who do you think would make a better boyfriend? i think you should go with the other guy personaly but that is your choice!
good luck and god bless!
rkgurl13

Q: 17/f
Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this?

i do not think you should tell him because i like a guy who is shorter than me so i do not think it should matter

Q: Tryouts for my school's volleyball team start the week before school starts. My mom also works a lot and the only week she has off is that same week, so she planned for our family and her cousin and my cousins to all go to my grandparents lake for that week. I'm in 8th grade, and last year I made B team, so its not like volleyball is all I do. I also go to the lake every year, so its not like I'll never be there again... and if I miss tryouts I can't play at all. Should I go on vacation or stay and play volleyball????

i think you should spend time with your family and go to the lake oryou could get your mom to try and get off another week if at all poseble.
hope i helped and god bless
rkgurl13

Q: okay i hate my butt! its like not there!! what are some ways that can make my butt look more full? like are there any excercises or fods thatll do the trick?? thanks for the help!!

well there is not much you can do that i know of but you could just put some fom or something and you could like shape it or something because there is njot much you could do but eat a bunch of junk foo and stuff but it might not got to your butt.
hope i helped and god bless
rkgurl13

Q: Im 15/f. At the moment I'm a Christian, but I'm considering becoming a solitary witch. I've got some questions I'd like to know the answers to from people who actually practise witchcraft and aren't just writing a book

1) Do I need to start praying to the God straight
away?
2) Do I definetely need a separate altar, goddess
shrine, god shrine and lunar shrine because I
only have a small room
3) Does being a witch cost a lot of money?
I'm too young to get a job so I don't have
much money

Don't get me wrong, I really want to become a witch. It's just that the books I'm reading just aren't answering all my questions as they are written by older women dedicated to the craft completely, not a young beginner. Any sources of information or tips on becoming and being a solitary witch are also welcome.

Thanx to the moon and back xxx

well first of all why do you even want to become a witch anyways i meen all you do is pray to fake gods that do not even in a way talk to you or give you abswers in any way of any kind so why do you want to become one it is stupid and im sorry if a fend you or any thing but still it is!

Q: What is the differnece between Catholic, Lutheren and Christian religions? I want to know about the differences befor i pick one.

well they all beleive in diffrent things

Q: my boyrfriend is going to college and i was wondering if you had any cute ideas of things i could do for him

well you could like decorate his dorm or what ever and get him like school stuff like paper and pens and stuff like that
hope i helped
rkguel13

Q: Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help

well it depends on the person and how old your mom was when she got hers and stuff and for me it didn't hurt but for some ppl it does and that is normal. and scence you will first be getting it then you probly should not go swimming your friends or whoever will understand and you shouldn't use tampons at first. and some times scence you would first be starting then it might not even last a week.
hope i helped!

Q: I really like this guy and we went out about a month ago but i still really really like him. He is still sweet too me and he still says he love me like he say "love ya" at the end of most e-mail. We talk all the time on the computer but he never calls me. but he likes another girl in a town about 30-50 miles away from ours. He is still single and so am i.. what do i do.. should i get over him and be just friends or try when school starts? please help me. thanks so much

well if he likes another girl but he say love ya and stuff like that then well i think you might have some thing goin on! just not to much

Q: can my girlfriend and I rent a hotel room overnight and we're only 16? like do they check your age and parent permission and stuff or can you just rent a room and they dont care? thanks

why would you you do not need to be having sex in there or anything like that and they most likly will check for id and you would probly need you parents permision and they will ask for their phone number or something so you should not even try to get a hotel room!

Q: OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer

please tell me what to do

P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing

I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time

what the heck you are 13 and you have already had sex i meen im 13 and i have not had sex that is just retarded!!!! i meen come on you are only 13 i know like 18 year olds who have not even had sex i meen OMG!!!!!!!!! gosh frikin idiot!
p.s. you don't have to rate me if you don't want to but still you 13 sex not good atlest use a condom but still you do not need to have sex at 13!!!! o and how old where you when you had sex for the first time? just out of curiosity!

Q: Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over a year now..and for somereason I just can't get wet anymore...why not?

ok what i did not get that what do you mean get wet?!?!?

Q: okay well i dont know where to start my family is always on my case about my attitude which has gotten worse because my friends are always putting me down... How do i get into a better attitude without losing my friends?? i always seem to be in a bad mood and i dont like it.. my family is always on my case to get new friends but its hard...what should i do??

make new friends...... then dump them. i mean if they are putting you down then why are you friends whith them you should have friends who build you up not put you down!
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: What sort of job should i be looking for when i get out of high school, or what should i go to college for? Im not sure what i want to do with my life, and im really good at sports, can you give me something to think about?

well the reson you go to college is so you can get into a good company and get a really good job and it depends what you are wanting to study a tech school is really hard to get into becuase you have to work really really hard toget there and you have to have really good scores on the s.a.t. and stuff like that and it also depends on what state you live in like if you live in georgia you could go to georgia tech (G.T.!) because it is a really good school i have herd.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: i used to be a cutter right? And at some times i still am. I went through a lot in my childhood and am just recoving from a consequential 3 years of depression. But thats not the problem its this: i have this crazy compulsion with picking at my skin. it has nothing to do with cutting, and i dont think it has anything to do with depression. Like, i do it all the time, even when im happy. theres no emotion at all attached to it, except sum kind of bizzare need, i guess. i cant help it. i did it like a little bit before, but no its so much worse! once i start i cant tear myself away. i make myself bleed. i cause scars and i hate it. Does anybody know anything about this? Anything similar? Any ideas? i'll rate high for good answers.

well my friend has the same problem she will sratch her self till she bleeds and i do not know why i am trying to figure out how to help her. i would go to counseling if i were you.

Q: when is the easiest time to get pregnant? okay i know this is going to sound really wrong but i really really really want a baby and my boyfriend have sex frequently without a condom but he pulls out because he hates kids, is there any way to make it easier to get pregnant? and i kno alot of people are going to think what im saying is really messed up so plase only comment back with advice not ridicule, im not expecting him to marry me or even take part in this i just am wondering...thanks

well personaly i would wait till i get maried to have a baby but that is me not you.

Q: ok.. i share a room with my sister.. i have limited space but i have the bigger half of the room. my bed takes up most of the room. it is a daybed so it looks like a couch. it also pulls out inot a double bed. bu i only pull it out if someone is staying overnite. what i want is like a new desk, curtains, and a comforters. i am very girly. my room is going to be painted hot pink and brite green. i want stuff like ith those little pom pom fuzz ball thingys and butterflys. everything i want has to be not too pricey like not over 100 bucks each. and not that large well for the desks sake. i need to know like what stores. but like not stores like kmart, target, sears, bed bath and beyond.. different stores. with all the stores in this world. there has to be a good one. and also i know about pbteen and that is too pricey. so please help.

Rissa

p.s. i hate things being so crowded so not that big of stuff

well i would just go to like two stores and that would be if you have one a wal-mart and bed bath and beyond they both are the best for that.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: Okay... I know this is kind of early to start, I mean, I have six months until I'm sixteen. But I want everyone to remember this party. i need some ideas of what to do, my birthday is in January. My budget isn't too bad, but it's definately NOT over 1,000 bux. Help me please... any ideas?

o i know my sister did this for a party once and i am pretty sure it was her sixteenth! ok what she was she some of those cheap tiki lights and set them at the entrace to the back yard and then she set them up around the back yard about 6 or 7 of them should do and then they waited till it got not compleatly light like 10 but about 6ish or so and they went on a scavenger hunt all around town and she got my mom to do the clues and she put them in stores and the clue are related to where the it would lead them next and you had to figure them out to see where the next place was and then after it was all over the winners had a can of shaving cream and then they had a shaving cream fight!
hope i helped and have fun!
rkgurl13

Q: I don't know if anyone on here is gonna know anything about writing music but I was wondering if anyone has any tips on writing music with guitar. I can write lyrics but not music. I've tried writing some music but it usualy ends up very badly. So any tips?

well my advice would be to write the chords and stuff first then write the words
hope i helped
rkgurl13

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hi my name is rachael i like giving advice i think god has given me a special talent i also like surfing the net. my fav movie is either napoleon dynamite or lotr the triligy (i know big difrence). o and i like being random and i like googling things be that is the best place to find all you answers!

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