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I WANT A BABY
when is the easiest time to get pregnant? okay i know this is going to sound really wrong but i really really really want a baby and my boyfriend have sex frequently without a condom but he pulls out because he hates kids, is there any way to make it easier to get pregnant? and i kno alot of people are going to think what im saying is really messed up so plase only comment back with advice not ridicule, im not expecting him to marry me or even take part in this i just am wondering...thanks
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well personaly i would wait till i get maried to have a baby but that is me not you.
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maybe you should find someone else then. Someone who wants kids. Someone who will stay with you and help you or at least someone with a high enough sperm count to get you pregnant. don't use condoms, have lots of sex, and find someone new cuz he obviously can't get the job done right on getting you pregnant. but i mean if you love him and stuff then just wait and it will evenutally happen. it did with my aunt.
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Don't do it. Buy sperm if you don't want the sex and just the sperm. What if you do get pregnant what's that going to do to him. You have to consider his feelings about it. Even though he probably hates kids he will still think of the responsible that he just created with you. I don't think in his life even if you take full custody of the baby he'll still know he has either a son or daughter out there that he made and is not taking care of by him. Don't put that pressure on him if you want a baby so bad look for a donater or sperm bank because those men can handle the responsibility of a kid out there that's theirs. Ask him first and really talk to him to see how you both feel together and see what level you guys are on with each other. First of all advice me back because I want to know your ages and see if you are ready for it educationaly, mentally, and money wise! Hope i helped!!
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when you have your period and have sex it is the easiest way to have sex and get pregnant.. hope i helped :-)
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i think that you should just talk to him first. You shouldnt plan on getting pregnant if he dioesnt want a child. I think a child should have both parents. Please talk to your Guy first.
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If you want kids, you should marry! Or at least get a boyfriend who wants them. Kids need a stable home, and it is harder for a single parent to provide it. If your current boyfriend doesn't want a kid, find another guy who shares your dream.
You could also look into adopting a baby. That way, you don't have to get pregnant.
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How old are you? Are you inbetween the ages of 13- 19? If so, that's way to young to think about having a baby unless you are ready to take care of a crying baby, who needs sooo much. You'll probably have to spend like 100 dollars on clothes all together, 50 dollars on formula 50 dollars for babybottles and other objects, toys you'll have to buy. It will ruin your future.The easiest time to get pregnant is when you have money, a house and a decent job. Even though, a baby is a wonderful thing to have, if you dont have a decent job and enough money to take care of it thats not good.
The boyfriend "pulls out" most likely because he doesnt want a kid becasue he's too young if hes in between that age. You cant just want to get pregnant and not let the father of it take place in its life. You think that will be good for the baby? I mean this from the bottom of my heart that i was not tyring to ridicule you, i was just letting you know what it would be like. I understand what your saying, i dont want to have a baby and dont have the issue with it like you do, but i kinda understand. If your boyfriend doesnt want kids now, then you should respect that. It's not messed up what your saying, you just need to think things through. I think that if you do get pregnant you will regret it. Why dont you take up a babysitting job, so that you can like, take care of kids instead of having one. Why do you want a baby? Do you know why? Do you want something to love you because you dont have enough people loving you? Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!
~Brina~
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well if you want a baby that bad you could always tell him you want to use a condom and you can put lil holes in the condom ( with out him knowing ) and put it on and let him think its all jsut staying in there when some slips out.. i mean thats kind of wrong but ya knwo what ever you want to do .. i hope that helps you thats the only thing i coudl think of
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im givin my comment about this anyways.. this guy doesnt want a baby apparently so he has say so in it too.. if you get pregnant and say he dont have to be in any part of it then he'll get stuck with **Child Support** so that means he'll have to give you money for a child he didnt want anyways.. ♥ Dez
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