okay well i dont know where to start my family is always on my case about my attitude which has gotten worse because my friends are always putting me down... How do i get into a better attitude without losing my friends?? i always seem to be in a bad mood and i dont like it.. my family is always on my case to get new friends but its hard...what should i do??
Alpha345 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 12:36 am: First, get new friends. The ones you got now are not your friends if they continue to put you down. I been there before with people I thought were my "friends" and they were never there when I had trouble and they always put me down. I was going on the same course you were going on, my attitude on everything got sucked and my family really got onto me about. You need to find friends who will actually be your friends, and not put you down. Find friend who will take you for who YOU are, and not put you down on yourself. That is what I did, and since then my attitude has improved and I don't always have that bad attitude I once had (I still got some of it, but that is from another reason). Find new friends like I said, and your attitude will improve greatly. Hope everything comes out ok for you and hope I helped.
rkgurl13 answered Friday July 15 2005, 8:08 pm: make new friends...... then dump them. i mean if they are putting you down then why are you friends whith them you should have friends who build you up not put you down!
hope i helped
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XxBlink_182_fanxx answered Friday July 15 2005, 4:54 pm: OMG! Thats the story of my life. NEway tho. For me, conciling has helped. N medication. But if you lyk the friends u have now then try to work on ur attitude. If you dont try to find other friends that lyk you for urself not you trying to be sumtin.
Keeeeep it real.
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cheergirl answered Friday July 15 2005, 4:12 pm: i understand your pressure i really can i have a very bad atittude sometimes and guess what if they are complainig about your attitude they must really want you to get help on it i went to counsling and in 3 months it has really helped me alot may b you should try it okay
Shannon210 answered Friday July 15 2005, 3:58 pm: If your "friends" are putting you down enough to make you that upset all the time, they aren't your friends. You NEED to lose them. Take a look at whatever's making you get into a bad mood in the first place and get rid of it.
AlyssaMarie answered Friday July 15 2005, 3:57 pm: Well, If your friends are always putting you down then they don't sound like very good friends to me. Try talking to other people and start hanging out with them, don't let people put you down. Once you have some real good friends I'm sure you'll have a better attitude.
twistedsister17 answered Friday July 15 2005, 3:54 pm: If you're friends put you down, then your not your friends at all. If it was me, I would tell those little brats off, find new friends, spend some time with your family and just be happy for who you are. [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
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