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Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend.
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I think that maybe you "Love" your boyfriend, but only in a way that you might love a family member. It sounds like this new guy is someone you are more "in love" with... if that makes sense... Or I could have interpreted it completely wrongly and you are just lusting after this bad boy. Did u take ecstasy? Cos that could be clouding your judgement. Dont make any decisions on X, as its very fake.
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You said it right there. You like this guy, but you love your boyfriend. While this crush might seem very real to you now, evaluate whether it's just the first time rush of attraction, or whether it's based on things that will really last, like common interests, goals, personalities, and perspectives. Make sure you also evaluate if these feelings are stemming from needing to break away from your current boyfriend, and if it's really love. If it is, you trust him, and he trusts you, and you shoudn't cheat on him with the other guy. So, wait it out, and see if your feelings for this guy diminish with time or get stronger, and make sure you're not throwing away love for lust. Hope this helps, and that you figure everything out soon.
:) Nevaeh
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well who do you think would make a better boyfriend? i think you should go with the other guy personaly but that is your choice!
good luck and god bless!
rkgurl13
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If you LOVE your boyfriend and LIKE the other guy you have the answer already. Even though you love your boyfriend this other guy has the ability to push your buttons. The only way to save your relationship with the boyfriend is to stay clear away from the other guy. You are asking for trouble if you don't because your boyfriend will eventually find out and you loose that relationship. You need to decide whether or not you care if that happens. :)
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you LIKE the guy you slept with but you LOVE your boyfriend. your bf is probably safer to stay with because the guy you slept with could be sleeping with other girls and you dont even know it.
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Unfortunately,
you'll have to choose. If you REALLY like the guy that you slept with and you think you can be with him for a long time, break up with your boyfriend before you do anything else with the other guy. If you think you can last longer with your current boyfriend, keep him and dump the other guy.
Stay friends with the other guy. When/If you and your boyfriend break up, you have back-up. Trust me... it'll work. If you continue doing other things with the other guy, break up with your boyfriend. You have to pick one or the other.
Life is rough!
You KNOW where I am if you want to talk or need more advice. You can also email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck! ♥
Hope I helped! ♥
♥ Kayla ♥
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well you just have to sit down and think about what you really want. you cant play both guys. so just sit down alone and think. it may help to make a list of pros and cons for each guy. like well this guy is extremly romantic, but he is also a huge flirt, and this guy gets along with my family.. but... he doesnt seem to stable in our relationship. see which boy you can get more pros about, and go for him. hope i helped:)
<3 bailey
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If you really love your boyfriend, you'll be honest with him about what happened and hope and pray he forgives you. Chances are he'll hear about it anyway, and it'll be best if it comes from you.
You need to either decide to be faithful to your boyfriend or let him go so he can find someone that is faithful. You're not being fair to either guy by being unfaithful. Not to mention the fact that when they other guy finds out that you slept with him and had a boyfriend, he's probably going to be upset and hurt too.
Good luck.
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First of all you need to tell you boyfriend what happend. Then you need to say your sorry and it was only because you were drunk. For chooseing one i can't do that for you I don't know your kind of taste. Make a list of things that are good about each guy and whoever has the most good things wins then you pick that guy!
Hope I Helped!
*!Clair!*
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Ok.. I can see the story where you were drunk. But that shouldnt be the excuse of why you slept with this guy. You have to have more self respect than that. Anyway. You have 2 options here. You have to decide who you honestly have more feelings for.. have more in common with.. who you like to be around more... Who likes you for you.. not for something you have... and if you honestly love your boyfriend. I hope that you told him what happened so that way he doesnt find out from someone else and causes more problems in the long run. But that is the best advice I can give you. Sorry if it doesnt help..
Good Luck With Everything
*Jackie*
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