Member Since: July 17, 2005
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Last Update: September 4, 2005
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Ok...There is this guy that i really like. He's a senior and i'm a freshman. We're pretty good friends. He works for my mom and dad at this store that they own. Yesterday i was at work and he came in and we talked for like 20 min. I was at this fair yesterday and i saw him there and i called his name and he mmediatley started smiling at me at asked how i was and stuff like that. I wanna get to hang out with him more but on the off chance that we do go out i don't wanna mess up our friendship. We can talk to eachother about almost anything. I'm not really worried abou the age difference. Please help me i don't know what to do..
Thanks so much and sorry it is so long.
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hm. well i think you should just keep the relationship at the pace its going now. i mean its pretty obvious he has feelings for you.. and you obviously have feelings for him. so let him take the risk and ask you out. hopefully things go well. hope i helped :]
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Hey...I was wondering if I was having normal period pain or not. I have a slight fever, not very high. And I'm having pains in my stomach (everywhere not just in the lower part) and some back pain. I'm getting headaches and after I eat I feel like I'm about to throw up. Plus I'm suffering from a loss of appitite. I should have started by now but i'm a little late. Is this normal? (link)
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yeah. especially if your new to getting your period. it sometimes takes up to 3 or 4 years for your period to get on a regular basis. no need to worry!! :)
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okay my friends and i, i think we are pretty tight. we have fun in school in all, i don't exactly have friends that are the sleep over at each other's houses type. but this summer its weird. okay they always say hey i'm bored we need to hang out sometime and when i say always i mean..always. well, everytime i ask them if they want to do something they kinda hesitate in talking almost as if they don't want to go and since we can't drive *we're 15* they procrastinate in asking they're parents. every once in awhile we get out and they're okay then but its when i'm asking them. do they really want to hang out when they say 'lets hang out'? why do they hesitate and kinda stop talking when i do mention something we can do? it doesn't make sence? HELP! (link)
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hmm.. try inviting them some place fun. like to the movies or something. inviting a friend over for like the first time doesnt always sound appealing. but if you go somewhere really fun and exciting the first time you hang out outside of school, they'll realize hey this girl is really fun, and we have to hang out more. the first time counts the most. so show them a good time the first time, and doubt they'll wanna hang out again afterwords!! hope i helped :)
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Does anyone know any stores or places online where I can buy a giant tea cup. (Like the big tea cups they have at coffee houses) Thanks. (link)
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check ebay.. they say that site has fuckin everything ;)
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mmmkay this august im starting highschool. i went to a catholic school all my life, and i was there for 9 years. It was really small, so everyone was my friend, and i loved just talking and laughing with them. I also really liked the school, the teachers were awesome. Im going to an all girls catholic highschool with some of my girl friends, and most of my guy friends r going to the all boys school that we have like dances w/ nd stuff. Im really sad that the 9 years is over. Wat if we dont stay friends? And what if i dont make new friends? How will i get a boyfriend wen im in an all girls school? I mean, im not very pretty, and i dont wear makeup. Im big and muscular, and a major tomboy. I know its a lot of questions, but i need help! (link)
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hmm.. well just be sure to keep in touch. weather it be online or on the phone. i know alot of my friends r going to central catholic next year, and im still going to a public school. so its gunna be tought but i just keep in touch with them mostly online and we hang out on week ends. and just go as mant places as possible with other friends.. weather it be to the movies.. or out to eat. keep your eyes open for guys.. haha.. dont worry.. you'll eventually come out of your tomboy stage.. and some guys find that appeling if a girl isnt afraid to brake a nail or w.e. just be you, n you'll do perfectly fine!! hope i helped :)
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okay...i'm a huge harry potter fan...i'm like obsessed with the movies and books. especially after reading the sixth book, i'm like falling in love with the character, scary but yes. on the videos i watch the comentaries and read in magazines and know and like alot about daniel radcliffe and stuff... now straight to the point. am i in love with the character or the real person? lol stupid question but i'm so confused! i've always wanted to meet danial especially after i saw the first movie. he's gorgeous and he's a really good actor! help me!! (link)
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hmm its just a crush.. you'll get over it. otherwise keep doin wat yer doing.. hope i helped :)
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Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
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hmm tough situation. but if it wasnt intentional your friend shouldnt be mad. just sit down with her and talk it out calmly.. i kno how yer friend feels.. it sucks wen you get ditched.. exspecially wen its for a guy!! but just talk to your friend about it and be sure to tell her you didnt mean to hurt her.. hope i helped :)
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my family is not rich but not poor and i want alot of things but they wont get then for me (link)
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get a job babe.. haha if you wanna get your own shit n they wont buy it.. the only advice i have for you is get a job n pay for what you want in life.. they're not always gunna be there to buy shit for you. hope i helped :)
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ok... so my friend doesn't want me to go out with this guy. shes gone out with him and so have i. but i really do like him. she says that hes an ass hole. but i dont think so. she said that he is only nice until he has you as his gf. and then he will ignore you. she told me that if i went out with him she wouldn't talk to me for a long time. he doesn't live here, he lives in another town. she says that he will cheat on me if i go out with him. im worried that he might. part of me wants to go out with him but part of me doesn't at the same time. he has told me that he likes me and i told him i like him to but he hasn't asked me out. does he really like me? should i go out with him and lose my friend? (link)
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well.. it depends. if you feel that this girl is your best friend? then chances r you should trust her.. its not like shes out there to hurt you n fuck up your life.. UNLESS shes jealous n just wants this guy back for herself.. thats a diff. story. but my advice is follow your heart.. haha if you feel you should give this guy a try.. then go for it.. your friend cant controll your life, and your old enough to make your own decisions. so follow yer gut, and learn from your OWN mistakes!! hope i helped :)
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Ok I'm 13/f and I have a crush on someone. I never have in my entire life. I refuse to tell anyone because I feel really guilty and I'm worried people will make fun of me because everyone thinks I'm a nerd. I should be focusing on getting into the Honor Choir and straight A's, not boys! Is it a bad thing? It would be really cool if someone can give me some info! thx (link)
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fuck them. your allowed to have a crush just like everyone else. but if your not ready to announce to everyone you like this person, keep it to yourself for a while. no ones gunna think your weird for having a crush.. its common nature hun, fuck them lil bitches!! haha hope i helped :)
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My boyfriend of over two years is in the Navy. We're working on a long distance relationship and we have gotten so much closer, it's unbelievable. I'm going to visit him in 18 days where he's stationed in Florida, and I'm going to be there for almost two weeks. I want these two weeks to be the best ever. Any suggestions on what I can do to make it awesome? What kinda things can we do, or what can I say/do to show him my feelings haven't changed? I want this to be perfect. =) (link)
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wow thats amazingly cute!! i know my cousin had a relationship with someone in the navy, no doubt it was a tough relationship, but in the end, wen he came home, they must have been the tightest couple ever. they both respected eachother and looked at eachother in a new light. hmm.. i think you should consider a dinner on the ocean. florida is a beautiful place, and that would be super romantic!! uhmm just take lots of night walks on the ocean, thats super sweet too!! well, im sure your boy friend already has everything planned out and has some surprises for you as well. my advice is just use every moment avaliable, and dont hold back. haha. god bless your boyfriend for being over seas
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i have a crush on a guy that everyone thinks is cute an dhe knows but he doesnt like me anymore than just a friend he says im pretty that i have a nice body but he still says that he only likes me like a friend and every time i see him with another girl i get mad. do you guys have anything to offer something that will make him like more or anything good will rate a.s.a.p (link)
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hmm.. well try showing him more affection. let him kno that no girl is gunna keep you from him. if you see him with another girl.. get the other girl out of the picture. this will show him that your really intrested and will do anything to be with him. maybe be a little more agressive. dont be a slut or a tease.. but try flirting with him a little more. if things dont work out with him.. get his best friend ;) haha hope i helped:)
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Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend. (link)
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well you just have to sit down and think about what you really want. you cant play both guys. so just sit down alone and think. it may help to make a list of pros and cons for each guy. like well this guy is extremly romantic, but he is also a huge flirt, and this guy gets along with my family.. but... he doesnt seem to stable in our relationship. see which boy you can get more pros about, and go for him. hope i helped:)
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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
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this guy obviously likes you alot. and respects hat you want in a partner. if he dont wanna get down yer pants, thats a good thing. its also a good thing him and your parents get along.. thats a big thing in my book. it sounds as if this guy really adores you, and respects what you want in a relationship.. hope i helped:)
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On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes? (link)
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hmm.. i think you should let him know how your feeling. but also wait it out. maybe he is missing his ex girl friend.. but show him a good time and no doubt he'll grow more and more attached to you. its obvious he likes you, since he asked you out and all, but i think you should wait it out, show him a good time, and see how everything goes. be sure to keep me posted on how everythings going as well!! hope i helped:)
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how do u make those hearts on myspace and stuff..??
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♥ i know it sounds weird.. and you might be hesitant to try it cause it could show up as that n ppl will know yer retarded. haha but just do it while singing one of your friendss myspaces it does work. =) hope i helped
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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions? (link)
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aww hunny. i know how it feels!! but everyone is beautiful. i suggest maybe getting a makeover. maybe you should tell your parent/guardian that you are feeling this way and seriously ask them if you could get a makeover. try a new hairstyle, new color, and get some makeup tips from the stylist. also try getting some new clothes and a shopping spree always helps. nothing feels better than walking around in a new outfit!! hope i helped:)
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Okay, well I've been going to a workout camp for three weeks, and already I see great improvement in my speed, strength, and endurance. The only thing, is that WHILE I'm working out, my back sweats really bad, and completely soaks the back of my shirt! It seriously grosses me out and it is not too much fun when you're stuck with a wet shirt for a lot of the day. What can I do? (link)
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ahh that sucks. but i think its good, haha this might sound weird.. but it shows people there that your trying to loose weight, and your sweating because your working hard. it shows people that your making n effort to do something you want. uhmm but you can try staying hydrated!! drink lots of water, and splash your self every now and then if it helps.. but sorry hun, cant tell your body to stop sweating. but it shows your making progress!! well i hoped i helped:)
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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake?? (link)
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wow girl.. get rid of this jerk. ONE NEVER let a guy hit or abuse you, thats a sign of a sucky relationship RIGHT there. and if he lies.. aahhh get out!! i absolutly HATE liars and cheaters. if theres no trust in a relationship, hunny you got nothing.. i know trusting ppl is hard, but this guy doesnt seem to give a fuck about you or your feelings. i kno 9 months is a long time, and you probably like him alot, but babe, you can get wwaayyy better!! hope i helped!! :)
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a few questions here...
im not fat by all means...just curious
whats a normal weight for girl that is 5'10?
and how can i tone up my stomach other than sit ups and crunches, its not flabby or anything but i guess anyone can use a tone up
i have really muscular legs but when i wear a skirt or something the top part of my thighes rub together and it gets really irritated and it hurts, how can i keep them from rubbing together and is that normal?
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well your really tall, LUCKYY!! haha but uhmm i think a normal weight for someone your height is probably around.. 170's maybe? and maybe even more since your legs r muscular.. just remember muscle weighs more than fat!! and i do sit ups and crunches everynight.. they work.. but slowly. uhm you can try waist widlers, thats when you like stand up and turn your body. ahh hard to explain. but uhmm just stick with the sit ups for now, or check out some new magazines, they have great tips on how to stay in shape [ cosmo girl, seventeen, teen people etc ] and yeahh that leg thing with skirts, its called chaffing. ughhh it gets so annoying i know!! but uhm i just walk on a tredmil for about 20 minuites everynight. hope i helped :)
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