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school and boyfriends(long, but i NEED help-i rate high)
mmmkay this august im starting highschool. i went to a catholic school all my life, and i was there for 9 years. It was really small, so everyone was my friend, and i loved just talking and laughing with them. I also really liked the school, the teachers were awesome. Im going to an all girls catholic highschool with some of my girl friends, and most of my guy friends r going to the all boys school that we have like dances w/ nd stuff. Im really sad that the 9 years is over. Wat if we dont stay friends? And what if i dont make new friends? How will i get a boyfriend wen im in an all girls school? I mean, im not very pretty, and i dont wear makeup. Im big and muscular, and a major tomboy. I know its a lot of questions, but i need help!
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hmm.. well just be sure to keep in touch. weather it be online or on the phone. i know alot of my friends r going to central catholic next year, and im still going to a public school. so its gunna be tought but i just keep in touch with them mostly online and we hang out on week ends. and just go as mant places as possible with other friends.. weather it be to the movies.. or out to eat. keep your eyes open for guys.. haha.. dont worry.. you'll eventually come out of your tomboy stage.. and some guys find that appeling if a girl isnt afraid to brake a nail or w.e. just be you, n you'll do perfectly fine!! hope i helped :)
<3 bailey
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Oh, I know how you feel. I freaked out when I was starting highschool as well. It can be really sad moving on, but also quite exciting!
You can always stay in touch with your friends via phone, e-mail, or hanging in person. Just because you're going to a separate school now doesn't mean they'll disappear from your life :) Also, you'll have plenty of new friends to hang out with - don't worry about that! Just be yourself and join some clubs about things that interest you. Finding a common interest is a fast way to make new friendships.
As for the boyfriend aspect of this, I wouldn't worry too much about it yet. If I was you, I would just focus on adjusting to highschool and let things with boys progress naturally. I'm sure your school will have plenty of dances in which you can meet some guys ;)
Hope I helped, at least a bit! Good luck :)
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Well first the friends issue..im not gonna lie 2 you because I've been in a similar situation i switched skools nd you always say u will stay in touch but you eventually lose touch! One of the best ways to keep in touch is on the internet lik thru aim...at first it will hurt losin friends but eventually it will fade nd sumtimes you'll get the urge to give the old frends a call nd thats fine..do it! You could also set up a schedule where you call a diferent friend each day of the week to make sure you stay in otuch. Now on to the boyfriend/friend thing...ofcourse you'll make new friends it would be impossible for you not 2 make new friends..just be outgoing but not too outgoing. There is also nothing wrong with being a tomboy..sumitmes people stay tomboys and other times they grow out of it..i dont kno your case but if your worried about gettin a bf nd you dont think your pretty i hav sum tips..1. don't look down on yourself..lik syain im not pretty..guys luv confidence in a gurl..2. wearing a little bit of eyeliner can really help...and it not a big deal because i kno plenty of tomboys who wera it...if your lighter skinned lik pale, brown is a good color if your darker, black, just line under your eyes and thinly on your eyelid...you can hardly tell its there but it really helps your features...3.going to the mall or movies is a great way to meet guys..4.lik i said ther is nuttin rong wit bein a tomboy but in truth..most guys lik girls who show a lil skin..just a tip.
*hope you lik my advice and feel free to leave a question in my inbox..x0x0 *Caitie*
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ok first thing....TAKE A CHILL PILL! its gonna be ok! alright, keep in touch with your friends..call them and meet up with them places. and to prevent not making friends...be nice to everyone. go up to people and just introduce yourself and start talking. and you can always get a boyfriend that lives aroud you..and if you dont then...who needs a bf anyway! and...sigh..fro your LAST question, you need a boy friend who doesnt care about looks. like i said before, be nice to everyone and get involved. people will like you and you have a better chance to get a boy friend.
i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.
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well since your big and muscular why dont you work out at the gym or something maybe u can catch a guy there! u never know who will end up likeing you!
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