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i need a good idea of what to say in my speech for running for middle school president. i also need a couple of ideas of what i should pass out. cany, stickers, ect. thanks for the help!
I'd say make funny posters - ones that will stand out. Also, try to say "hi, soandso" to everyone you pass in the hall, addressing them by name. That way they will see that you care about all of them, since you've taken the time to learn their names. If that doesn't work, you can always resort to handing out lollipops with "Vote for [yournamehere]!" papers attached to them, hehe. Good luck!
i don't know why, but i get SO pissed off at my mom for just above anything. if she changes something on my computer i slam the door in her face and go to the bathroom and start crying. if she puts perfume on me and i didn't want to wear that perfume, i start crying and i feel like throwing and the perfume across the room and screaming to the top of my lungs. i don't know why. it's so incredibly stupid, but it gets me SO incredibly pissed off, it's not even funny. does anyone have anything to say that may be able to help me with this situation. i appreciate it and thank you
I actually kind of know how you feel. I went through that at one point. If you're around age 13, then I would assume it is just your hormones acting up (fun, eh?) However, it could also be that maybe you have deeper issues with your mother than you realize, and this is a subconscious way of taking it out on her. Also, possibly you're simply really stressed (with school, for example). It's difficult to say without knowing more of the situation, but I wish you luck.
13/f gonna be 14.
kay. my birthday is october 23rd. and i wanted to have a party somewhere. BOTH boys and girls. but i cant have it at my housee. any ideas.? any games ?
thanks in advance!
Hmm, let me think. You could go to one of those pottery shops that allows you to paint pottery/other ceramic things. I did that at a party once and it was quite fun. If you don't have one near you, you can always go to Six Flags, the park, have a dance held somewhere, or have a movie marathon. In any case, have a good birthday!
I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.
Try not to worry about "fitting in". If you act naturally, I'm sure you will attract people. It would be easier to give advice if I had more information, but I'm sure that you'll do fine. I hope you find some good friends soon :)
I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.
I think it is quite normal, considering the massive amount of hormones that must be rushing through your body at this age. Also, I just wanted to let you know that I think it's fantastic that you are waiting until marriage :)
I plan on waiting till i get married to have sex. But why is it so hard to find a guy that feels the same? Like on TV, all the guys seem like pigs, and that they only love women to get sex out of them. I want a guy who feels the same why i do, but why r they so hard to find?
I definitely feel your pain, for I am in the same situation. I wish I could give you an answer, but I'm not sure why guys (and even girls) are so opposed to waiting nowadays. I just wish you luck in finding a guy who respects your decision.
uhmm this is gay but, wat are some sites that you can't get bored of, i've had xangas,buddy4upros, madpros,picturetrails,webshots,myspcae and all these other sites, but i always get bored of them ...somebody help me fine a fucking good site!!!
xomeox
Boy do I feel your pain, haha. Hmmm... I'd suggest the following: catch27.com (like MySpace except WAY cooler), gaiaonline.com, and any journaling site (such as greatestjournal.com). They're all great ways to keep ones self occupied.
Good luck on your quest to cure boredom!
mmmkay this august im starting highschool. i went to a catholic school all my life, and i was there for 9 years. It was really small, so everyone was my friend, and i loved just talking and laughing with them. I also really liked the school, the teachers were awesome. Im going to an all girls catholic highschool with some of my girl friends, and most of my guy friends r going to the all boys school that we have like dances w/ nd stuff. Im really sad that the 9 years is over. Wat if we dont stay friends? And what if i dont make new friends? How will i get a boyfriend wen im in an all girls school? I mean, im not very pretty, and i dont wear makeup. Im big and muscular, and a major tomboy. I know its a lot of questions, but i need help!
Oh, I know how you feel. I freaked out when I was starting highschool as well. It can be really sad moving on, but also quite exciting!
You can always stay in touch with your friends via phone, e-mail, or hanging in person. Just because you're going to a separate school now doesn't mean they'll disappear from your life :) Also, you'll have plenty of new friends to hang out with - don't worry about that! Just be yourself and join some clubs about things that interest you. Finding a common interest is a fast way to make new friendships.
As for the boyfriend aspect of this, I wouldn't worry too much about it yet. If I was you, I would just focus on adjusting to highschool and let things with boys progress naturally. I'm sure your school will have plenty of dances in which you can meet some guys ;)
Hope I helped, at least a bit! Good luck :)
okay so I have had my screen name for about .. 5 years? and i think i need to change it.. Can anyone give me some good screen names for like fashion or like something with fendi or burberry in it? thanks a lot
Hmm...
BurberryDreams
Fashionista
TrendyFendi
DesignerModel
Not sure what else o_o Good luck thinking of one - I know how hard it can be.
My birthday is coming up soon and I was just wondering if anybody had any ideas on what we could do for fun...I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! =) I rate for good ideas!! =)
signed,
Birthday Girl
Rent a lot of movies (that's what I usually do), get a bunch of junk food, and have a sleepover with a few close friends. My most successful birthday parties ever were like that, hehe.
Where can i find a web site to help me look for an old doll i found. It is a Mattel doll made in 1964. has strawbreey blonde type of hair & is on red roller skates!!!! She takes batterys. Please give me a web site to see how much she is worth!& Please dont give me ebay!!!!!!! that site didnt work ! i tryed!!! thank for all the help !!!
I rate High!!!!!!!
I know you said not to use eBay, but I do believe I've found a doll on eBay that fits your description quite well. No harm in checking it out, eh?
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=5597174875&category=335&rd=1
Good luck finding it!
So I need my teeth to get whitened. What's better - Oral-B/Rembrandt Whitening Strips or Crest Whitestrips? Does it cause sensitivity? And, can I split the box with another person, with still enough strips for each person?
I've only tried Crest Whitestrips, but I found them to work superbly well! However, it did cause mild discomfort/sensitivity (though maybe that is just in my case). Thankfully, though, the discomfort didn't last long at all and the results did.
I just got the Sims 2 for Mac. It says it requires 1 MB of free space, where can I go on my computer to see how much free space I have.
Highlight your hard drive icon on the desktop, go to "File" and select "Get Info". A window will pop up and it will state your computer's current capacity.
I Have the sims 2 and whenever i go to the sims website or the sims 2 website there are stories. i ♥ the stories but i really want to know how to make my own. do they just take pictures and write stuff? and how do the people get all of the cool furniture & people and stuff? thanks!
To create a story, you simply take pictures of your Sims and add captions to each photo. I think there is a way to upload your story to the official site, though I don't remember what it is.
As for the cool furniture/people, go to google.com and do a search for "The Sims 2 downloads" and I'm sure you'll find plenty of websites to download furniture and people from :)
my friend and i are going to cheer camp next week and we have this thing where we decorate the room we're in and u can get prizes. well for our room we choose the theme "an evening under the stars", like its gonna be a kinda whimsical romantic theme like with glow in the dark stars on the cieling and white christmas lights, but we dont know what else to have in our room that fits but isnt too expensive
Maybe you could set up a fake picnic in the middle of the room. Include candles and some sort of flowers since they both add to the romantic feel you're going for. :)
Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do?
If you truly love him, as you say you do, then you will respect his decision to wait. Above all else: DO NOT PRESSURE HIM INTO IT. I've been in his shoes before and I'm sure he won't take that well. However, remember that there is always foreplay and the like, if he's willing to engage in that with you.
I wish you both luck :)
ok well me and one of my best friend got into our 2nd fight ...and we made a promise to eachother that we wouldn't fight for something stupid(our golden promise), and it happend, she asked me to be her friend and i said no, and i have no clue why, i really wanted to be her friend, but i just didn't wanna seem easy to jus let it go, cuz i've done that b4 and my other friend took advantage of me, and kept doing it and then i finally stuck up for myself, and i dont know wat to do w/ this friend, i mean i love her so much and we have been friends so long, and i wanna talk to her and become friends with her again, but ...i don't know wat to do should i just i-m her and ask her to be friends? and uhmm, wat if she says no? wat do i do? i'm gonna feel like an idiot=( please help
Love,
?some1?
I say you should tell your best friend about your ex-friend who took advantage of you. Explain why you said, "no" when she asked to be friends again. Tell her that it was simply because of a bad past experience and not because you truly don't wish to be her friend anymore. After that, I guess you could say something like: "So, yeah... That's why I said no :\ But I really do want to be friends again, if you're still willing to give it another go?"
Hope that helped and good luck!
Hi, I am 14 years old, and I am dating a 16year old male. He is everything that I look for in a man. Everything is goin great. How can I keep it that way and improve it to make it more interesting?
Well, if everything is going well already, I suppose you don't need to change/improve much, eh? You should continue doing what you're doing because apparently it's working. If you find yourself getting bored after a while, however, then you should arrange dates in new and interesting places. Think of fun things to do that BOTH of you will enjoy.
All my friends are so much prettier and skinnier than me, and it lowers my self esteem. They are always the ones that get all the guys attention, and I hardly get any. I know it shouldnt matter at all, but it still bothers me. My friends dont treat me badly or anything, but im always worried that they are secretly thinking lower of me. Any suggestions on how to quit becoming so jealous and to stop thinking Im not good enough for my friends?
I know what you mean. However, keep in mind that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Guys have a variety of tastes in ladies and I'm sure that you'll find one (if not more!) who prefer your looks over that of your friends. You may even have some secret admirers ;)
I'm sorry if this did not fully answer your question, but it's all I could think of to say.