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should i talk to her?
ok well me and one of my best friend got into our 2nd fight ...and we made a promise to eachother that we wouldn't fight for something stupid(our golden promise), and it happend, she asked me to be her friend and i said no, and i have no clue why, i really wanted to be her friend, but i just didn't wanna seem easy to jus let it go, cuz i've done that b4 and my other friend took advantage of me, and kept doing it and then i finally stuck up for myself, and i dont know wat to do w/ this friend, i mean i love her so much and we have been friends so long, and i wanna talk to her and become friends with her again, but ...i don't know wat to do should i just i-m her and ask her to be friends? and uhmm, wat if she says no? wat do i do? i'm gonna feel like an idiot=( please help
Love,
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I say you should tell your best friend about your ex-friend who took advantage of you. Explain why you said, "no" when she asked to be friends again. Tell her that it was simply because of a bad past experience and not because you truly don't wish to be her friend anymore. After that, I guess you could say something like: "So, yeah... That's why I said no : But I really do want to be friends again, if you're still willing to give it another go?"
Hope that helped and good luck!
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Definatly say something to her. An IM is so much easier than in person, so I'd definatly go about it that way. Just tell her exactly how you feel. If she went to you the first time asking you to be friends, I'm sure she'll be willing again. Tell her everything of what you feel about your friendship with her, and why you were the way you were. And just apologize and ask for another chance. A fight isn't worth losing a best friend over.
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i think you should just tell her what you just told us. about your friend that took advantage of you, so your scared its gonna happen again, and you were just really mad and scared, so you said it but didnt mean it. If she still says she doesnt wanna be your friend, then she obviously doesnt deserve to be your best friend. If she loves you like you love her, she`ll come around.
Hope i helped. dont forget to rate!
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this advice is from experience
ok just write her an email. explain why you did what you did and apoligize and what not. it sounds simple, and it is...but just make sure you make her understand why you said no and everything. and at the end of the email (or letter if she doesn't have an email address...) be like, so please, call, IM, email, text, just somehow talk to me after you read this.
this worked for me, so hopefully it'll work for you.
good luck =]
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