I plan on waiting till i get married to have sex. But why is it so hard to find a guy that feels the same? Like on TV, all the guys seem like pigs, and that they only love women to get sex out of them. I want a guy who feels the same why i do, but why r they so hard to find?
ncblondie answered Saturday July 16 2005, 10:08 pm: Not many people share your feelings on waiting for marriage. That includes women. Stick to your beliefs and don't let a guy convince you to change your mind. When your Mr. Right comes along, he'll share your feelings on sex or at least respect your decision to wait.
Good luck. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
ELLEADVICEGIRL323 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:59 pm: That is great for you to plan and wait! Very mature! Most guys do't wait so it is hard because they think it's cool! Someday you will find a soulmate who will understand you! Just wait, be patient! Plz rate high! [ ELLEADVICEGIRL323's advice column | Ask ELLEADVICEGIRL323 A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:51 pm: guys are just weird like that. i mean when their alone thats all they talk about...trust me, my best friend is a guy. see, guys dont rush into things because they think we will dump them if they make a move too soon. they want us to make the first move. i know its hard to find one but its ok. just wait the guy your looking for will come to you....
HyperactiveMiss answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:27 pm: They're not hard to find, trust me. I know a lot of guys that would not have sex until marriage. You just have to look in the right place. My boyfriend for example. I didn't even need to tell him about waiting until marriage, he already knew about it and wanted it before.
I'm not trying to stereotype, but let's take popular people for example. They care a lot about their reputation right? So sex is pretty important to them. I'm not saying shun all popular guys, but if you want a relationship with them, don't be so surprised because you asked for it and now you're in for it.
The point is, you need to look in the right places. You want someone smart and someone that has self respect and respect for others. Someone that doesn't care about looking "cool".
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