I am 13 and I have already had sex twice with my bf who is 15....people always say I am a huge slut and whore...stuff like that...but i dont think I am that much...i meen i thought I was ready so I had sex...what do you think?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? MummuM answered Saturday July 16 2005, 9:29 pm: It's up to you if you wanted to have sex or not. If you felt like you were ready, then all the power to you! You're not a slut or a whore or anything them people say about you. They obviously don't know what a slut or a whore is if they're calling you one. A slut is someone who sleeps around with different guys, not someone who had sex with their boyfriend. You have a boyfriend. Yes, sometime in a relationship you are going to take it to the next level and have sex, no biggie. At least you're having sex with your boyfriend and not the whole world; like most girls. You're not a slut at all hun, and if you were ready to have sex, that's great! This is you and your boyfriends business, not anyone else. Just ignore the people who talk bad about you! They don't matter.
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secretcrushx3 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 9:15 pm: your deffinatly not a slut or whore people are retarded, if you though you were ready then hey its your choice not theres. And your only a slut if you go around fucking like 10 guys a week [ secretcrushx3's advice column | Ask secretcrushx3 A Question ]
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:47 pm: Having sex is your decision and just like your period you have it when your body is ready. Twice is not a big deal as long as you did it because you care about eachother and not because you just wanted to say ya im not a virgin anymore. Don't listen to what people say about you because it's your body and it could be a good thing or it could be a mistake but it's none of their buisiness! x0x0 *Caitie* [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:41 pm: Youre not a whore or slut. But people wouldnt call you those names if they didnt know you had sex. It would have been better if you and your boyfriend kept it between yourself. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:29 pm: if u feel strongly about what your doing is the right thing to do then do it
no one can tell you how to live your life its your life
but dont let it get out of hand if you know what i mean
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anne_givings answered Saturday July 16 2005, 8:23 pm: maybe you are just a little insecure and feel as though you need to have sex to BE somebody. if you are comfortable with it it's okay and you should be able to ignore what other people say. i havent ever REALLY kissed a guy so im not able to put myself in your shoes, but do you have sex because you LOVE him or because you think its what people do? i hope i helped!
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