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Heyy...Im Michelle...and well i have blonde hair with natural blonde highlieights...im 5' 4"..I have a LOAD of rele kewl friends which i love chillin with them....I'm very funny and outgoing and mostly wild...i LOVE giving advice...most of my family comes to me for advice so you might as well also...and well thats about it...c ya lata
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Age: 13
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Alright, so like I like this girl, she knows it, she's not sure if she likes me. She showed me her webpage today, and one of the comments says that she had her first kiss. I don't know what to say about that. Like just a few weeks, a month and a half at most, ago. She said her current relationship is almost over, but... I don't know. Honestly. I kept reading the page, and it turns out she had had like 3 boyfriends in the last three or four months. But I don't think they really LOVED her. I absolutely positively love her and I know that she's the one for me. Judging by how she broke up with the others, it looks like they didn't really love her, they were just the guys who look for "is she hot" and all. Like one person said he didn't like it when she acted all weird. Yeah, she's spassy, but I don't give a damn, I love her just the same! I told her that, but hey. We're 13. I don't know if she believes it, or knows what true love is considering the others. But she may love me. I recently asked her to a carnival as *cough* friends, and she didn't say "ok" or "sure" or "yes". She said "I'd love to!" which made me feel that it was right. I don't know why. I just did.

I really don't want her to have others. I want to be the only one. She has no idea how much I love her, it's more than anyone could possibly love anyone else. But she's already had a first kiss... so I don't know... it was someone who she's known her whole life, whereas we only met a year ago, so she may choose him over me. I really don't want anyone else to have her... really....

And then I commented on one of the people who she talked about breaking up with on her web page. I said that he was annoying, but not in those words, if you catch my drift. About two minutes passed. She logged off of AIM. I thought to myself, "Jeez. At least say goodbye." But then I realized that it would have been the perfect time to ask her out, just after dissing her ex (she has exes =( judging by the other stories I've read, the exes will come back to her, I just know it!!!) and so I think she was waiting for me to ask her out, but then thought that I was to shallow for that or something since it took so long. Jeez, I wrote the girl a song, even though I suck at songwriting, I can't be shallow! So now I'm worrying about are our chances over, could she be with the person she kissed, what if her exes come back, maybe she doesn't like me in the first place, what if she's making a hard decision and is going to choose the person who's not me, what if one day we kiss and it's not her first but it is hers, and so now I'm spassing and worrying and I just really want to have her! Sorry it's so insanely long... I'm just going through a hard time. (link)
omg i love you...your so sweet...if she doesn`t love you she HAS to be insane..i mean look at you...your worried about her, you care about her, its pretty noticable that u love her...most girls after havin exes and loosin there first kiss, think htat the GUY should make the first move...and on the carnival thing, the way she said i`d love to, is like a plus that she at LEAST has feelings for you, well i hope i helped and crap...if u need any other help well just ask...
You sound like a deticated guy and i love you...lol... well bii ♥ Michelle


Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up? (link)
You should keep the baby, you already kept 1, from when you were 14 so0o why not keep this one. I mean abortion is just to mean....think about the song that Nick Canon made... his mom was supposed 2 get his abortioned...and why would you kill your baby... if you had a heart you would keep him/her. i didn't mean that to sound like im a bitch im just saying don't you want to have a baby. Well i hope you have the baby and don't get it abortioned...

Well all my love michelle


AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)
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dont worry about it as long as u have all that you nedd you should be fine...i no this didnt help that much but still i hope i helped at least a lil


i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!


What should i do!

signed,
brittany (link)
heyy you should try consulting her an tell her that your always there fo her and that she needs to tell somebody becuase there is a guy roamin around town and if e doesnt tell somebody it might happen to another girl...if she doesnt tell you then tell her parents when she isn`t home that about the best advice i can give...good luck hope i helped

my love michelle


I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice. (link)
dont tell him shit this happens to most people...sorry if that sounded mean...but dont tell him anything...you like him becuase he says all this stuff about you...but hes just a stalker dont give him anything


i have so many guy friends not boyfirends but just friends and well no one will ask me out and i think its because i have so many boys as friends abd i asked one guy out and he told me that he would not go out with me because of all my friends and that theres a good chance thats i could cheet on him i was so mad 8( and sad because i knoew that i would never do that and he still never went out with me im going in to a higher grade but its time for me to have a boyfriend but with all my guyfriends i dont think they would .should i stop being friends with all the guys and start acting more girlie or the boyfriends aren't worth it (link)
well i have ALOT of guyfriends too but i have ALOT of girlfriends also and my friends say that if a guy doesn` t like me for me then hes a peice of crap and they made a rule for me that if a guy that i asked out rejects me then that means that hes not worth my tears...but currently im goin out w/ a guy and he doesnt mind that i have guy friends so the guy that you asked out is mostly likely a whimp...lol...but maybe the truth


a boy at my school likes me and i dont like him and hes like stooking me hes at my looker and in my class i keep telling him to leave me alone and he still calls and i dont even now where he got my number and my boyfriend thinks im cheeting on him with him i keep telling him im not but he doesnt belive me by a boy stocking me its ruining my reltionship and i love him what should i do (link)
tell your boyfriend that some kid from your school is following you everywere and tell your boyfriend that your not cheating on him and ask him if he could do anything to make that kid go away.


I really like this guy and we met at work. We became close and we flirted a lot and emailed each other. I told him that I liked him and he was cool with it and said he just wanted to be friends. He has always kept his word. He started to act funny though and I don't know how to percieve it. He called me babe and turned around to see the expression I had on my face and had a great big grin on his face. When he told me he was getting another job I was happy for him as I think he deserves the best. Gave me a pix of himself that he took at 1am, and emailed me. Since then I haven't heard from him.Should I give up or give more time? F-40's (link)
E-mail him and if he doesn`t respond then you should give up...but don`t give up at first give the responds about 1 month the most and if you don`t reseive anything from him try and forget about it...thats about it


School starts soon, and I want a new hairstyle, but I don't know what to do. I always left it down last year. This year I want to try something new. I have thick,straight,blonde hair. Like if I should cut or highlight etc. Any ideas would help, plz! (link)
Get it layered, and highlighted thats wat me and my friends do


Alright I want whoever is reading this right now to kno that I am not anorexic or balemic and will never become either of those. My problem is that my friends and family say that I am really thin and that I am so lucky... you know all those encouraging things... I feel like I'm kind of chubby and that I put on weight Im 5"4 and I weigh 106 am i overweight? If so are there any healthy ways to lose weight quickly. I'll rate anyone who gives me a good answer very well
thank you
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if you weight 106 and are 13-15 ur rele thin and u dont need 2 loose weight so yea and if you still want to loose weight eat more veges and fruits and less fatty foods


I have a mol on my face and its really ugly.. how do i get rid of it or cover it up or at least make it less noticable??!!! ahhhh (link)
use cover-up...but pick a type that is a lil bit darker than your face so you cant notice it


I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?

Thx (link)
call hi and say like i wish we could hang out more often we havent hung out in like a L O N G time...and see what he says


Ok. There was this baby i was babysitting and a little kid. i put them to sleep and i was watchin TV. then i heard the baby cry. i ran upstairs and the little kid was ontop of the baby! i do not know hwat to do!! i dont want to tell the parents but the baby might be hurt. HELPP
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Well first get the little kid off of the baby...then check the baby if he was hurt..then call the parents and tell them wat you saw (when your calling the parents make sure that you have the baby in your hands so that you know the little kid didnt hurt him) and yea that about all i can give you for your situation...


ok what does it meen when you pop your cherry?!?!? can somebody please tell me! (link)
there is a flap of skin rite bu your vagina that breaks when you have sex for the first time and it can be very painful...you can also pop it with a tampon. so be careful


Ok, I have this problem, I am WAY TOO NICE to my family. I give them advice, (after all, I do have an advice coulumn here)I'm supportive of them, and all they do is take advantage of me, then they ditch me. For example, my cousin has a weight issue, and I help her, and even doctors say my advice was good. She agrees, at the doctors office. She totally ignores me outside of it. When I bring it up she's always like "I have better things to do then talk to you" and on the phone I constantly have to call her name because she doesn't listen to me, and that's just 1 example. They ridicule me one minute, ditch me another minute, then ask me for advice like they are my best friend. What do I do? I turned to masturbation and porno as a getaway- masturbating while watching porno, but more masturbation then porno. Worst thing is that I'm a strong Christian, and their semi athiest ways are rubbing off on me.Help me! And don't tell me to talk to them and stuff, because I've done this in a civilized manner 1000 times, and everyone in my family is stubborn because they think I'm lying all the time because I'm the youngest,and I should suck it up and forget what they say. Help me plz, srry that its so long though. (link)
Dontgive them anymore advice and dont rele talk to them


hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks (link)
put it in a messy bun durnin the night and then in the morning take it out...thats wat happens to me..but i ahte wavy hair...ugh


Ok well I'm about to take my driving test for the third time. If I fail it one more time I have to pay $300 for lessons or wait till I'm 18. So I'm getting a little nervous about it. So does anyone have any tips for passing my test? (link)
simple...keep your eyes on the road


My friend says that blink-182 is a band which mainly girls listen to. I was like, no dude, blink-182 isn't like that. There are about the same of both. It's not a guys or girls band, kind of something which everyone listens to. Who would you say is correct? (link)
I would have to say that your correct cause i have alot of guy friends and when we go places i put in the CD and we like listen to all the time


Okay. Here's a little background info. Okay. Me and this kid named, lets just say "Mark" went out for about 5 months. We talked on the phone everyday, and hung out almost everyday. I was soo in love with him. But then we broke up a couple weeks ago. But I really regret it. We talk sometimes now, but I really want to go back out with him again. I miss him soo much. We went to some party last night, and he told my two best friends that he still liked me. I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know. I'm just really shy about telling people how I feel.

Here's my question.

1. Should I tell him how I feel? If yes, what should I say?

I rate high!! But please, I just need advice. Thanksss bunches.

Heart-broken and in love (link)
YES go out with him- "Mark" um i found out that you still like me and i like you alot still and i was wonderin if you would go out with me..


I talk to this other boy now hes 14 and we talk mostly on the computer. like the beginning of this month he iMed me and was like come over an said he likes me and he was gonna ask me out but he thought i was still in love with the boy i mentioned last time, so he waited. im not sure if he is for real tho bc hes got that reputation of being a player. so ive been to his house a couple times but whenever i go over there he wants me to give him head, or have sex. he says he loves me, and im his girl. i dont know wether to belive him or not. should i? (link)
HES A PLAYER! dont give him pleasure...cuase then your gonna think that he loves you while he is gonna do other girls...dont give in...thats all i can say




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