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I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice.
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You don't have to date him. As a matter of fact dating him is probably not even possible at the moment with him not living close by. That doesn't mean you can't be friends and write back and forth. You may want to consider doing that for awhile. As always, be cautious of anyone you meet on the internet. Don't give out your personal info to anyone you do not know. :)
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Be careful, he could be setting you up (he may be different in person (an adult who goes after prey - young and volnuable. On the other hand if there comes a time that he would like to meet you, say sure - as long as my parents are with me or friends. You would want to meet him where there is less of a chance that something could go wrong
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ppl that you meet on the internet can be like really psyco and shit. but just don't give him your number, that's like common sense. you can continue to be friends with him and talk to him and stuff, just don't give him any info about where you live or your phone number. and don't grow feelings for him! trust me, it'll be so retarded. and everytime he gets on the subject of how wonderful you are, talk about something else. Because as long as he isn't talking to you about THAT, you won't be tempted to like him.
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dont tell him shit this happens to most people...sorry if that sounded mean...but dont tell him anything...you like him becuase he says all this stuff about you...but hes just a stalker dont give him anything
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I have many friends in the same situation.Well first you should make sure this guy isn't a online sex preditor or a old man or something..lol! Make sure someone else knows about this guy.I wouildn't give out numbers to people i don't know so i wouldn't.But I hope I helped
~Claire~
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Heh, i don't know about you.. But i've had an online relationship, and it turned out for the worst for me. But thats just me i guess..
I wouldn't reccomend giving out your number on myspace to some guy you don't even really know, and someone who lives far far away from you.
After all, he could have a fake picture or he can be an online predator.. you never know.
I'm acting like a critic on my behalf, because i am a supporter of C.F.O.P.O. I don't know if you've heard of it, but its for online predators. So on my opinion, i'd say no. Just chat with him online, no phone number.
Take Care, Hun.
♥ Alli*
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Personally, I would feel a little skeptical about this guy. If you don't really know him that well, don't feel pressured to give him your number. If you decide not to rush into anything yet, especially because of the long distance relationship, tell him that you'd like to get to know him better first. Once you get to talk to him and learn more about him, then maybe you can talk to him on the phone and become closer. I wouldn't rush into anything yet because this might turn into something more complicated than you bargained for. Who knows? It might turn out that you two were "meant to be," or it might turn out that it's best to keep the communication strictly online. I can't tell you what to do. If I can give you one piece of advice, it would be to think for yourself. What's most comfortable for you right now? Do you really like this guy? Most importantly, what do YOU want to do? I hoped I helped somehow, sorry if I didn't. Good luck!
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ok this is what i would do..
i wouldnnt give out my number..not only for safety purposes but those kind of relationships just dont appeal to me at all. i mean its like mental torment..you cant see the guy in person..hold him..there is nothing.
this is only my opinion..after considering everyones view, decide for yourself on what you think
its nice to have a friend online..but i dont think online bfs are a great idea.
-melissa-
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dont give him your number no matter what or info on where you live. no matter what he says to you just dont do it. haven't you seen storys on the news where girls give guys their numbers or sumthing and they end up being killers/rapers? dont you watch lifetime? just dont give him your number!
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