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"People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us see our own way more clearly."
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Heyy, thank you for helping meee :) I have a question though, on this guys website, he had the Underline one color and the word he underlined a different color , how would you do something like that?
this is his website : http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=graspyour_tragedy
also, if you want you can IM me on my sn if its easier to talk like that , Jist1088
Put this code into your website stats to change the color of an underlined word:
.blogbody u, .standard u, p u, u {
font-weight: underline;
color: ff0099;}
You can change the color code where it says "color:" to whatever color you want. If you would like to do the same for bolded and italicized words, just tell me and I'll give that code to you. If you don't know the codes for colors, you can go to http://www.brobstsystems.com/colors.htm or www.xanga.com/mz_HTML_Helpa
Some sites I go to for HTML codes to make my xanga more interesting are www.blogring.net and www.createblog.com
what are some tips for getting your eyelashes longer and more curled ?
Use a lenghtening and volumizing mascara, like Cover Girl Fantastic Lash. You can also use an eyelash curler.
Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks
My friends swear by ProActiv. I haven't used it myself, but I hear great things about it. You should use Neutrogena Oil-Free Acne Wash daily. It doesn't clog your pores and doesn't leave a messy residue. You should also use a blackhead clearing scrub from Neutrogena or Clean and Clear. Some things you should do to avoid breakouts: Definitely drink water to keep hydrated. Clean your face with a gentle cleanser no more than twice a day. You should also exfoliate once or twice a week. Try to keep your hands away from your face or not touch it so much since the bacteria from your hands get on your skin and clogs pores, which causes inflammation. Always use a moisturizer with an SPF of 15 or higher when you go out. Of course, never sleep with make-up on. There's so much more you can do to keep your skin healthy and clear of acne, but those are some of the basics. I hope I helped you somehow.
What are the codes to use on Xanga to Bold,underline,italicize certain words? And if there are any other cool nifty things you know, ifyou could leave those also
Highlight the word you would like to change and press: Ctrl+b to bold, Ctrl+u to underline, Ctrl+i to italicize
As for the cool nifty things, there are so many I could give you. If you're looking for something specific, just tell me. You can drop something in my inbox, e-mail me, or IM me. I could also give you some HTML sites. You can look at my xanga and if you see something that you would like in yours, I'd be happy to give you the codes.
I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice.
Personally, I would feel a little skeptical about this guy. If you don't really know him that well, don't feel pressured to give him your number. If you decide not to rush into anything yet, especially because of the long distance relationship, tell him that you'd like to get to know him better first. Once you get to talk to him and learn more about him, then maybe you can talk to him on the phone and become closer. I wouldn't rush into anything yet because this might turn into something more complicated than you bargained for. Who knows? It might turn out that you two were "meant to be," or it might turn out that it's best to keep the communication strictly online. I can't tell you what to do. If I can give you one piece of advice, it would be to think for yourself. What's most comfortable for you right now? Do you really like this guy? Most importantly, what do YOU want to do? I hoped I helped somehow, sorry if I didn't. Good luck!
I have a hard time getting a boyfriend. I'm not sure if it's just me because i have a lot of friends and i'm pretty nice. I dont get it!!! Any advice to get an HONEST and SWEET boyfriend???
I'll rate high for good advice.
Wow, what a question. I'm sure it's not you, but isn't it possible that guys DO like you, but they're afraid to confront you about it? I'm a firm believer of taking matters into your own hands, so if you like someone, ask them out yourself. It doesn't necessarily have to be a "date." You can say something like, "My friends are planning to go to the movies tomorrow, would you like to come hang out with us?" Just something casual to see if he's interested. If he says no, don't get too disappointed or you'll seem too desperate. As for the honest and sweet boyfriend you're looking for, I'm sure many girls would want one. But in reality, not everyone can have someone sweet and honest to go out with. If you just be yourself, someday a guy will see you for who you are and like you for it. If nobody can see that now, then that's THEIR loss, it has nothing to do with you. They might find you intimidating or something, and are scared to be rejected by you. If you're really bummed about not having a boyfriend, remember that you have a lot of friends, just like you said. They like you for who you are, and if any of them are guy friends, maybe they can become something more than that in the future. I'm sorry I didn't really answer your question, but I hoped I helped somehow. Good luck!
well i was wondering if ny1 knew any good spray/cream anything that i could use to put in my hair before or after i straighten it so its smooth. i have like black curly curly hair.or something to help it so its not so fried help! thnx //♥
You should use Pantene Pro-V Frizz Controlling Straightening Balm or the Anti-Frizz Serum.
i am always shy around my friends i would say how are you and stuff like that but then we would have nothing else to talk about cause i wouldnt know what to say but i act different around my good friends but i mean for friends that i really dont talk to much do you have any suggestions ???
I had the same problem. I would be able to goof off with my close friends, but with the friends that I just talk to, I'd just be like, "So... What's up?" Try to start off with some small talk and casual conversations. Look for something that they're interested in and you can bring something up about it. If you see that they're bored in class, you can say, "I'd rather be anywhere but stuck in this lecture, where would you want to be?" Just something simple like that. It doesn't have to be too personal, but something they can have an input on. You can also try complimenting them, that usually starts a good conversation that's not too awkward. But try to compliment on something about THEM, instead of what they're wearing, etc. Keep it casual and friendly, like, "I loved the speech you gave in history class. You seem very well organized." If you don't want those awkward silences in the middle of a conversation, just keep talking. Don't be afriad to embarass yourself. Isn't it possible that they're trying to think of something to say also? Speak up and share your opinions, and I'm sure you'll be fine. I hope I helped. Good luck!
In a week will be my first day of a new school, so i want my skin to look good. I have a severe acne problem, its all over my face. the dermatoogist gave me retin-a micro and benzaclin and a sulfur wash but its just not working. i rele want clear skin or atleast clear enough toput make up over it by when school starts. any tips or natural remedes?
I don't agree with Basketball3846. Going out into the sun without protection is never a good idea. Although some people think getting a tan will hide acne, it really just makes it worse. It dries the skin up even more and it eventually gets more irritated, which leads to more breakouts. Talk to your doctor and tell him that your prescription isn't working for you. I'm sure he/she will suggest some alternatives. Many of my friends use Proactiv and swear by it, so maybe you can check that out. Be sure to keep hydrated by drinking plenty of water, and eat right (even though greasy foods do not cause acne.) The single most important thing to do when you have acne is to keep your skin as clean (bacteria free) as possible. Clean your face with a gentle cleanser at least twice a day and follow this basic routine: cleanse, tone, moisturize, treat. Acne, as you know, is a result of clogged pores, so make sure to keep dirt and oil off. For example, don't rest your face onto your hands when you're bored in class, the germs from your hand will transfer onto your skin. Also be sure to wipe off every trace of make-up you might have before you go to bed. NEVER sleep with make-up on. There's much more to take notice of, but these are the basics. I hope I helped. Good luck at your new school!
I was dating someone and he just stopped talking to me after I made a mistake. I keep telling myself that it's over and that I'm over him, but then something happens like a song comes on that we used to listen to all the time and I start thinking about him again.
I've tried talking to him, just trying to be his friend so I could get over him, but he doesn't want to talk to me. I gave up on that, but I still think about him and I miss him, because he was part of my life for a period of time and now he's just gone. It's really hard just to try to adjust your life without him in it.
I still have a few texts on my cell phone that he sent me, but I can't bring myself to delete those either.
He brought out the best in me, after I was depressed on and off, cutting myself, drinking, he changed it all and I think that might be the reason I can't just let him go.
Do you have any ideas how I can talk to him again to thank him, or should I let go?
You don't have to let go if you're not willing to, but you need to give him some space. If he's angry at you for this mistake that you made, then he has every right to be mad. If you really want to talk to him to thank him, but the feeling's not mutual, then you should write him a letter. That way, you don't have to confront him, but it's not too impersonal. Tell him how you feel and how he changed you for the better. When you see that he's moved on, then that MIGHT be the time for you to move on also. Everyone lets go at different rates, but when the time is right, you'll know when to let go. Good luck!
sry i forgot to ask this earlier....do u HAVE to brush ur teeth 3 times a day with braces i dont mind i just wanna kno....I rate high!
You don't HAVE to, but you should if you want to maintain healthy teeth. Braces act like a trap for more plaque, so it's important that you brush after you eat a meal. If brushing isn't possible, then at least rinse your mouth thoroughly with water. Just brushing isn't good enough, you have to brush correctly and also floss. When you're not at home, you should carry some floss or a travel toothbrush for convenience.
ok here is the thing....
i went to my boyfriends house the other night and did somethings i have never done before and then he went and told his sister(my best friend) and then broke up with me....
what can i do to feel better about this and to get him not to be mad at me and to keep him talkin to me.....
i really like this guy alot........
so dont tell me to quit talkin to him
please and thank you.....
~kashia
:( i wish i could die
Since your ex is your best friend's brother, this certainly puts you in a difficult position. There's really nothing you can do to make yourself "feel better," but to cherish what you two had together and remember the good times. I know it sounds cliche, but you can't always dwell in the past. If you're not sure EXACTLY why he broke up with you, ask him. If you're not up for it, wait for a while to let him settle down and cool off. If he agrees to "start over," then you two can be friends, and someday build something more than that. If you decide to confront him now and he tells you to back off or that he needs more space, then do so... You don't want to seem too desperate. I'm assuming that you trust him since you like him so much, so trust that the decision he made to break up had some good in it after all. In these cases, you just need to trust your instincts. If you see him on the streets and your conscience tells you not to chase after him, then don't. If you're at a party with him and something tells you to start a casual conversation, then go ahead. You can't hold back with something if you know you're going to regret it. Then again, don't do something dumb that might ruin the appreciation that he possibly has for you. I hoped I help a little, sorry if this wasn't what you were looking for. If he can't see how hard you're trying to make this work, it's his loss. You have nothing to be guilty about. Good luck!
okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s
Pinkeye is known as conjunctivitis. If you have this, then you should apply a warm compress to your eyes for 5 to 10 minutes about 3 times a day. It should make you feel a little better. You should also remember to keep your eyes and eyelids clean by using a cotton ball dipped in sterile water to wipe any crusts away. A lot of times conjunctivitis gets better by itself though. If any crusts continue to build up, try making a solution of baby shampoo and warm water to clean off your eyelashes. The water should loosen the crust and the shampoo cleans off the junction of your eyelid and eyelash. If it turns out that you don't have pinkeye, then these remedies should still help the itching. I hope I was some help. I hope you get better soon, for your eyes' sake!
Well okay see I have this friend, and like she finds something that's wrong to start a fight with me..i mean i like her as a friend but sometimes she gets me really mad, and i just can't take it anymore, we've been thru thousands of fights.. and she talks about me.But i dont care when ppl talk about me..but she sooo muchh..and some of the stuff she finds out i say isnt true, but she'll never believe me..she always brags about herself..and she called me last night and said someone said you said something about me and i was like who? but i dont talk about her...so i know its not true and she told me his name and i said i didnt say anything and she didnt believe me..idk what to do, sorry its long..help ?
Most importantly, you have to confront her about it. Tell her how your really feel and that what she's doing disturbs you. If she doesn't listen, MAKE her listen. Tell her you're tired of her antics and that you can't trust her if she continues this. Ensure her that she has to have respect to earn it. Also, it's important to find out exactly why she does what she does. Tell her that it bothers you that she talks behind your back. Ask her how SHE would feel if you spreaded rumors about her. If she refuses to listen and cooperate, then I'm sorry to say that she isn't worth your time. I'm sorry if my answer wasn't what you were looking for.
I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too
Wow, I've been there before. I didn't want to risk a chance of going out if it meant ruining our wonderful friendship. I decided not to go for it, because I was happy with what we have right now. If you really think things will be better if you reveal your feelings, then go ahead. In these situations, you need to trust your instincts. Don't do something you know you'll regret. On the other hand, isn't it possible that he feels the same way about you? You never know unless you ask, right? TRUST YOURSELF! Good luck!
My friend lets call her july she can be really annoying sometimes and she is really really really reallly really really lazy and slow we have only know eachother for like 1 year she drives me crazy now and has to know everything about my family she tells my mom everything and i hate it i want to tell her but she never listens! What should i do?
First of all, you have to tell her how you really feel. If she constantly reports to your mom every single thing you do, let her know that she's invading your privacy and you need space. If she doesn't listen, you have to MAKE her listen. Be assertive, but not too aggressive. Tell her that she needs to respect what you have to say, or you won't be able to respect her. Also, you have to find out exactly why she does what she does. Try asking things like, "How would you feel if I told your family everything?" If you confront her and she refuses to cooperate, then there's really nothing you can do about it. I'm sorry if my answer wasn't what you were looking for. Good luck!
im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks.
I used to be shy around guys because I never knew what to say what we started talking. When I meet a new guy, I usually start a conversation myself with a compliment or a casual question. For example, I would look for something we have in common and being it up. It can even be something as simple as wearing the same color shirt. It might not guarantee an instant friendship, but it's definitely a smooth start. Just remember to not underestimate yourself and swallow your fear. If you hesitate, just tell yourself that a minute of talking can change your life. In this situation, it's better to take action than to wonder "What if...?" for the rest of your life. I'm sorry id I didn't help, but good luck! Stay strong!
well, some of my friends arent exactly as pretty as me or as skinny. alot have trouble with guys. and alot of guys like me... my friends sometimes say things to me like "everyone likes you and ive never even had a boyfriend. you've had like a million. im never gonna find anyone!" i dont know what to say to them! i can tell them that they will find someone someday but that doesnt make them feel much better. sometimes they'll say: "im so fat. i wish i was skinny like you" and ill say your not fat! and they'll say "well i dont look like you do i?" i feel so bad! what do i say??
First of all, you can't let them think that stuff. They're putting themselves down and comparing themselves to you. They might be fishing for compliments, but I doubt that. Instead of just disagreeing with them, tell them that you're flattered and appearances shouldn't matter. Our society today has come to a point where we are so superficial that some of us can only judge people by their looks. Instead of saying "You're NOT ugly" try saying something like "You ARE beautiful." If they continue to criticize themselves, tell them how you feel everytime they compare themselves to you. It must be uncomfortable, and you should be able to be comfortable with your own friends! Good luck!
Ok well i ive been in a relationship for about 2 months now with one guy and things are getting kinda boring and well his friend i really really like him he is just funny and pretty cute hes not bad at all and well.. I dont know what i should do i dont even know if I might be cheating on him I think I am like ive kinda been talking to his friend alot and flirtin with him so what should i do dump my boyfriedn go out with his friend
or w8 a while im so confused help!!!
OMG, I've been in your situation before and I had no idea what to do! I didn't want to talk to anyone about it because I was afraid that they'd think I was betraying my boyfriend. I really liked my boyfriend, but I wasn't feeling it back from him, so I started to talk to his friend more. I started to get feelings for him and I was afraid to choose between him and my boyfriend. Before making any rash decisions, talk things over with your boyfriend. Tell him that things might not work out if there's nothing exciting going on. If you decide that you don't like him anymore, then you should break it off with him (after careful thinking.) Continuing to date him will only hurt both of you if your feelings for him aren't there anymore. Furthermore, if you decide to go out with his friend, you should make sure that no one gets the wrong idea about you and label you as a "player" or anything like that. If your boyfriend cares about you right now, he should be able to understand that your relationship will be better as "just friends." The rest is up to you, I'm sorry if I couldn't help. The decision you make will be the right one if you really know what you want and consider all the consequences. I'll be here if you ever need anything. Good luck!
heres the thing...i have this boyfriend and i REALLY REALLLY REALLLY REALLY REALLY like him. i think i might even love him. i mean im only 13 and i shouldnt be in love yet. but i think i am. i think about him all of the time and my heart beats fast when i get a phone call from him. i went to the pool with him and i just loved it. every time he said my name i got this feeling like i needed to scream.
HELP ME!
I'm not sure if you love him, only you can answer that yourself. It'll take some time to find it withinself to face the truth, whether it's just a strong attraction or true love. I once had a boyfriend that I really liked and I got butterflies everytime I saw him or heard his name. You never stated your problem, unless the whole "going crazy about him" was the problem. It's common, don't worry, especially if it's a new relationship. You say you think about him all the time... That's the factor that might become a problem if it interferes with your life with your family, friends, schoolwork, etc. If it gets to the point where you're so obsessive about him that you can't absolutely concentrate on anything, I suggest that you talk to him about it. Keeping a daily journal about your feelings around him might help. You can read over it once in a while and identify what it is about him that you're crazy about. One of the things I'm concerned about is how HE feels about you. If he doesn't feel that way about you as strong as you do, that's ok. As long as he truly cares about, your relationship will be fine. I'm assuming that you're happy to be his girlfriend by the way you're talking about him, but it might scare him if you're "too happy." Do you get what I mean? I'm sorry if my answer isn't what you're looking for, but I'll be here if you need anything else. Best of luck to your relationship.