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Well okay see I have this friend, and like she finds something that's wrong to start a fight with me..i mean i like her as a friend but sometimes she gets me really mad, and i just can't take it anymore, we've been thru thousands of fights.. and she talks about me.But i dont care when ppl talk about me..but she sooo muchh..and some of the stuff she finds out i say isnt true, but she'll never believe me..she always brags about herself..and she called me last night and said someone said you said something about me and i was like who? but i dont talk about her...so i know its not true and she told me his name and i said i didnt say anything and she didnt believe me..idk what to do, sorry its long..help ?
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maybe your close friends really arent trustworthy? they could have told or somehow been forced to tell, there are many ways it could have happened. but thats off where im trying to go with this. i think this friend is probably a waste of your time. who wants all that drama in their life? its your choice, but from reading that i would probably dump her. maybe you really do like hanging out with her, and want to stick it out as her friend. good luck with that, cause it seems like this girl really wants attention and she'd do practically anything to get it. hope i helped
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Honey,
sometimes those "real, real close friends" turn out to be "real, real fake friends". I though I had the PERFECT friendship with this girl. We did EVERYTHING together. I saw her more than my own family. Then, she started talking about me and stuff. If you KNOW for sure you can trust those friends, then you're O.K on that.
I know I sound like every other person in the world but... your friend is jealous of you because you have other friends and she wants to make herself sound important by lieing about you and making you sound bad.
Everybody does it.
It may sound like it's not true but believe me when I tell you that it is. She wants to make you sad and depressed. Don't ask why. People are just like that!
Some people don't get what they need at home. And I have know idea if she doesn't get the love and respect that she needs at home but sometimes that affects the life of that person at school and with friends.
Some people are desperate for action and they are SO desperate that THEY want to START it! That could be what she's doing.
There are a lot of reasons for her to act the way she does. I have no idea which one it is.
I say... talk to her. Tell her that you're her friend and you wouldn't talk about her to someone.
Tell her, either she's your friend or she's not but she's not going to make your life Hell over a stupid lie that someone is spreading.
Be strong.
I went through this situation with my WHOLE school. Everyone thought something bad about me and a fat girl named Jade wanted to beat me up and you know what... I freaked out... I switched schools. Don't do that. Don't let anyone scare you. They're just stupid people looking for someone to talk about and for some reason, they picked you.
We are SO much alike because this is the situation I was in and I was always the innocent one when it came to this kind of thing and so are YOU! LOL.
Well, just don't talk about anyone for as long as you can. That way, when someone accuses you of talking about someone, you can HONESTLY say, "I didn't!" and NOT be lieing and you would KNOW it isn't true! :-)
You know where I am if you need to talk or something. You can also email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck! ♥
Hope I helped! ♥
♥ Kayla ♥
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Get a new friend. Drop her and find someone better. She is always just trying to raise problems and make yall's relationship worse and bring attention upon herself. If you like revenge then start soemthing else up yourself, if not get new friends. Good Luck with that. :)
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i would confront her, if you really feel this way then i dont think you should be friends with her. the most important thing in a friendship is trust... and you guys dont have that
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Most importantly, you have to confront her about it. Tell her how your really feel and that what she's doing disturbs you. If she doesn't listen, MAKE her listen. Tell her you're tired of her antics and that you can't trust her if she continues this. Ensure her that she has to have respect to earn it. Also, it's important to find out exactly why she does what she does. Tell her that it bothers you that she talks behind your back. Ask her how SHE would feel if you spreaded rumors about her. If she refuses to listen and cooperate, then I'm sorry to say that she isn't worth your time. I'm sorry if my answer wasn't what you were looking for.
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Well it sounds to me like you have a lot of things that you dont like about your "friend". She doesnt sound like she cares a lot about the way you feel. There is no reason for her to just be picking fights and trying to find something to argue about. You shouldnt feel bad for talking about her to some of your other close friends, because if she is being that unruly you have a reason to vent your feelings about her. If you really care about making things right then you should really just sit her down and tell her how you feel. Telling her the things that she does that make you mad migh actually make her realize thats shes in the wrong. Just talk to her about it, and be true and everything will work out. Thanx for the question!
♥Emily
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