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dont know what to say...
well, some of my friends arent exactly as pretty as me or as skinny. alot have trouble with guys. and alot of guys like me... my friends sometimes say things to me like "everyone likes you and ive never even had a boyfriend. you've had like a million. im never gonna find anyone!" i dont know what to say to them! i can tell them that they will find someone someday but that doesnt make them feel much better. sometimes they'll say: "im so fat. i wish i was skinny like you" and ill say your not fat! and they'll say "well i dont look like you do i?" i feel so bad! what do i say??
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your so awsome, who cares about your friends?
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Say you may not look like me but that doesn't mean your not beautiful. There is not just one look that is pretty, most people say 'oh I wanna be the tall skinny blonde cheerleader!' but who says thats pretty. Guys like different things in girls and not everyone likes skinny girls. Some people like big beautys so tell them not to sweat it. Or try to help them lose some wieght and make them believe in themselves. Good Luck!
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Hey gurl i know how you feel because i go through the same thing with two of my friends they are both big and no guy will go near them. But i tell them that they are beautiful and that its not you its the guys and i tell them that if a guy can't love oyu for the way you are then you don't need them and its good that they stay away!!! WHen they say "I'm so fat i wish i was skinny like you" I normally say its not so fun being little because its hard to find clothes that fit and its hard because people are forever saying that i'm anorexic so try sayin that and see what happens. Hope i helped.
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First of all, you can't let them think that stuff. They're putting themselves down and comparing themselves to you. They might be fishing for compliments, but I doubt that. Instead of just disagreeing with them, tell them that you're flattered and appearances shouldn't matter. Our society today has come to a point where we are so superficial that some of us can only judge people by their looks. Instead of saying "You're NOT ugly" try saying something like "You ARE beautiful." If they continue to criticize themselves, tell them how you feel everytime they compare themselves to you. It must be uncomfortable, and you should be able to be comfortable with your own friends! Good luck!
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