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I'm going to a birthday party tommorrow and it's fancy dress. Everyone has to come as something beginning with the letter "B".

I am completely broke as I am a student living on £30 a week. Normally I wouldn't have a problem with fancy dress because I can sew and I've brought my sewing machine with me but I can't afford the material.

I was thinking of going as a bumblebee. I'd make yellow stripes on some black clothes using coloured tape and manufacture wings somehow.
Unfortunately, I've only been living in Bradford for about 3 weeks so I don't know where sells coloured gaffa or electrical tape.

Any ideas would be gratefully received, the more practical the better.

Thanks,
Girlwithamansname

Beauty Queen
Belle from Beauty and the Beast
Bride
Bozooka Bubble Gum
Barbie
Someone you know whos name starts with B
Buzz LightYear but you could make it cute
Bear
Button maybe? Like wear all different shapes and sizes of buttons and wear a shirt thats says "Cute as a Button

Is it true that putting a dab of toothpaste on spots overnight will bring down the redness and flatten out the bump?
Thank you!
(Sorry but I rate honestly!)

I dont think that is a good idea because it dries out your skin. Some people are probably going to tell you it works but personally, I don't think it does. If you want to bring down the bumps and redness then go by acne cream, maybe your docter can give it to you over the counter but it's up to you.

does prude mean that you never kissed anyone or that you dont like too?

basically yeah. like if you say no to a guy for making out or something so they spread around your prude or something.

i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

I havn't yet but I'd say 16/17 is the right age.

is there anyway to improve my kissing?

Practice makes perfect. But I dont think there is any way you can improve, your kiss is your kiss. Sorry for not helping much.

my friends' mother isn't the nicest person in the world, she's verbally abusive and just slapped her across the face..now my friend is considering running away and i think she's overreacting..but i really don't know. is she overreacting? what should i say to convince her to stay? ..or what?

She shouldn't run away but her mother should NOT verbally abuse her and especially NOT slap her. I don't blame your friend for wanting to run away, but she shouldn't, it would only cause more problems. Just tell an adult and try to get her and her Mom help.

Hey everyone! Heres 2 basics..I'm 16 years old and female! Okay so now that that's out of the way. Heres my question:

My friend is having a costume party near the end of october. I think we are going to be outside, I'm not sure yet. But if we are I want a costume that will still look good even if it is humid or something. Um i'm very girly and I want something that all of my friends will like and complement me on...Um, i just want a cute costume and i have NO idea what i should go as. Any help will be appreciated. Thnkx (I rate high for good answers)

These ideas might sound like 'eww why?' but just make it into something slightly sexy so it looks good. I saw some of these at Halloween stores.

Ideas:

-Bunny
-French Maid
-Devil
-Little Red Riding Hood
-Referee (sp?
-CheerLeader
-Hippie (lol)
-Miss USA or something like that
-Any Era like 50's through 80's

Hope I helped!

hey whats everyones opinion on this dress? like idc what you say just be honest ! =]
http://www.dillards.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=301&langId=-1&storeId=301&productId=500764886&No=92&overallOffset=8&N=1000930+165&searchUrl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dillards.com%2Fendeca%2FEndecaStartServlet%3FNo%3D92%26overallOffset%3D8%26N%3D1000930%2B165&R=JD-536

It is really cute! It reminds be of like a modern Marilyn Monroe (sp?) But if you are going to be outside at night it might be cold unless you live somewhere warm. I would say get it though. Have fun! :]

i want really blonde hair and i want to dye it im already quite blonde but more caramell than blonde im too scared to dye it, will it really ruin the texture and what if it goes wrong?

If it is your first time then I would definately get it professionally done. Don't make a to drastic change because then if it does go wrong it will look worse then a more natural color. Since it's your first time, I would first just put highlights of the color you want and if you like it maybe later dye all of your hair. Good luck!

do guys like it better when girls shave "down there?" i've tried before w/ a razor but it stung sooo bad and i got razor burn horribly! does anybody know any ways you can shave w/ out it leaving bumps everywhere or stinging? thanks in advance! i rate 5s for good answers!

It all depends on the guy, some don't and some do. There is this Conair shaving creme [I think thats what its called] you put it wherever the hair is and chemicals in it make the hair fall out and then you just need a towel to wipe it off. no razor needed, but the chemicals do make it smell.

One of my close friends and her boyfriend had sex and the condom got stuck inside of her but he didnt ejaculate is it possible that she could get pregnant?
I can't go to planned parenthood with her today because it's my bro's b-day and the only other close friends she has are all away.

I'm not a docter but it is very possible she could get pregnant. And she has a condom stuck inside her? She really should get that checked out. Sorry I'm not much more of a help.

ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
i rated high for good answers

I got my period when I was 12 but I know people who havn't gotten it and they are 14. It just depends on the person. Masturbating has nothing to do with it. Plus, believe me you DON'T want it, it is a real pain. So you have nothing to worry about.

hi i am 17 and i have been taking birth control for three months. um i need help, okay i am getting off the pills and i just got off my period last week and now back on and i know it is because of the birth control, but the first day i did not take it i had sex with my boyfreind and he you know in me and we both asgreed on having a baby well o you think i could get prgnant please help me

I don't think so, because you just got your period. Sorry I'm not much more of a help.

i had this dream..it was that i was in a bus and a girl named Imani was in the bus say "oh please god dont have us crash".Devon,my other friend was talking to other people in the backround. the bus was crossing two rail roads with out a space in between. as we cross it i look up at the window and i see the train comeing towards us Imani says "No God!" and we crash..it smashes right into the middle seats,and im one seat up (im in the 3rd or 4th seat) i see the glass on my window break,and i try to get out of the bus,its all smashed up..and my last thought was "what can i do?" I was at the door in the front of the bus,but thats where i left off.It was as though i could actually FEEL it.i woke up breathing hard..and my legs couldnt move for about 30 seconds...the thing is..i dont think i was actually "me" in my dream..but im not sure..i was kind of freaked out.And when i woke up..(3:30 AM) i heard this scratching noise against the wood floor..like a chair moveing across the room..but know one was there,my mom and brother were sleeping and the cat and dog were right next to me.I was really scared..i know this is dumb but i think something/someone showed me how they died..
anyways..what could this dream mean?

wow thats really creepy. im not really sure what to tell you cause depending on the way i look at it depends on what i think. it could've been a spirit trying to communicate and tell his or her story to you or maybe it was just a dream and you got a little scared over a little noise. but whatever it is, its up to you but that gave me the chills for a second.

whenever i get my period it it the worst 7 days of my life.. i accually cry myself to sleep because the cramps are so bad and sometimes i have to miss school is this normal and what can i take to help out??? i rate high

no its not normal for it to be that bad. i reccomend you to see a docter to get medication or see whats going on. good luck!

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hey i want to wax my bikini line and i don't want to shave it actually but i don't want to get it waxed proffesionally cause to me thats embarrasing is there any waxing strips or anything that i can wax my bikini line...do t hose venus waxing strips work even though you have to heat them with your hands...i just need help lol

thanx

i dont know anything specifically for waxing your bikini line but you could use this stuff that i used the first time i shaved my legs. its like a lotion that you put on the hair you want out, leave it on for like 4 minutes then wipe it off with a towel (or razor but i recomend towel) and the hair comes off. warning though, it has a nasty smell because of the chemicals to make the hair come out. its called Nair i think. good luck and hope i helped!

what does dildo mean? cause these 2 girls were talking about it in the mall today

it is like a fake penis girls use. basically a sexual toy that they use to stick up there.

Hi... im 13 female and my friend is 8 years old and she just got her period... she has no mom or sisters or brothers and i kno this family very well and the dad asked me to help... but my friend is only in the 4th grade..... she hasnet even had the talk yet.... i need some major helpon this one.... wat supplies can i give her and how can i help her!!?!?!

thnxs

well the talk you dont NEED to give her but probably SHOULD because she is already in the fourth grade and thats pretty old for not knowing, but that is the dads job. he can do that. but for the period. just tell her that is is for making babies and all that but she shouldn't go out and have babies. just tell her what you were told when you first got your period (if you have it already) for the supplies, she is to young for tampons, just give her a few packs of pads so she doesn't run out, and give her some little wrapped up portable pads for school to go in her backpack or purse. show her how to use them and when to change it and stuff like that. okay, i think i covered everything. good luck and just drop one in my inbox if you need more help!

why do you get discharge?

its nothing bad, i mean it might be annoying cause you get it before and after your period for most girls. and it 'cleans' out your inside area. hope i helped!

Hi im 13 yrs old and my twin sister is mentally challenged.. i started my period about 6 months ago.... but now she has and shes askin a lot of questions... my mom want me to talk to her about the birds and the bees.... but wat do i say.. does any1 have any suggestions on easy ways to understand all this???

I rate high!!!!

Thanks

i dont mean to sound rude but its not exactly your job to tell her about the birds and the bees. so just talk to your mom about how uncomfortable it is for you and she probably knows more then you about it anyway. but if she does make you tell your sister about it, dont use that term 'birds and the bees' or say its not literal. and just tell her the stuff your mom told you. and leave out stuff she might think is gross like jacking off and things like that. good luck and leave one in my inbox if you need more help!

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