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Heyy!! My name is Amber. I am 14 years old .. and I go to FHS. I'm in the 9th grade. I love to give advice, even tho some times I might not give GREAT advice .. but I'll try my hardest! I love to hang out with my friends // play sports // go on long walks // go to the beach // go to the movies // and listen to music. If you need anything, jus IM me at [xPH0T0C0PYHEARTS] and I'll be sure to answer any of your questions!

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this year are long dresses or short dresses in style for homecoming?
thanks bunches!

well i mean you could go either way on this one id go about in the middle not too long not too short if u have ugly plae legs then long but if you have hot dark legs then go short and sexy

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I'm starting out as a freshman in high school. I have no idea what eyeliner color is great on caramel tan skin or what brand name I should get for any eye liner thats noticable.. but not too visable. Just right for nice face but not over done. any ideas?

Perfect Blend by Cover Girl ( Basic Black ) would look really cute on you. I lovelovelove that stuff. You can get it anywhere basically. It's like $4 or $5. And it lasts quite a while. Hope I helped! Good luck at school =]


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hi, i think i like someone a lot but some of my other friends like the person too. I really like this person. I dont know if the person even likes me thought. Here are my questions
1.) how do i know if the person likes me?
2.) if they asked my out, if they do like me, what should i say?

thank you so-> much

It's kind of hard to "like" someone when your other friends do. You guys might get in a fight of something. If he asked you out, I would talk to your friends about it before you answer him. I know it might sound corny, but get their approval. They should be fine with it if their your true friends. Good luck with everything. If you need anything else, just drop one in my inbox =].


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ok im in high school and i was wondering what's more useful? 1-2 inch binders or folders?

thanks!

ps - and why one is better than the other

I use a binder for each subject. I think their a lot easier. I was a lot organizer last year. I put a notebook and a folder in each binder, and then wrote the subject on each binder. Then just picked up the binder and the book and left my locker. It's a lot quicker than looking for each folder. Good luck this year in highschool =]


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Even though I am currently dating my boyfriend, would it still be right for him to properly ask me to Home Comming? Or is it just an obligation and we both know it so there for he doesn't need to ask.

I would talk to him about that. Just bring it up, and ask him if you two are going together. Most couples go together. But talk to him about it. Have fun tho!


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I am 15! and well their is this kid who I found out that he likes me..I could tell he liked me.. soo I was like ok sure..the only problem is he is a few years younger than me and went out with one of my best friends..who kinda still cares about him and him about her! he is a great friend I can tell him lots of things and not care..soo the question is what should I do?

Wow. Your friend still cares about him, and he still has feelings for her. So I wouldn't try and pull anything. But age shouldn't madder anyways. I wouldn't take anything to the next level. Maybe in the future you guys will. But I would wait until things cool off between your friend and him. Good luck with everything. Hope I helped!


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ok so i went to take a pregnancy test today..i read the box which said to pee on the test for 5 seconds..me being the idiot i am..i peed on the cap..im all new at this so i had no clue there was a cap! i dipped the test in the toilet..and it came out negative..im thinking this isnt accurate because of all the water in the toilet..am i right or is it still ok to trust the negative?

I would just take another one just to be sure. Something in the water ( like the chemicals ) might have changed something. Good luck with everything!


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okay my friend mel is like super gorgeous. one of those people that are wow. but latley she has been pretty insicure about herself. and she is usually the total opposite. it might be because begginging of junior year but im not sure. she has been quite pale and pretty damp and drowisy. then when we went shopping she dropped a full size at AF and half at hollister. im really worried. when we went to in and out she refused her fave burger. i dont know if shes starving herslef or what. im worried she is and im worried shes taking laxitives. should i just comfront her about what im thinking, or should i just let the fase end [ hopefully its just a fase]. i dont want to seem noisy or an ass. how should i do this?

Wow. I'm really sorry about that. A lot of people have been having this problem. Well, I would sit down and talk to her. Say that your really worried about her, and ask her what's going on. Don't like get in a fight about it. Take her aside, or like invite her over or something. Just ask her if everything is okay. Tell her that you'll always be there for her. Friends are the most important part in people's lives. Just be there for her. Good luck! Hope everything goes well!


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Ok. Here's my problem. There is this boy that i like that is like 2-3 years older than me and I really like him!!! What should I do??? I just don't know what to say to him. I dont know If i go up to him and say hi and he'll ask me how old I am I don't want him to think I'm a little too young for him. Does it really make a difference in age??

I don't think it really matters how old you are. Go up to him and just start talking to him. Get to know him a little better. Maybe you'll get to know the real him and maybe you'll change your mind about him. A lot of people do that. But get to know him better, and if he doesn't pull a move on you, then you make it. Ask him to hang out sometime. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you two! If you need anything else, just leave one in my inbox!


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ok...im like 13 and ive been going out with this guys eriously fro like 3 years in october, hes kinda prude and im ready to go to the next level.what should i do...

What do you mean 'next level'. Well, your only 13. I would talk to him, and tell him that when ever he's combortable, your ready for the 'next level'. Maybe he didn't think that you were ready. Just try talking to him, and he'll understand. If not, give him some time. Good luck. If you need anything else, just drop it in my inbox!


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AMBER IS THE MOST GANGSTER PERSON I KNOW. HOW CAN I BE MORE GANGSTER?

-ur gangster b.

Hahahahah. I know I am S-Dog =]. lol. Your already gangster =]. lol.

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okay.im 14 and female.well i like my best friend.a lot.he likes me too but not as much.he is always talking about other girls he likes and he knows it hurts me but he doesnt even seem to care.we kiss a lot and act like were going out,but he wont date me because he is afraid it will ruin our friendship.but because of how close we are.i dont think it would.hes still friends with plenty of his ex's.but the thing is..im a very jealous person.i was just wondering what i could do help overcome my jealousy and make him see that he hurts me talking about other girls and then acting like he likes me in the same day without making it seem like im just saying it all to be jealous.thanks for the help. :\

Aww, I'm sorry about this. Guys are such losers. But anyways. I would try talking to him. Tell him that you really have a lot of feelings for him and that you want to date. He obviously has feelings for you. So I would just tell him that you want to date. Maybe you guys will start dating sometime soon. Good luck with everything and hope I helped

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ok well when I went on this trip. I met this kid named kevin well any ways.. at home I had liked this other kid named ben, and like kevin is two years younger than me (I'm 15) but he is amazing! and soo idk bc when I came back ben told me how much he ha missed me.. and how he would sign on everyday to see if I was home.. soo I was like aww.. and now i am unsure to like the kid from out of state or the one who lives less than 15 mins from me! well I need help and when you answer this thanks for helping !

confused

Aw, I'm sorry your going through this. But long distance relationships don't work most of the time. Sad to say. It's just too hard to go out with some one you just met and that doesn't live close to you. I would keep talking to the guy that lives in the other state and try and just be friends. Ben sounds really sweet too. I would keep talking to him too and maybe something in the future will happen between you two. Good luck with everything and hope I helped

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theres this boy. ive had a crush on him for like a year now. ive told my friends but they dont really care i dont think. and he kinda flirts with me. but i mean, he flirts with a couple other girls too. people have told me before to tell him i like him. but thats not what i want to do yet. i just want to know if he likes me or not. because if he does then maybe i would get up the courage to tell him i like him. but how do u think i could find out if he likes me other than telling him i like him first. because im not exactly sure he does like me. and i dont know what to do. can you help?

--shy and broken hearted.

I would talk to his friend and see if he knows anything. Ask him who he likes and maybe it'll be you! Or I would jus try and hang out with him a lot and talk to him a lot. But try not to be like annoying about it. Then I would get up the courage to tell him. Maybe something in the future will happen between you two! Good luck with everything! Hope everything goes good.


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on my advice column my info doesnt show up, you know where i write about myself? can someone help me please? it just goes straight to the advice
thanks

Change your layout on there. Go to Column Settings and then pick another one. But the server was down for a while, so maybe try and look at it again. But if not, just leave me one in my Inbox and I'll help you from there.


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okay, so this guy. we'll call him "gary". i've gone to the same school as gary for over like 8 years or soemthing. theres a lottt of people that like gary. hes like the popular guy i guess. i think ive always had a crush on him, but ive never really said anything about it. these past few years, i've started reallly liking him. jus this year, me and 'gary' have really started to kinda flirt i guess. we talk online every once in a while, and it always ends up talking about relationships, hot people and all that good stuff. one of my friends knows i like him.. and she says that he likes me. i keep hearing things about him and the things that he says about me. some of my friends tell me he might even ask me to homecoming. (even tho i deny it, i reallllly want him too) okay.. one problem. one of my best friends like gary too. she even says she loves him. and then another one of my friends likes him too.
if "gary" DOES ask me to homecoming, idk what to do. i dont want to jump to conclusions, but i just want to be sure.
i dont want to be a bad friend, and go if they really like him. but i dont want to turn down somethig that ould probably only happen once.

mkay, now that i've told you my like story.. lol i have two questions.

-what do you think i should say if he really does ask me?
-from what i told you, do you think he's into me?



thanks for the help.

lost and in love

I would try talking to your friend about "Gary". She wouldn't be mad at you for liking him if she was your true friend. And if she gets mad about it, then she sounds kind of jealous. But just sit her down, and tell her what you told me. Say that you thought you've liked him for a while, but you didn't know for sure. In my opinion, I think he likes you. I would try talking to him about it. Ask him if those rumors are true or not. If he does ask you to homecoming, I would take the chance. Your friend should be happy for you if he does ask you. You really like him, and maybe your relationship will go further than just friends. But if he doesn't ask you to homecoming, I would just keeping talking to him, hanging out a lot, and maybe in the future things will go further. But I wish you the BEST of luck with everything!! Hope everything works out like you planned!


Hope I helped!!


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my friends house is realy dirty > and ii hate going over her house ... there are alays bugs and dust and just dirt all over ... i hate it but ii dont know what to do should i tell her or wat should i do ... like we always have sleep overs at her house and go over but i realy dont want to go over there but she is one of my good friends ... so PLEASE HELP ME !! i dont know what to do >o and should i tell her about ? help please ! thankx always .::* marie [ 14 female ]

I would just try and hang out at your house a lot. Instead of going over her house, invite her over your house to stay. I would just try and avoid going over her house as much as possible. Or one day be like "We should clean." Don't be mean about it, but try and make it fun. Or I would just sit down and talk to her. Be nice about it, but tell the truth. Hope everything works out.

Hope I helped.

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how do you get your boyfriend back that you still really like but he has another girlfriend and there problay not gonna break up anytime soon

Aw, I'm sorry about that. But I would just try and talk to him. Tell him that you still have feelings for him. Him and his new girlfriend might not break up like soon. But just keep hanging out with him, and talking. But maybe he still has feelings for you, and maybe he'll dump his girlfriend for you! Hope everything works out good!! Good luck =)!

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OK i like this guy, Jesse. And everyone who knows him keeps saying he likes you he likes you, but like i can see it i just like cant believe it you know? well anyways, Jesse is really nice, like we met abut a week & 1/2 ago and stuff but like we really hit it off and stuff. WEll it turns out he has a girlfriend, Bethaniee. and i know his girlfriend too. well his girl friend keeps being a little suspicious about me talking to him and hanging out with him cause the last time we hung out it was at my friend Faye's house and we were sitting in her hot tub half of the day talking about random stuff. and i dont know how Bethaniee found out we were in the hot tub but nothing happend so anywys like we were talking on aim and he imed me and we started talkin. then all out of the blue he asked for my cell number. i gave it to him and he called me 5 minutes later. we talked for like 2 hours. Then at like 1 last night he called me and we talked for an hour and stuff then my dad came in and said get off the phone so i hung up on him . then he texted me saying "are u ok?" and "im sorry i got you in trouble" i know i like him but i can't admit it to my friends cause there all like do you like him and i didnt at first but like know i really do.


so my 2 questions are:A.After readding all in info do you think he likes me
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B.should i tell him i like him

In my opinion, I think her really does like you. He calls you all the time, and wants to be with you. But the problem is, he has a girlfriend. Maybe he'll break up with her? But then there will be tension between you and Bethaniee. Is she one of your friends? I would talk to Jesse about it. Tell him how you feel about him, and try and get to know him better. Then maybe in the future, your guys relationship will go to the next level!! Good luck!!

Hope I helped x333

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I just resent went for a CT-Scan test on my sinuses and im awaiting my results. I'm so nerious , I'm thinking the worst, tumors, cancer and surgery!! I went to the dr's last fri and her checked me and her said I had no infection??? Should I really get myself sick over this??? I have had such congestion in my nose nothing releases and my ears congested also?? every medication i was given I was nervious to take!! I had the test done 7/5/05 im sure if there was anything very serious im sure the dr 's office would of contacted me??? Right??? I spoke to there office this morning and I have to get the films at the hospital on Friday, I'm hoping I get the results by then???

When I actually had the test done last night, I had a panic attack, and the technician , told me everything is ok and go home????

Im so so scared?????

Aw, I'm really sorry. Sounds to me exactly like what my mom has. She's had a sinus infection for like 2 years and never gets rid of it. She takes medicine, and nothing works. She went and got a catscan a year ago, and nothing came up. She went a month ago, and got another one, and they found two scists (sp?). They're really nothing, but if they don't treat them right, then they will turn into cancer in about a year. the doctors SHOULD have contacted my mom about it, but they didn't. Now she has to go get her nose broken, and re-fixed. Thennn she has to under-go surgery and gets the scists (sp?) removed. I don't know if that's your case, but that's what it sounds like to me. I would go talk to the doctors, and make them re-check you again. I wouldn't want that to happen to you what my mom's going through. Hope everything goes well!!

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