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im really worried =[


Question Posted Tuesday August 23 2005, 9:46 pm

okay my friend mel is like super gorgeous. one of those people that are wow. but latley she has been pretty insicure about herself. and she is usually the total opposite. it might be because begginging of junior year but im not sure. she has been quite pale and pretty damp and drowisy. then when we went shopping she dropped a full size at AF and half at hollister. im really worried. when we went to in and out she refused her fave burger. i dont know if shes starving herslef or what. im worried she is and im worried shes taking laxitives. should i just comfront her about what im thinking, or should i just let the fase end [ hopefully its just a fase]. i dont want to seem noisy or an ass. how should i do this?

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sunnyville answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 6:43 pm:
Try helping her convincing her that she could still lose weight by eating but she could still eat a burger but make sure it does not have a lot of fat.Tell her to eat normally to live a little because if she keeps doing that to herself she will faint oneday ,when she at least expects it a, she will not feel well like get dizzy,and her stomach will be growling which will mean she needs to eat something.You could also make her want to eat like eating her favorite burger or something very good in front of her but remember you're only doing it for a good cause like a true friend would do is help.

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suicidalkiszxl3 answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 2:44 pm:
well whenever ii start talkin junk about myself usually my best friend will call guy that likes me or used to go out w// me or thinks ii`m hawt or sumthin to make me feel better. try to prove to her that she is gorgeous!! && about the eatinq thinq you could try to HiNT about eatinq disorders && stuff like that && like say somethinq like ii heard that Lindsay Lohan had ah eatinq disorder && that reallyy worries me cuz they are really bad. idk whut ii would do if wun of my friends were like that ii would be so worried. or sumthinq like that!! && if that doesn't work then confront her about it && tell her you are really really really worried about her && you don't want anythinq to happen to her!
hope ii helped!! <33 ...me

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aDrii_bAbiix7Ox answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 12:28 pm:
i think you should sit and talk to her. tell her that you're concerned about her. show her how youre feeling about the situation. its not a sin to be worried and care about your friend. ask her what you think is going on.

i REALLY hope i helped, cause this is a tough situation.

xOxoXXo~~--AdRiiAnA

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Alpha345 answered Tuesday August 23 2005, 11:13 pm:
Hey this sounds really unfortunate for sure. You need to sit down and talk with your friend and express your concerns. There isn't anything wrong with you wanting to be worried over her because she seems to be alot worse than usual. Talk to her and her know your there for her and try and find what the problem is so it can be fixed. Be a friend and be there for her and express your concern, because it will help.

There could be alot of different reasons for why she is now what she is being, but I can't really tell because I don't know her. I hope you find out what it is so it can be fixed.

Hope I helped.

-Ryan

Anything else, just send something to my inbox.

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Ambix3 answered Tuesday August 23 2005, 10:43 pm:
Wow. I'm really sorry about that. A lot of people have been having this problem. Well, I would sit down and talk to her. Say that your really worried about her, and ask her what's going on. Don't like get in a fight about it. Take her aside, or like invite her over or something. Just ask her if everything is okay. Tell her that you'll always be there for her. Friends are the most important part in people's lives. Just be there for her. Good luck! Hope everything goes well!


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