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My name is Kate Im from Ohio and I love to give advices and help out with all kinds of problems .

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Hi! well i had my pariod 4 2 years now and it ALWAYS herts and what kinda Of Pills i should take to get rid of it and is it ushall that there is is soo much blood thanx!

Hi,
I have the same problem as you do the cramps are just real pain. What I recommend that you should do is either take Midol,Tylenol or Advil. Midol is for period pain but the other can also help with the cramps. The blood is normal dont worry about that usually either the 1st day or the 3rd gets quite bloody but as days pass by it slowers down.. Hope I helped. If you have any more questions. You know where to find me :)
Kate

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Theres this guy that i like alot and i think i love him, and he is 19, im 15 and i dont understand wut is wrong wit the age if my mother says its alright, and he asked her if he could ask me out and she said yes but than he never asked me out, and last night i went 2 the roller rink and he wuz all ova this otha girl and makin out wit her, my friend went up 2 him and asked him wut wuz wrong wit him, he said he had a problem wit the age diffrence between us, than y would he let it get that serious i mean me were practually like goin out but he just never asked me, he would come pick me up every night, he would give me a kiss good-bye and everything. Please some1 help me
Tell me wut 2 do
Tell me wut went wrong.
PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP..

Seems like you are just his rebound girl. He is just with you when he is bored and doesnt have anything to do . If he was serious about liking you he would have asked you out straight up which would have showed he cared for you but he doesnt. Forget about him you deserve better. He doesnt deserve your attention!Hope I helped.

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okay
my b/f says he cares
but he doesnt act like it AT ALL.
i dont know wuts going on but like, ill ask him if he "wants" anything and he says w/e u want, and i have been asking and asking him and he never tells me and he has even gotten really mad about it, i dont know what to do, please help..i mean, we do all this shit in teh movies not sex, but other stuff and it seems like he always has other thigns going on...please help me find out what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

if he doesnt tell you maybe its because he is uncomfatble or shy. tell him to write down what he wants that may help.You need to tell him how you feel and that you want him to be happy with you and that your trying to make this relationship stronger by doing that so he needs to let you know some how he wants to be pleased, Hope I helped.Kate

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I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥

You need to tell him its better now than later on . Dont be shy just be like you know i was wondering do you like any one around here and if hes like yes who is it and you .Just say i do and he is really dear to me he will get really curious and would want to know. Good luck ♥Kate

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well i have this friend who i really really like..well we've dated before..and everytime i try to open up to him it seems like he pushes me away..i always tell him i want to tell the guy i like that i like him..yet he know that i'm really talking about him..and everytime he always says go for it and tell him how you feel what do you have to lose..i always say well he hates me and he'll always say "who could hate you?"..yet i still think he does..and i want to know if he feels the same way about me as i feel about him..what can i do? i really need help on this one..it's very hard. please help!

i rate high!

Talk to him openly just like you did now tell him your feelings towards him like he said what do you have to lose? Go for it you never know he may feel the same about you just waiting for you to open up first.Good luck ♥Kate

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Recently, I've been talking to a boy who is much more experienced than me. Not to sound like a prude, but does it hurt getting fingered for the first time?

Yes it does hurt a little tell him when to slow down or stop. Talk him through it and everything will be fine. ♥Kate

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okay well my friends birthday is coming up... shes turnin 16... but her birthdays a a suprise! so i really need ideas for what to get her... her parents are gonna buy her a car i kno... and her bff is buying her a really really expensive jacket... so what are some ideas!! please help! thanks... ill rate

What does she like? How bout a nice perfume ,necklace,earrings,purse,her favorite cd and a gift card to her favorite store. You should see what she likes ask her or try to snoop around and ask her parents if you are not sure enough and what she is into.Hope I helped ♥Kate

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hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss!

Talk to him let him know that he should trust you and that you will never cheat or betray him.Let him know how much you love him by doing something romantic for him maybe like making him dinner and lighting some candles up ,listening to soft music . Seems like you both love eachother alot.Maybe he just doesnt want to get hurt that is why he asked you all those questions.Hope I helped ♥Kate

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ok i have a few questions..

what store can i find a vibrator at?
(or a dildo..etc..)
about whats its price range?

will they let 13 year olds purchuse these kind of things?

any advice on how i can purchuse these things with out my parents knowing?
if it helps: 13/female thanks for any help i can get! i rate!

Hi,
You have to be 18 to purchase any erotic things. You usually find them at a sex store. It will be hard to buy a vibrator without your parents knowing maybe you can get an 18 yr old friend to buy it from you ?? Hope i helped. ♥
Kate

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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?

He is definetly a jerk if he really liked you he would have found/made time to spend time with you ! and being all over his ex thats just wrong it sounds to me that you were just a girl that he was using to get over his ex just like you said. Forget about him u dont need a guy like that. ♥Kate

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hEy! i wanted to ask you this whats the % i could still get pregnet if
1. my boyfriend uses a condom and wen he cums he takes it out
2. im on the pill

thnaks..i want to be over protected!no babys for me!let me know if you know the answer! thanks!

Well see condoms usually protect 99% but you never know if it breaks make sure your on the pill and that you use a condom that is not to tight or to lose so it wont break or slip off then that way you will be sure everything is safe. Trojans are a good brand , if he cums inside you i wouldnt recommend that he continues thats not good even if your on the pill. Hope that helps . If you have any more q's I will be glad to answer ♥Kate

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hey, heres my long question.
ive been going out with this guy on and off for 6 monthes now. the first time i broke up with him was because i didnt think i liked him anymore. then i realized i still had some feelings for him. when we broke up he was sooo sad. he cried all the time, wudnt talk to me, his friends wud yell at me for breaking his heart, and i felt aweful. then when we got back together things were tough, we fought a lot and we both started to like each other less at different times. now im not sure if i like him so much anymore again. i still like him a lot, but sometimes i just dont. im not sure what to do, its summer and were not going to be in the same school next year, we wont see each other very much. i like him a lot still, but i dont know if i shud move on. i dont think he'll ever move on, thats kind of the person he is and i hate seeing him sad when hes not with me. i dont want to break his heart again, but i kinda want to move on.. i have no idea what to do. do you think i should start by telling him how im feeling? or just think it all over and take action. maybe he would want to know? what do you think?

You should definetly tell him how you feel dont just break up with him I have been in the same case and its not easy but if you think that you should move on he cant stop you from that. You can always stay good friends.He will move on he wont be stuck thinking of you forever.On and off relationships are always hard to go through but its better this way then going through it all over again. Good Luck, ♥Kate

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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?

no dumbass answers please

ill rate 5s if you give good answers

First of all this is a HUGE Step do not do it unless you truly love him and know he is the one! Because then you will feel bad about it so make sure you are making the right decision. Well ask him if he feels that you guys should make love ? . You need to ask him if he has had sex with anyone before and if so if he used protection but Guys always lie that they are virgins or that they used protection so i would suggest that you still get tested for just incase .Best protection would be Trojans , you can get them at the Free Clinic or any store,also buy birth control for better protection.If you have any more q's i will be glad to answer. Good luck ♥kate

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I GIVE HIGH RATES!
ok well my sister thats going to 6th grade as a boyfriend and since now its summer she hasnt been able to see him as much and she really wish she could see him a lot more she really misses him. What should she do so she can see him more. She doesnt have his number because they got together at the end of the school year. I really want them to see each other more they really like each other. Please help. What to do so they can see each other more. I feel really bad for them.

yours truley, confused with love

She should like look him up in the phonebook if she knows his last name .Does she know where he lives or any of his friends maybe she can go to his house and try to look for him there or ask his friends about him. Hope that helps ♥ Kate

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ok so my guy friend lives around the block. directly behind me. so i just hop the wall and go through his back yard and im at his house lol..well ive had feelings for him FOREVER. and last time we hung out...he later told me he thought about kissing me...when he said that i didnt want him to know i liked him cause i had a bf at the time so i was like um ew kyle..thats gross. but now we havent really hung out for a while..and i hope he still likes me. hes always busy hanging out with his friend..who happens to be a girl.he NEVER IMs me anymore, i always IM him now. whenever i ask him to hangout..he says umm...maybe. i might hangout with my friend..but ill let u know after i call her. he used to always ask me to hangout..ive already asked him if hes mad at me..hes like no not at all..so i donno whats going on..advice?

Seems like that girl friend maybe he's starting to like her... you need to talk to him in person and let him know how you feel before they hook up if theres a chance due to the fact that they are spending so much time together.So that way he will know how you feel and he can tell you if he still likes you or not so it wont be bugging you anymore.Good luck ♥ Kate

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ok there is this guy that i like and he is my best friends brother.
well i went to his house one night and we ended up kissing and i couldnt help but to fall even more for him...
he acts like he likes me but im not for sure if he does,....
because after that night we went a while without talkin and now we are like the best of friends but i wanna be more/please help the best you can i am open for any advice

Well be straight forward about it and tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same about you or likes you more than a friend. If he doesnt feel the same you will still have a good friend its better to know instead of holding those feelings inside you. Good luck ♥ Kate

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i'm dating a guy who treats me like a princess, but when we're in the bedroom, he treats me like a prostitute. he spanks me(lightly), pulls my hair, and says things like "your're so, so dirty. someone needs a shower, she's so nasty." what's up with him.

Seems like he likes it kinky and wild in bed. Most guys are like that ,by the tone you can understand when he wants it badly haha when he says all those dirty things. Theres nothing wrong with him dont worry he just likes it rough. If you dont like some of the phrases he uses tell him you are not comftable with the way he talks so he can know what you like, be open with him and dont be afraid to tell him what you think and how you want it.If he doesnt listen to you then it wont work out,hope I helped. ♥ Kate

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My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

Its tought alot of my friends moved away , we still keep in touch by writing emails and telephone calls. You should spend some time with him before he moves away and later on you can go visit him or he can visit you if thats possible. Its not easy but there is nothing you can do to stop him from moving away unfortunatly. Hope that helped. ♥ Kate

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is it weird for an 8th grader to be friends with a 6th grader? and not just friends like hey, friends like hanging out after school and going to birthday parties. thanks.

Ofcourse not it doesnt matter not like its a big age difference you never know that 6th grader can be probably really fun. Give it a try dont judge people by what grade they are in ,etc . Hope I helped. ♥ Kate

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Im the 1 who rote about my parents u no about 5 questions down.

They do it at like 11 ocklock and they are so loud i no its normal but they are told and im worried that my mom might get pregnant and people will think badly at her and i cant talk to the normaly you no?

pleeze help me

I bet your mom is taking birth control or they are using protection she wont get pregnant. Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you are worried about that issue. ♥ Kate

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