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How do i know if we should stay together?
hey, heres my long question.
ive been going out with this guy on and off for 6 monthes now. the first time i broke up with him was because i didnt think i liked him anymore. then i realized i still had some feelings for him. when we broke up he was sooo sad. he cried all the time, wudnt talk to me, his friends wud yell at me for breaking his heart, and i felt aweful. then when we got back together things were tough, we fought a lot and we both started to like each other less at different times. now im not sure if i like him so much anymore again. i still like him a lot, but sometimes i just dont. im not sure what to do, its summer and were not going to be in the same school next year, we wont see each other very much. i like him a lot still, but i dont know if i shud move on. i dont think he'll ever move on, thats kind of the person he is and i hate seeing him sad when hes not with me. i dont want to break his heart again, but i kinda want to move on.. i have no idea what to do. do you think i should start by telling him how im feeling? or just think it all over and take action. maybe he would want to know? what do you think?
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i think you should figure out if your dating him because his feelings or yours,First you have to ask yourself do you love him?Then if you realize you don't just tell him that you need someone you love for you not for them,It shouldn't be to hard since you are going to different schools this up coming year.Who know's you might find someone you do love!!!
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I think that you should tell him that you don't really want to hurt him but by staying with him and not liking him will hurt him too. tell him this and when you guys are done give him some time and he will get over it. mention the different schools too. as much as you don't want to hurt him it will help him by you two not being together.
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You should definetly tell him how you feel dont just break up with him I have been in the same case and its not easy but if you think that you should move on he cant stop you from that. You can always stay good friends.He will move on he wont be stuck thinking of you forever.On and off relationships are always hard to go through but its better this way then going through it all over again. Good Luck, ♥Kate
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