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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Member Since: July 7, 2005
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Last Update: August 18, 2005
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i at times have sores on my virgina ,most of the times its a couple days before my period and they disappear after that.they dont itch or burn.is it just a sign to show that am about to have my period. (link)
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It isn't normal it could be herpes or something like that. You should go to the doctor and ask their advice and also how to cure it.
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okay so my aunt just gave my mom and i a waxing thing .. like that real stuff.. that the pro's use at the hair salon and stuff.. well my question is how do you use it? it doesnt have directions and i am thinking .. wanting.. to do my leggs. how do i do it? should i put lotion on before.. or take a shower or what? please help me ... and a.s.a.p i will rate you a 5 for any good answer! (link)
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Make sure your legs are clean and dry then just put the wax on and let it set then just take it off with a a wash cloth if it is warm it works better. If you are thinking of doing it at your bikini line you might not want to because it hurts but there are other things that you can use for that area.
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ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
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That white stuff doesn't mean your pregnant. If you don't have your next period then i'd be worried and you're right you shouldn't of had sex without a condom. If you really want to know then you'll have to go and buy a test or go to the doctors.
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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
I will rate a 5! (link)
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No it isn't unless there is some reason that your friend would have a problem with it. They probably will but you went out with them then she did too so your doing the same thing she did. if she has a problem just talk to her and explain this to her.
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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing? (link)
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You are worrying for nothing. If you put it in correctly then it should be fine.
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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?
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Even if you reach the tallest that you are going to g et your breasts can still continue to grow. Oh and i think you should tell those guys to get a life.
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Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do? (link)
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you can but they recommend not wearing them for more than 8 hours. some people do and are fine but you might not want to risk it. if you don't want to wear one then try a pad with wings and before you fall asleep make sure it is right so that you won't leak.
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i missed last friday's brand new episode of Degrassi! dose anyone know when that episode will play again? thx (link)
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go to the n. com and they have the listings for the show.
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how do you make your advice column pretty? with colors and stuff, haha thatd be helpful and i'd definately rate you!
-meg (link)
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Go to column settings and at the bottom it says visit this link for column backgrouns(or something like that) when you find the one you want you copy the number into the box that says url at the end and click what color your page is mostly on the buttons at the right that say different colors.
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when you buy a mini ipod do you have to charge it?? does the charger come with it or do u have to but it seperatly?? (link)
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The charger comes with it and you have to charge it but it isn't hard you just plug it in.
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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money? (link)
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I think that if you really love him then you should stay with him because fancy stuff is nothing unless you are sharing them with someone that you love. If you can't be happy with having someone that really loves you leave him but you might not find someone else that loves you as much as he did.
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what is this song it is a rock song and i noe girls sing ti and it goes, "why cant i breath when ever i think about you, y cant i speak whenever i talk about you..." can someone plz tell me hwo sings it and what it is called.. thanks (link)
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The song is called Why Can't I and it is by Liz Phair. its a great song!
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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend." (link)
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You shouldn't feel like a slut because you had no idea. i think you should tell him how horrible what he did to you was. i don't think that you should continue being his friend because he is using you and obviously doesn't care about you.
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i've got that eyeshadow from hot topic. i put it on but my skin color shows up in the middle and applying more makes it very hard to see. (bright green) is there anything i could do to make it bright and stay? All it does is fall over my eyelashes. I heard putting concealer works... does it? (link)
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concealer would work at making it stay on longer but it still might not leave it on all day you might have to put it on more than once a day.
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I just finished my period..like yesterday but now when I wipe it looks like there is poop on the toilet paper...AM I GOING TO DIEE...please helppp THANKSSSSSSS..I rate 5's (link)
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you are not going to die trust me i thought that same thing when i first started lol i remember i was so freaked. it is just dried blood
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Hey hey hey... thanks ahead of time. I will rate and leave feedback if it's wanted, but anyways- i dyed my hair about two weeks ago and I absolutely HATE the color of it. I thought that I heard of something called Stripping... which is where you get your hair color stripped and it will go back to your natural color. Is this something real and is it bad for your hair, how much does it cost? Thanks (link)
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there is such thing as stripping. it is bad for your hair but nothing serious like it falling out will happen. it costs about the same amount as dying your hair at a salon. but it also depends on where you go.
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can anybody tell me the difference between karate and tae kwon do please and which invovles more kicking and punching (link)
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those people say that karate is more punching and i don't know much about tae kwon do but i know that karate has a good amount of kicking too!!
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well my boobs are really far apart will they ever grow together so i will have some clevage??
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yup they will come together girl!
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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That is like the perfect guy and everyone wants that. no one will have all of thos qualities but maybe someone does and if you want that person you'll have to get out there and find him. maybe if you find someone without one or two of those things you should settle though because thats pretty lucky!! also guys that are older and more mature will probably have more of those!
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I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!
Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help (link)
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Thats sad that they are going to waste a friendship on something so stupid. try hanging out with other friends and when your gone i'm sure they'll see how much they miss you. if they dont' like being fat they should stop complaining about u being skinny and do something about it. you could also explain to them that it doesn't matter that you guys have different weights. as for being like each other it probably gives them each a little comfort since that are having some trouble with how they feel about themselves.
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