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i need help!! girls only!


Question Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 6:06 pm


ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me??

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cheddar answered Monday October 3 2005, 8:45 pm:
if you've missed your period for that long; and it's normally regular, then you're most likely pregnant. sorry. it's best to use some form of pregnancy prevention, whether it be birth control or a condom. the white stuff in your underwear would be discharge. everybody gets it. just because you have it; does not mean that you are pregnant. you should really get a pregnancy test. maybe buy it and then go to a friends house and use it.. but you should really get one.

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Stefiny answered Sunday August 21 2005, 12:15 am:
Wait. Thats all you can do. The white stuff is normal, even if you're not pregnant. Maybe take a trip to PlannedParenthood and talk to them about your options if you are pregnant. I think it would be wise to take a pregnancy test. Yes, you could be pregnant and not know it for 3 weeks. Go with a friend who has a car, or a friend and her older sibling or something. Tell your parents you're going to stay the night at your friends house and take a trip to a clinic or drugstore to pick up a test (and condoms if you need them). Good luck! I know how scary this can be! And other girls go through things like this so you're DEF. not alone!

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LongLostHeart answered Saturday August 20 2005, 11:56 pm:
I really encourage you to take a pregnancy test...but if your absolutely agaisnt it...here are some pregnancy symptoms:

-Swollen Breasts
-Morning sickness
-Fatigue
-Passing out
-vaginal bleeding
-Nausea
-Being sensitive to odors
-Vomiting
-Food aversions or having cravings for unusual foods
-High Temperature
-Missed period(s)
-Urinating alot

Heres a good site:

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Good luck,dear,and leave me a message in my inbox if you need anymore help

~Long Lost <3

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ESMEDINzBABE answered Saturday August 20 2005, 6:31 pm:
Itz called discharge everyone getz it!! Dont worry and it doesnt mean your pregnant!!ok hope i helped *~*MUAH*~*

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cheerleader4evr answered Friday August 19 2005, 2:41 am:
well the white stuff is a discharge it happens to every1 right before you have your period, and it takes guts to go to your mom and ask her if you could go to the docter to be tested and shell respect you for coming to her, sure she might be mad butt youll feel alot better knowing wether or not your pregnat. HOPE I HELPED!!

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devilspawn_666 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 8:06 pm:
You need to just stop being ridiculous and take a pregnancy test. If you've missed your period by more than a week, you really need to do this. Your parents WILL NOT ship you off somewhere if they found out you were pregnant. If you're not old enough to realize this, you're not old enough to be having sex in the first place. Your parents love you and would want to do everything they could to help you out if you were pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test and find out if you are or not. You need to see a doctor immediatly if you find out that you are. It's important to start prenatal care asap if you decide to continue with the pregnancy.

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x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 7:05 pm:
well i think you should find away to go to plan parenthood and get tested for pregnancy ther because the only other way you'll know is if yuo don't get your period...and that white stuff is discharge it has nothing to do with pregnancy! hope i helped and good luck! &hearts;

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xomegaroni answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:56 pm:
wait until the time of your period. if you skip your period there's a really good chance you are pregnant. well, you are gonna have to tell your parents eventually, because obviously they'll see you growing. if you do it earlier its way better, but you need to be 100% sure you are pregnant. idk your reasons for not wanting the test, but if you skip your period, then there is probably a good chance. you will need to see a doctor soon so you and the baby stay healthy, if you are pregnant that is. talk to your parents asap.

-hope that helped<33

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bound_heart answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:47 pm:
I'm five months pregnant. I didn't know for sure that I was pregnant until I was about 5-6 weeks along. Most women don't know for sure until they're at least 4-5 weeks along. Most home pregnancy tests aren't reliable until your period is due, or a couple of days before. So, yes, you could be pregnant and not know for 3 weeks.

Before I became pregnant, I would have an occasional discharge. Since I've been pregnant, there's hardly been any. Discharge is sometimes, unfortunately, a part of being a woman. It stinks, but it's so. It doesn't necessarily mean that you're pregnant.

I will not judge you for having sex. I will tell you that pregnancy is not the only thing that you are protecting against when you use condoms. When you have unsafe sex, you are potentially opening yourself up to some serious diseases. Just something to think about.

One more thing... I don't know how young you are. I know that when I was a teenager my period was unpredictable. I wasn't on a regular schedule with it until I'd had it for a few years... and even then, when it would come wasn't entirely predictable. Remember that when it's time for your period to come along again.

Good luck,
bound

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CallMeQt97 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:46 pm:
That white stuff dosent mean your pregnat and you should try to stay calm until your next period but dont get paronoid most girls will skip their periods if their under a lot of stress so to really know at your next period you need to stay calm and relaxed and under controled but if you are pregnate you definatly have to see a doctor but you dont have to go to your own if your worried about privacy there are free clinics that can help. you should check if there are any in your area. and just to make sure you should take a pregnacy test and if your worried about your family finding out about the test all you have to do is take it a close friends house. seriously though try to remember there is help out there and to stay calm. also this isent compleatly your fault it takes two to get someone pregnate and have sex. i hope this helps you :)

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sunnyville answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:31 pm:
Try to stay calm down you will notice if you have headaches,or go into a fall,stomach grows,feel dizzy if you notice this go to a doctor as soon as possible and tell him that you want it to be a secret and not tell no one.He would probably have to give you an examination to determine whether you're pregnant or not.If you are pregnant go get help there are agencies you could go to for young pregnant moms or pregnant teens and most importantly for you to tell your ex.You will need his support or someone close to you who could help.You could look in the yellow phone book or call the help hotline numbers.Or have your friends investigate where these agencies are even support groups will help.Also I hope that everything turns out fine for you.If you need any other advice or still on this problem just write in my inbox and I will answer as soon as I can!

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:31 pm:
the white stuff doesnt mean you're pregnent. it could happen even when you're not. and it happens to most girls. you should wate until you're next period to see if you get it or not. and if you dont, then you might want to take a test. take one at a friends house if you dont want to do it at home, if you have to take one that is. hope i helped. and good luck.

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one_of_a_kind_chicka answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:20 pm:
That white stuff doesn't mean your pregnant. If you don't have your next period then i'd be worried and you're right you shouldn't of had sex without a condom. If you really want to know then you'll have to go and buy a test or go to the doctors.

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russianspy1234 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 6:16 pm:
wait until your next period, if you have it then you arent pregnant. actualy if it hasnt been more than 5 days run to planned parenthood (its annonymus) and get the morning after pill.




<b>the morning after pill is a pill that prevents you from getting pregnant.</b>

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