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ok here i go basically this boy asked me out at school i really like him but i said yes then i changed my mind and said no kinda. Because i thought about the other guy who likes me and i did not want 2 hurt him. Now the guy that asked me out won't talk 2 me because i hurt him i don't know what 2 do in college tomorrow someone please help. Thank you.
If you liked the first guy you should of stuck with him.It was sweet of you to think of the other guys feelings but you cant just not date because this other guy likes you. he'll get over you adventually. as for the guy you like apoligize for hurting him and tell him what happen he'll understand.
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I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade. Im not really skinny but medium. I have never been asked out by a guy and I dont really want a bf but I want to be liked. I play sports and am kind uf tomboyish. Also usually I panick if I find out I guy just likes me a little and say something mean. How should I handle a guy that like me w/o bursting on him, is it bad ive never had a bf or been asked out, and should I be more girlish?
guys should like you for who you are and you'll find a great guy who will like the same sports as.It doesn't matter if guys haven't ask you out they might just be shy.
im the movie the hot chick, when the two girls are playing the hand game, what are the words?
Boys are cheats and liars
Their such a big disgrace
He will tell you anything
to get to second baseball baseball
He thinks he's gonna score
If you let him go all
the way Then you are a
Horticultureists study flowers
Geologists study rocks
The only thing a guy wants from you
is a place to put his
cockroaches beetles
butterflies and bugs
nothing makes him happier
then a giant pair of
jugglers and acrobats
a dancing bear named chuck
all guys really want to do
is forget it no such luck!
hi my name is jess ive been going out with my boyfriend for days so far. But today when i was at my friends house a kid in her neighborhood said he was going out with this other girl to. How can i find out with out hurting our relationship if hes cheatin on me.
Ps. he does have a history of cheating when he was going out with my friends.
luv jess
Just straight forward ask him. do it in a nice way let him know that this is something you care about but definatly do not freak out that seems controlling. :)
im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do?
Be honest they should understand and eventually you will get your chance dont worry about it. :)
Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean?
Its safer to use a pad untill you get it but you should be fine unless you leave it in longer than 6 hours then you have a chance of getting tss but i think you will be fine. :)
Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .
Help so i can undersatnd
guys start puberty younger than girls but girls grow faster it will even out later. :)
Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care.
yay i think its okay. its nothing to worry about! :)
OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's!
Omg just forget about her. shes so not good friend matrieal just tell her how your feeling and if she dosent understand shes not worth it. friends dont act like this! and if you have one who dose then shes not a real friend!
i am confused i want 2 ask this girl out but i dont think she likes me but there is an other girl and her friend thinks she'll say yes wat should i do
Why cant you just ask both? you can ask the one you like out first and if she says no then ask the other girl out. thats just if you want to. but if you dont like the other girl who might say yes just dont ask her at all its unfair if you start going out and you dont really like her. :)
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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
I think everyone is capable of love if teens are and adults are kids can be too and not every ones relationship ends in divorce or break-up i know people who have been dating since 8th grade and got married. i believe true love can happen to anyone any age any time.
What does btw mean?
it means by the way. hope that helps lol :)
I am in love with my best friend's ex-boyfriend. I have been for quite sometime. We flirt a lot and everything,but I guess he sees me as just a really good friend. I have helped him through so many problems throughout his relationship my w/ my best friend. Now they have broken up, and I want him. But I can't. He is still in love with her, and two of my other good friends have a crush on him. One claims she loves him, but she doesn't know him like me, she doesn't look at him like I do, she doesn't see what I see. I want him so bad, its like un bearable. But for the longest time, I've been just a friend.I want that to change, but it can't. Unless I want to loose 3 of my friends. (It is a rule of ours that no one can date and ex unless its been many years). I have one more problem, I just recently got a boyfriend, I like him A LOT, and I think about him more than any other guy (besides the one we are talking about), but I guess I just can't get the other one out of my head. I gues you could say, that I love them both, but I want the other one. =/ how to I get him??
You need to talk to your friends and tell them how you feel. they should understand if they dont their not ral friends. its also unfair to keep the other guy hanging if you dont feel as strongly about him. you need to explain to him how you feel about all this too and he might get upset but its life they should get over it eventually. and if you love the other guy give him time and try to make him see how you feel about him. this stuff takes time. :)
i go out with this kid names paul.. and he smokes weed and i dont like the fact that he dosee and hes 3 years older then me and its weird.. and i dont wanna breakup wiht him jus for that but i dont know what i wanna do right now..? what do you think i should do? pleasee help
i ratee welll! *♥hailey♥*
Tell him how you feel about this if he dosent get the picture than you should dump him. if he cares about you he should understand. if he dosent its not your fault and its his lose! :)
I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either)
if you like him go for it his height shouldent matter. :)
Ok heres the story. The guy I am dating now *Matt* and I really do love him I have been in love with him since 6th grade I am in 11th now. And he asked me out in 6th grade but we were to good of friends so I said no and he stopped talkin to me until just recently in 10th grade. But after I told him no he was dating this girl named Stacey and they dated 3 years. He says he hates her and everything and that he loves me and I really do believe him its just that I am so scared that Stacey will want him back and try something and then he will go to her and break up with me. I mean Matt was my first love and everything and I really dont want to loose him. Do I have anything to worry about?
(Stacey cheated on him 4 times and he finally got tired of it)
He says I was his first love he just got scared when I told him no.
Thanks so much!
Trust him. if you two are in love it should totally work out dont worry about stacy and just let your boyfriend know that you love and trust him. but still keep somewhat of an eye on his ex she dose sound like the kind of girl who would try something. but love is strong and it should all be fine. hope i helped you. :)
me and my friend used to be the best of friends and then like all of sudden we stopped talking then lil bit after that we passed notes =p and talked alot and then this year we did stuff together but we used to tell eachother everything and now I dont even know who shes crushing on!!!! its very confusing i mean shes soo nice and she rele cares and well i just wanna be bffs again
Just talk to her about this tell her your feeling confused and that you would like her to understand that you want things how they use to be! she should understand. :)
Okay so my friend said she hates my boyfriend, and always tells me to dump him or she will make my live hell.. she said that i deserve someone hotter because my boyfriend is ugly, and cares about only me. She and my boyfriend are always arguing and it makes me cry, and today she was being really mean to him, and she made him cry, and then me. I dont know what to do..please help!
This is a really bad thing for your friend to do! if she is your friend she should respect your choices for a boyfriend unless like he abuses you or something like that which i am doubting he dose. she shouldent be making you or your boyfriend cry. and you should try to find a new friend who respects your choices and respects you! i really hope this helps! :)
Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse?
Yes. He is touching you sexually without your permision. :)
Okay, so my mom is screwed up. She thinks I should respect her when she has not earned it. She makes me doubt that commandment, because I'm beginning to see that not everyone that births a child is fit to raise them.
She makes six-digits/year, so I'm not looking for DFACS to take me away from her exactly, but does anyone know of some free counseling/therapy I could have her attend, and how to get her to attend? I'm going to ask my school guidance counselor about it tomorrow.
Any other ideas about how I could change her course of thinking (she moved from New England to Georgia--where I am now--and the culture is very different. She has continued to fail to see that.) would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks, guys.
well there is this teen phonebook thingy i have somewhere and i know for a fact that there is a teena and parent counseling thing in there the thing i si cant find the book but i know i have it! if you can find one around in your public library or town hall (thats where i got mine) that would work great for you the people will help you and your mom work things out so that its non confrontational if i find the book i promise ill update okay i hope that helps you! :)