Okay so my friend said she hates my boyfriend, and always tells me to dump him or she will make my live hell.. she said that i deserve someone hotter because my boyfriend is ugly, and cares about only me. She and my boyfriend are always arguing and it makes me cry, and today she was being really mean to him, and she made him cry, and then me. I dont know what to do..please help!
PiKlEz answered Saturday August 20 2005, 11:09 pm: Dont dump him. Tell her that if she is trully your friend she will let you date whoever you think is right for you but you appreciate her trying to help and her caring enough for you to share her ideas on your boyfriend. [ PiKlEz's advice column | Ask PiKlEz A Question ]
mooch789 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 12:30 pm: Well if you guys are friends, talk it out with her and see what's bugging her. And a boyfriend is supossed to care about your feelings; he'll understand. Let him down easy. Say you want to break up but you want to be really good friends. Good luck! Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
xHC0Barbi3x answered Friday August 19 2005, 9:03 pm: ♥ W0W. Personally I think your friend is not being the greatest friend. You should tell her to respect your decision. If you like your boyfriend then thats good. Tough for her. I bet you feel ccaught in the middle. But do what you want to do, dont just go with what other people want you to do. As long as you like your boyfriend thats what matters. Tell your boyfriend && friend they better work it out because you care about both of them! Your friend seems very mean ( sorry =/) She made your boyfriend cry! wow. lol Maybe shes jelous (?) I dont know. Just make sure your being yourself & your doing what you want to do. Good luck babe. <33Lauren [ xHC0Barbi3x's advice column | Ask xHC0Barbi3x A Question ]
cheerleader4evr answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:41 pm: tell her 2 f*** off you deserve better friends! if your bf really cares about you and you him, then dont worry about her shes not you she cant tell you when you to break up with your bf shes is prolly jus jealous that you have a bf that actually cares about you and she doesnt! HOPE I HELPED!! [ cheerleader4evr's advice column | Ask cheerleader4evr A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:29 pm: Tell her that you want her to stay out of your relationship with your boyfriend.. tell her you appreciate that she cares and is looking out for you.. but its just hurtin you alot.. tell her how you feel for your boyfriend and if she cares she'll butt out and let you be a happy girl.. i mean she might be jealous that you have somebody and you dont or she might actually like your boyfriend and not be showin it.. just tell her how it is.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
evilenterprisesinc answered Friday August 19 2005, 11:51 am: Ditch the Bitch.. she isnt worth your time.. friends like that are stupid as!.. i think the main truth is that she is jealous coz your probably spending more time with him than her.. but if she was a good friend she will pull you aside and say "hey, we never get to do anything since you started dating him, whats up?" people who try to ruin good things arent worth being around.. if she talked to you about it.. then its good.. but doesnt sounds like she did.. just tell her you dont want her friendship if she is going to act like a child.. tell her if you have a prob with him, you have a prob with me.. or if you cant accept that im with him, and i like him for him.. then i cant accept your friendship :P
CallMeQt97 answered Friday August 19 2005, 11:48 am: This is a really bad thing for your friend to do! if she is your friend she should respect your choices for a boyfriend unless like he abuses you or something like that which i am doubting he dose. she shouldent be making you or your boyfriend cry. and you should try to find a new friend who respects your choices and respects you! i really hope this helps! :) [ CallMeQt97's advice column | Ask CallMeQt97 A Question ]
S_C answered Friday August 19 2005, 10:13 am: This girl isn't your real friend. Have you tried telling her that what she's saying is hurtful? Maybe you just should hang around both of them at the same time.
But honestly she isn't a true friend, and you should talk to her and if she doesn't listen or at least try, then you should just dump her as a friend. Usually it's "Chicks before dicks" as in your friends should come before any guy, but not with the way this friend is acting. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Friday August 19 2005, 10:01 am: Your friend isn't really your friend. You need to explain to her that you don't care how he looks, it's about who he is, and that you love him. It's not HER boyfriend, and you wouldn't do that to her so don't let her do it to you. If you love him that's all that matters, don't let your friend mess it up!
♥ Melissa [ xRoOxiSxBlOnDex's advice column | Ask xRoOxiSxBlOnDex A Question ]
sk8trash answered Friday August 19 2005, 8:01 am: One word: JEALOUSY!!!! that girl is obviously jealous. n if she was your friend, i thin k she would know much better..go up to her and be strong. I recomend you stay away from her at all times... aww i feel so sorry for your boyfriend..... ive nvr seen a guy cry. well that shows he has feelings. you should try and comfort your bf and diss that nasty girl. shes just a bitch. don't worry about her [ sk8trash's advice column | Ask sk8trash A Question ]
ncblondie answered Friday August 19 2005, 7:18 am: Tell your friend that her remarks are hurting you. If she continues making the remarks after you've asked her not to, I would consider finding a new friend. A true friend is welcome to their opinion, but they shouldn't try to push it on you. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
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