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Hey, My name is Ryan, And I will be your shrink for the day, I have 18 years of life experience, trust me I have been through it all, loss, births (no I didnt give birth silly), Parents divorce, my own bad relationships, I have fixed heaps of relationships, basically, I'm the one who will lay it out straight! if you dont want the answers everyone seems to give like those stupid answers that never really help, then come to me, I condone the realists approach, the ways that REALLY work :D so ask me about ANYTHING..

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ok well im normally the one that trys to answer questions but now its me doin the asking im in need of great help.

im so scared.

basicly im on the pop..mini pill i can only take it 2 hours late..an if i take it late im not protected for 2 to 3 days i think.

i basicly went out an i didnt take my pill untill like 2 hours late an that night i had sex with my boyfriend. this was wednesday its now sunday and i have been gettin rele bad cramps for the last 2 days an been feeelin rele sick in the mornings
i jus started loosin blood. but its not my period im not due...i dunno cud i have Implanation bleeding or like cud i be pregnant im worried please any help wud be much appriciated.

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I know someone who had this same thing happen.. we think it was a mis-carriage..

taking the pill late had her get pregnant.. but taking the pill whilst pregnant basically aborted it causing her to miscarriage.. go see a doctor

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oka theres a boy i like basically in love with well only problem is is that he with another girl yet wanna be wit me but jus donno how to let er go cuz he been wit er for so long how do i sho em i the one he should be wit..

how do you know he should be with you? if he can't let her go its cos he loves her.. and should be with her.. grow up and stop being so selfish.. the world dont revolve around you.. find a single guy..

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HOW CAN I LOSE THE CELLULITE ON MY BUTT AND THIGHS?!
I WANT IT GONE I WILL DO ANYTHING! p.s.; i am five feet, six and a half inches and weigh 132 pounds. am i overweight.?! HELP!!!!

coffee! mix coffee and um cream i think it is.. and put it on your legs.. its a detox and it gets rid of cellulite

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A really sweet guy asked me out the other day. The thing is I was at a party with him (this is when we met) and he drank pure volka. I really hate drinking and I think it's a turnoff, but the thing is he apologized to the girl who threw the party and it sounded like he really meant it. He's such a nice guy, I just don't like the drinking part.

15/f hes 15/m...what should i do? i really want to say yes to going out with him, but i dont know..advice?

you were at a party.. thats what you do at parties.. you drink alcohol.. cut the guy some slack!

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One of my younger friend's boyfriend and her been getting alittle to intimate(touching/using mouth on personal places), and she's only 12! I don't want to tell her parents cause i don't want to get her introuble what should I do?

its only natural.. people seem to be getting younger and younger but yeah.. its a natural part of life to do this kind of thing.. just build a bridge n get over it.. its their life.. not yours :)

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I deleted the question I just asked because I took another look at my car--


So I was at my school's soccer game last night and some kids from the other school keyed my car and spent some good time in it too! They did a real number on my car.


4 deep scratches on the drivers side each from about 1ft-2ft. 2 of them are deeper and actually got down to the metal but I'm not sure if they scratched the metal too. And one super long one in the back all the way from one side of my car to the other.


Does anyone know how much this might cost to fix? By a professional--I don't want to try anything myself.

hope you have insurance, otherwise ur screwed, youd be looking a few thousand, as by the sounds of it it will need to be a complete respray and maybe a bare metal respray, so yeah, hope you have insurance

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So me and my boyfriend were making out and he was feeling me up and stuff, and we were obiously really close together. So while thats happening, I feel him start to vibrate. From his torso down I swear he was shaking or vibrating. My friend says he was getting off lol but wouldnt I have felt it since I was so close to him? it just seems kinda werid. I'll rate for decent advice

is your boyfriend an electric vibrator? sorry had to be asked..

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does anyone know a good website that i can use (pay by mounth) to download songs on my ipod? thanks!

download lime wire and upload them to ipod via pc.. its free

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ok,so,here is the deal,im going to the movies with my friends,there bfs,and this kid i like.my friends know him but i've never seen him in person,only talked on aim.im afraid he wont like (pretty wise)but i've seen a picture of him,and hes realllyyy cute.Im not confident around guys really,but i already know how to solve that. What i need to know is what should i wear for make up? (i have beige-yellow skin,brown eyes,black,long eyelashes and black eyebrowns,brown hair,pink-rosy lips.I look really itlian)I need something that makes me look soo awesome!! I have an ok complextion,some pimples.Would it be smart to go to the spa the day befor for a facial (to get rid of black heads) Thanks a bunch!!

you like a kid? thats sick.. PEDO! dont over do makeup.. ir really is a turnoff

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Okay welll... 13/f and i am getting a white discharge in my underwear and it does not smell good at all. I have started my period so its nothing like that i mean it might involve it but its not warning me or anything. Never have been sexually active either so i dont know how to clean better down there and have tht stuff stop coming out. also. how are you and what are u supposed to be cleaning with down in tht region?Does it help to shave?

YEAST INFECTION!!

didnt you know your supposed to harvest yeast and make bread.. tut tut.. some people!

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i'm 15 and my ex boyfriend is 16.. we broke up back in july.. we'd been going out for 9 months and 2 weeks prior.. we were both of each others longest relationships.. we broke up alot before but this time it was for good.. well in october i found out i was 5 1/2 months pregnant.. ya i know.. he was alittle supportive but not until he found out i was going with adoption because i don't want to be a mom and there's no way i could handle that change right now.. finally in late december he started to call & come over -- it was a big change becuase he wanted nothing to do with me all summer & i hate to admit it but i was even told by 2 counselors & my mother that he was honestly my "first true love" & when he left i hit rock bottom & of course i'm still not over him.. but my problem is -- one of the times he came over we were hanging out as friends & the next thing i know we were making out & doing things we used to like we were going out again but when i asked him later on why we can't just go back out he said he can't just jump back into a relationship but that he truely did love me & i believe it because i'm pretty positive i was his "first true love" too.. so now when we hang out (which is not alot at all maybe 1 time every 2 weeks) we act like we're going out.. we hold hands & kiss & tell each other we love each other but there's 2 girls in my grade he flirts with soooo much & they want him all of a sudden & they are definitely competition material & i know he likes them but don't know if he wants them.. yet he tells me he hasn't done anything with any other girl since we broke up & he just misses what we had.. yet he doesn't act like he plans on having us get back together.. so do you think i honestly have a chance & just need to wait & MAKE him fall back in love with me or is he possibly just using me when no one's around to get what he wants & once the adoption's final he'll just leave again for good..? i'm still madly in love with him & i don't want anyone else - yet i don't want to play friends with benefits if thats all it's going to be but i'd do anything with him if it'd make that spark come back for me.. what should i do??

no.1 keep the kid
no.2 claim child support and screw up the assholes life for 18 years
no.3 you win he loses

lol seriously.. next time you see him.. DONT GIVE HIM ANY! no kissing, no holding hands, nothing.. tell him if he wants it to be that way.. then he has to start seeing you at least 5 times a week for 3 months before anything starts.. if he loves you.. and wants to be with you he will wait.. if he just wants sex.. he will tell ya to get lost.. so there ya go :D

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Last night I fell down the stairs and landed pretty hard on my "big toe" on my right foot. This morning, when I woke up, it was swolen and slightly bruised. It's extremely painful. I went down the stairs to ask my dad about it, and I forgot to walk on the side of my foot; I took a normal step (foot flat on the ground) and it hurt so bad that I started crying. I have a ballroom dance class and a Jewish/Russian dance class this afternoon. Going to a doctor is not an option. My dad thinks I broke it. What I want to know is, what can I do to make it less painful to dance and walk on? I've already taken pain reliever, but should I tape two toes together?
Thanks.

your dance classes are whats out of the question.. the more pressure you put on that toe.. the worse its going to get..

step one: go see a doctor
step two: rest the foot keep weight off it
step three: all better :D

if you go to these dance classes.. its going to get worse and worse and worse

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mandatory shmandatory.. noone can force you to dance.. if its going to cause damage to you then its better off not doing it.. turn up by all means.. but keep of the damn foot

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okay im 15 and im thinking about having sex.. im just worried about shaving.. do guys think its gross if you dont shave? should i shave all of it or just some ? please help!

ALL OF IT!! Take it all off! please.. for your sake.. and the guys.. get rid of it all and take care of it regularly

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I always go on this chat room and i can't stop going. I want to block it for myself but I don't know how and I know I'll get mad when I want to go on it and I can't. What should I do to try and stop going on it?

Whats wrong with chat? why would you not wanna go on chatrooms?

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whenever i try to listen to a song, there is this popup from wmp that says "The source filter for this file could not be loaded." what should i do to fix this so i can listen to songs? 5's if the answer is helpful

What version WMP do you have? try downloading WMP V10..

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i have a peer leading group at my school. my school goes to k-8th grade. so i help little kids in the elementry side with there problems and this will be my first year. in two weeks i have a peer trip to get trained. it supposed to be so much fun its gonna be like a camping trip overnight and i can't wait. but now i relized my sister's confirmation is on the day! if i dont go to the trip, i can't do peer. and i worked so hard to get into, i really have to go. but i feel so bad about missing it. my sister said she doesnt care, but my mom is really upset. and plus i wont be able to see my whole family that is coming for the celebration i dont know what to do =[

I went to my peer thing.. was hell fun.. just hung out all day n played games :D then i got suspended from school and kicked out of my peer group.. fancy that huh? the training thing is fun.. but the peer groups are SOO BORING!!! they never do what they are told and omfg! I went to school to slack off.. not to baby sit a bunch of morons! go to the confirmation.. seems more important than boring peer leading crap

hehe and I though Krapunda High was the only school with peer leading :P

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This may seem disgusting to most and you might feel uncomfortable answering but pelase help me. I am 17 years old and i still havnt done anything with a guy. The reason is i was always afraid i would do something wrong a=or i wouldnt know what im doing. How do you give head anda hand job? please help me.

hand job is easy.. just go up.. and down.. with your hand.. lol! head job.. well thats justlike eating a chick out.. or fingering her.. every chick likes it a different way.. well every guy likes being given head a different way.. some like the chick to concentrate on the head, some like them sucking their balls.. or licking from the base to the tip.. or deep throughting..

personally id rater just finger the chick.. eat her out.. then fuck her :P

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I live in a really small apartment with my mom and sister. Its not even a nice one either. The floors are a different color in each room, the walls are different, the tiles are coming off in the bathroom. Its a really clean apartment but just very ugly and i get embarressed to bring people over. I havnt had a boyfriend in a really long time becasue im afraid he will have to come over sometime and see what i live in.. a dumpster! I dont know what to do im reallu nervous about having one and then letting them see this place.

if the guys loves you.. he wont care where you live.. I couldnt care less if a gf of mine lived somewhere like that..

Hi, My name is Dan, I have been single for 12 months now.

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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.

shave it! more guys would be willing to eat a clean peach than a hairy one.. think about it for a moment.. would you like taking a bite out of a fuzzy peach? no way.. you gotta get rid of that fuzzy crap! lol shaaave away! i have read it feels good too ;) but im a guy so i wouldnt know..

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About two weeks ago my boy friend and i were fooling around and he starting fingering me..before that he had fingered me he had been handeling his dick very briefly, is it possible that there was enough cum on his hand to get me pregnant? Thanks. *i'm almost positive that he didn't have any on his hands though, but just in case*

www.babynames.com

it is extremely highly unlikely that even if he did ave cum on his hands.. its very doubtful that any semen would still be alive.. let alone live long enough to get to an egg

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