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My younger friend and her boyfriend getting to intimate she'
One of my younger friend's boyfriend and her been getting alittle to intimate(touching/using mouth on personal places), and she's only 12! I don't want to tell her parents cause i don't want to get her introuble what should I do?
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It's good that you care. Tell her the danger of what she's doing. Like getting STDs. Tell her that she would get in a lot of troble if her parents found out. Tell her to take it slow because you don't want her to get her heart broken in the end. Basically tell her the dangers. Maybe tell her a story about a girl who got STD's and got in bad from doing what she's doing.
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It's good to see you are so concerned for your friend. She's lucky to have a friend like you.
At this point if you tell her parents she would see it as breaking her trust. Hold off for the moment and talk to her first. When she brings it up next time say something like "Wanting to experiment is normal, but maybe you should slow down because you don't want to get the reputation of being easy. Guys that age are horomone driven and will say just about anything to get what their body is telling them they want, and most will tell their friends all about it"
With my daughters that was the age I started to sit them down and explain this to them. I told them all the things a guy would tell them to get what they wanted. (I knew because I was there!)
They were prepared when it would happen on a date. It was funny because after their dates they would come home and say "Dad you were right he tried saying this and that.
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its only natural.. people seem to be getting younger and younger but yeah.. its a natural part of life to do this kind of thing.. just build a bridge n get over it.. its their life.. not yours :)
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You are making the right decision not to tell her parents.
But what you need to do, is sit your friend down, and tell her she needs to chill down a bit, because it is making her seem slutty. And having a slutty rep isn't a good thing.
Also tell her that you are worried, and you don't like where this is going. Tell her that it might lead to sex, and shouldnt she wait a few years at least?
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