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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to)

I would totally recommend you being on the bottom!

Just tell him exactly what you wrote here...you are completely right about what you were saying.

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My best friend (14) gets aroused sometimes when she watches free online porn...against the law because you have to be 18+.
Every woman + man get aroused no matter what and I can't stop that because it's human!
Should she still watch porn because it makes her horny and she goes plays with herself for about 10 minutes and she's done. I know a bit nasty, but I'm like her sister!

Should I just let her what she's doing? What are things that can make her aroused by not using online porn?

Thanks!

I think you should just let her be.
Let her look at the porn.
It might be wrong to you, but she likes it so let her be.

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Does anyone know of any awesome Hardcore/Emo/Metal/Rock kinds of bands? (Slipknot, etc.)
Thanks!

My sister is really into that kind of music so asked her and these are a few of the bands she told me:


*Bullet for My Valentine
*Angels and Airwaves
*Hawthorne Heights
*Underoath
*The Early November
*The Black Dahlia Murder
*Armor For Sleep
*Haste The Day
*As I Lay Dying

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does anybody know where i can get hoop nose rings because i searched ll over the mall and nobody seemed to ahve them....thanx

I am pretty sure Hot topic has them...

And if you google, hoop nose rings...you get a million of places that have them...

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This isn't really advice, but a question.

There is a song called 'Risque' by Cute Is What We Aim For. Does anyone know if the song goes "Medically speaking you're adorable" or "Gramatically speaking you're adorable"

It has been bugging me for a while.

Here are the lyrics:


I've got birds in my ears
and a devil on my shoulder
and a phone to the other,
and i can't get a hold of her.
and what's a crush to do?
what's a crush to do when he can't get through?

gramatically speaking you're adorable.
and from what i hear you're quite affordable.
but i like them pricey.
so exagerate and trick me.
pretty please, just trick me.
pretty please.

I've got birds in my ears
and a devil on my shoulder
and a phone to the other,
and i can't get a hold of her.
and what's a crush to do?
what's a crush to do when he can't get through?

I'm obsessed and stressed with this mess,
i can't think of things
to write down,
to type down.
and these fingertips are moving faster than these lips.
so you can only imagine how jealous my mouth is.

I've got birds in my ears
and a devil on my shoulder
and a phone to the other,
and i can't get a hold of her.
and what's a crush to do?
what's a crush to do?

I got birds in my ears.
and a devil on my shoulder.
what's a crush to do
when he can't get through,
when he can't get a hold of her?

1-2-3

I got birds in my ears.
and a devil on my shoulder.
what's a crush to do
when he can't get through,
when he can't get a hold of her?

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heyy bailey ♥

i really like this guy, and he's in my french class and we always talk and apparently he likes someone in our french class. my friend told him that i like him, and on friday (the day he found out), he kept walking next to me and bumping into me in the hallway. i don't know if he likes me or not because he doesn't look at anyone else during french (i'm always looking at him), and he laughed when he found out i like him! i see him tomorrow.. what should i do?

thankss ♥

Aww that sounds so cute!

It sounds like he may just have a "thing" for you!

I think you should start off by talking with him a lot...get to know him if you dont already...

And, maybe now that he knows that you like him he might ask you out.

If it doesnt seem like anything is going on right away dont flip out...just give it some time.

Or you could ask him out...

But, just dont be shy around him, be yourself,and be open!

Just have fun with him, and act yourself...that is the best advice i can give you!

So, I wish you the best of luck!
And, if you need anything else just send it to my inbox!

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what are the chances of getting pregnant the first time you have sex? are they less than if you've had sex before?

Your chances are always the same...so use protection!

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ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.

It does not matter if he pulled out or not, you could still be pregnant.

You could also have an STD, just so you know.

If I were you I would buy a pregnancy test ,and follow the directions on the box to figure out if you are pregnant or not...

Then see a doctor and get checked to make sure you dont hve any STD's...

Then you shoud tell your boyfriend!

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okay well yanno that song in that commercial that is like "unbreak my heart, say you love me again, undo that hurt that u caused when you walked through that door and u walked outta my life" and then the guy is like hollywood here i come! well the commercial is advertizing sumthin like identity theft or sumthin.
but i i need to know is what is that song called!



thanks in advance!
x3

The song is called "Unbreak My Heart" by Toni Braxton

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Its time for a new myspace layout... NOT A PICTURE...BUT A LAYOUT

Any color is fine except black

Nothing with hearts or love

Something that is fun and crazy... not too crazy though

I like swirls and cool designs

Something unique.. not whats popular at the time


No repitions of pictures... just something simple but still good

If somebody could give the website or the code... that'll be AWESOME!! thank you! I'll appriciate it, even if it's not what i'm looking for... thanks for taking the time to help

Whateverlife.com


That is the best myspace layout site!

There are sooo many to choose from!

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Hi my name is Mia i am 13 I had a boyfriend but he cheated on me and then went out with my best friend but when she wasnt around he would flirt with me do u think he still likes me? Sinceraly, Mia

I really think that it does not matter if he likes youa or not...He cheated on you, and went out with your best friend...

I think you should just forget about him...he sounds like a COMPLETE jerk to me!

I hope everything goes well!

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what are some good tips for making out.

i know all about the good breath stuff so don't gimme that, i mean when ur ACTUALLY making out or the moment right before, or how to start it..


anything will help, im clueless.

thanks in advance.

It just happens...

Making out isn's soemthing that you have to find the percise time or anything, it just happens.

No one here can tell you when the right moment is, or anything like that.

You and the person you are kissing just kind of have to figure it out for yourselves...

The first time I made out, I just went with it...and it turned out fine!

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female, 15, 10th grade
..
okay, so I've been on and off with this guy Jake for about 8 months now.. so we had broken up in the spring and eventually got back toegether.. but lately, he's become very clingy.. and with school starting back up theres a lot of new guys I want to meet. We never became official after the spring break-up.. so I've been trying to enforce the "just friends" fact. and he'll be like yeah thats fine, but then be all lovey dovey. but lately, i've started to form a crush on this other guy, Tim. Me and him are starting to talk all the time, and he's really cool and fun to be around.. and I'm trying to get away from Jake, yet I still have feelings for him.. like everytime we've broken up or been close to it.. we always end up getting back together.. we're kind of like one of those couples that will always be a couple.. but I just dont know what to do with the whole Tim thing cause I want to get to know him.. and I hate guys that are clingy, sort of the way Jakes starting to be..sorry this is so long haha

It really sound like you want to try things out with Tim.

I think you need to really explain to Jake that you do not think the 2 of you are "officially" going out, and that you want to try seeing new people.

Tell him that it does not necessarily mean that you will never go out with Jake again, just say that you want to try other people.

I know that sounds a little cliche, but it sounds like that is what you want more.

I mean you are only a sophomore in high school...you have soo much ahead of you, so just live life how YOU want to...experiment around a little bit, have fun!

Well, I wish you good luck with everything...and if you need anything else, just send it to my inbox!

Good luck!

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I am the type of girl you would probably classify as a "player". It's not that I cheat on my boyfriend (well sometimes but only a peck with another guy but I tell them) it's just that I always get bored of them and dump them and then move on. I'm in high school now though, and I'm looking for something more serious. I've been so rude to all these boys and basically I feel like I've just used them because I wanted a boyfriend. But my ex boyfriend, who I dumped about a month ago because we never talked and I heard he was cheating on me, well his brother just died. And I feel like this is the perfect opportunity for us to get back toghether. I'm not using "oh my gosh i'm sorry your brother died" as an excuse to get him back, but I miss him and I feel like an idiot. How do I talk to him about his brother and about us maybe trying things again without seeming like it's all about what I want??? Please help me! Thanks!!! Also I just want to atleast talk to him and atleast be friends, because since we broke up we havent talked at all =[

I would give it some time...

Let him grieve over his brother...dont jump in right away and start flirting or anything...

Just tell him that you are there for him if he ever needs someone...

and maybe later you can date him...but first give him some time.

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Well, next weekend I'm going to a party, not for halloween or anything like that, but just for a party. I was wondering what some good things would be to wear. I was also wondering what I should do because pretty much everyone in my grade is "dirty" I guess, and i've never been asked out or kissed or anything, and there will probably be a lot of dancing and stuff like that at this party. I guess is there any kind of things i can do to 'fit it' or whatever, but still be myself?

You should just wear something comfortable, but cute...

Like a cute pair of jeans and a top...simple but cute, and dont make it look like you tried really hard.

and, I do not know you, so I cant really tell you what to do and to still be yourself at the same time...

But, Just have FUN! Hang out with friends, dance, just party...

Dont do anything you are not comfortable with...that is probably the best advice I can give you!

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hi im a 15 year old guy and i like this frosh girl..im a sophmore...i told her the other day how i feel but theres 1 problem she has a boyfriend...i told her and she said she really cared for her boyfriend and that since we just met this year and we dont really know each other that well she never really thought about it and just sees us as friends...this was wednesday night..we havent talked at all in geometry ebcause i thought itd be best to let her come to me not about the situation just to talk in general...so my question is should i talk to her on monday in school or this weekend online if i intiate the conversation or let her initiate the conversation when shes ready? thanks so much in advance

Ok, whatever you do, do not ask her about her boyfriend, or mention about when you told her you liked her.

But, dont let this ruin your friendship. I think you should talk to her, because she is probably feeling very awkward around you...

I also think you should wait to talk to her online, because I just never think talking online can get a point across and it is not intimate at all!

So save it for Monday and i hope everything goes well!

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Is it weird to wear black shoes with a dark blue dress? I have these really cute black heels that I want to wear to homecoming because they make me taller (my date is over a foot taller than me) but I found this cute knee-length blue dress that I want to wear. I have clear heels with silver on it but they're not as high. Any opinions? Thanks a lot!

The great thing about black is that is generally goes with most things...

Your clear heels would probably go better with the dress, but still black is fine too.

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15/f
hey
i did the hole bf/gf thing and i didnt really get along with it. now i just kindof feel like messing around and having fun instead of trying to figure out everything. meaning, i dont want to have a boyfriend, but i dont want to miss out on all the sexy-licious fun things having a highschool bf gives you. the only problum is, the rumors are spreading, and im starting to sound like a slut, and thats really not it at all. i have my limits, and if someone cant respect that i ditch them. besides that, i dont know what to do to keep the respect of other peoples. can someone help me out? just because i have fun doesnt make me a slut, and i dont know how to make other people understand that.

What exactly do you want to do with these boys?

I am 15 as well...and I think that if I heard about someone like you my first thought would be slut...because i dont know you, but really, I do not think you are...

and It is totally cool to have fun like that, I mean you're 15, live life to it's fullest!

Just dont go around bragging about it, or just dont tell people at all...they dont need to know..

Have you tried explaining to peopole that you are not looking to "settle" down because you are only 15, and you want to live a little?

well good luck!

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13/f/8th grade. i really like those leggings (or some people call them footless tights). i love the ones that are really bright neon flashy colors or patterns. i also like tights or fishnets that are unusual or iddly colored. does anyone know any good websites? and please dont tell me american eagle.

Yes, I agree with the other person about Delia's I have a few pair of leggings from there...the website is just delias.com

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Does anyone kno some websites I can find myspace layouts on
I will rate high.. thanks

i really like

http://www.surfourspace.com/premade/index.php?p=4&s=10&c=

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